Mike, I just went on a trip and the girl I went to see was hopeless in true life. I cranky, not so patient and rude little nuber who told me it was not working. I was disapointed of coarse but while I was there, I had to have the atitude, oh well next please because that is why I went, to meet girls. I meet many and I had multiple dates with about 4 I think. Eventualy I had a great time and made some good friends. I did not see many sites. I only say, if it turns sour, chin up and soldier on, as you will still find a good time. I have not been to a social but I would have a look, not evil can come of it. And Mike, the sites are better with someone to show you around. If you go to an agency, some girl will take an interst and the first thing she will ask you is "would you like me to show you the sites of my city". How bad can that be?
I wasn't refering to a social as being bad or evil LOL! Just not my style buddy. If it all turns to crap when I go to see her I will
deal with that then. Maybe I will go to an agency or a language institute who knows? Just an orchestrated social doesn't appeal much to me. We all have to do what is best for each of us.
I don't think any evil or harm can come of a social. It's like you may like Scotch and I prefer Cognac, it's a matter of taste. I will agree seeing the sites with someone else is preferable than doing it alone. Although I've been alone in my life at times and have never been lonely.
Damn finally some intelligent conversation here. I was getting a little irritated with some of the garbage that was here.
Mike- I have never been to a social and I was not telling you to. My advice is only this. If things go bad with you girl meet others. How you do it is obviously your choice but find some company and at least make some friends. I have 2 girls that I still write to as friends and I value it greatly. I meet a girl who worked at an agency as a translator. Nothing happened between us but she translated for me for free and she came to my apartment often just to talk. She wrotwe to me today. If I return to her city she can help me find a cheaper apartemnet and thing. Friends are good so do not look at every girl you meet in the same way. Getting out and about anything casn happen
Acualy, people here think that when I say move on if things do not work out, they imediately think I am saying go to a social. I now nothing of them so why would I recommend one?
Latvia seems to have gotten a lot better - as of last night.... I met someone who certainly has possibilities and I am glad to report she is one who I met THROUGH fiance.com... Details to follow or...maybe not.
I certainly won't tell many details about this one no matter what happens between us...because I met her through this service. But I will report whether things eventually go positively or negatively. (All is POSITIVE so far.)
Annika77 - I would love to answer your questions in detail - but I cannot. Things are too new and I am looking forward to seeing where this will go. And even if things don't work out, as I mentioned above, since she is a member of this service - I will never say much about her in this forum - either postive of negative.
She is incidently the first the first person I have really met who was listed with fiance.com. But, alas, she will be a mystery to anyone reading here.
Good idea jet, besides, dont want to say something untill there is something to say. Or best not to as you nay jinx yourself even by speaking aloud :o)
Just teoretically..is she more eastern type or western type? And did you still think its wrong Baltic states develop? In what hotel do you live? You visited Lido? Are you going to visite Helsinki or Tallinn? Take your girl and go to Stockholm to cruise. I dont know how are the values of Baltic girls but they all like travelling a lot!
You preface your questions with "Just theoretically" and then you get very specific. You may as well ask me her name, her ID number and her phone number. Just as certainly, I will not answer any of those questions either.
But that you ask, after my expressing my refusal to be specific about any aspect regarding this person - reminds me once again about the many sililarities you have to a western woman.
Ah, leave these poor western women alone! I cant write a word and always starts that witchunting! I know you are gentleman. Im sure you are able to generalize and speak about political situation.
"In what hotel do you live? You visited Lido? Are you going to visite Helsinki or Tallinn? Take your girl and go to Stockholm to cruise. I dont know how are the values of Baltic girls but they all like travelling a lot!"....oh I have some friends here who also want to know everything about me and my boyfriend...like what we eat, where we buy food, what we wear and more intimate things...and of course they always tell me "why don't you go out often? don't you like it?"...and they tell me what we're supposed to do...how can I explain, that though we like to go out, after a long working day we prefer to stay at home and have a glass of wine in the kitchen? How can I explain them that people are different, and the worst thing to do is to give people advice about what to do with their soul-mates????