I have a profile on several sites and I found that each site is very different in terms of the replies from the women. I've received hundreds upon hundreds of letters from women on these sites but found that when I write back to the women on russianmatch nearly all of the women don't write back again! I even got an email from one girl saying that she doesn't know who wrote the message that she supposedly sent to me! armyofbrides seems to be a decent site since I actually received phone numbers from the women on that site and I have been able to contact them. origin com seems to be for real also although I found that these sites also may contain a few fakes listed on the blacklist websites. The weirdest experience has to be when this women from Riga wrote to me and I liked her so much I had to do some research to find her actual email address since the ones listed on these sites are not real but from the agencies that the ladies belong to. After finding out her info she quickly replied that she already found her soul mate after only two days from getting her first "please I want to get to know you better" letter to me! Currently I am writing to a few women from the Ukraine since I want to visit there in April '05 but there is one girl from Omsk, Russia who I also want to see but I just can't figure her out! I have her email address, she says she writes her own letters to me from an internet cafe and she does not belong to an agency; she does not have a phone for me to call her and she claims after a few months that she is in love with me! Do Russian women really fall in love so quickly over the internet? She wants to come to the United States to be with me but she doesn't have a visa! I know the golden rule of "don't send money!" and I have told her that since I don't really know her at an intimate personal level then I don't want to send money since I have been asked by many other women to send them money and have come to realize that many of the women may not exist but only as a scam. Although she says she understands I do want to find a way to get her here to the United States. I told her that I will gladly pay for the ticket by using the services of a web based airline ticket agency if she can obtain the visa without my assistance. I didn't tell her but I would pay for the entire visa process too if I could only find out if she was for real. Does anybody have any suggestions? Also what internet dating services are the best and what romance tours are the best? What happens at these romance tours? I am speaking with a few ladies from Kiev and want to meet them in person. How can I use the services of the romance tour to meet them and do you think it is wise to do so? Here in the U.S. I hear so many bad things about Russian women just wanting to get out of their country to live in the U.S. but the people who say these things are usually the people who have never left this country so I don't want to take the biased advice of someone who just doesn't know. Thanks!
In my limited experience the chances of an Eastern European woman getting a visa other than a fiance visa is slim to none. I will be making my second trip to Ukraine in 3 weeks to start the paperwork for my lady to get her visa. I looked at the different visas available and if your lady cannot "prove" to the US Embassy staff that she has a concrete reason to return the they will assume she is going to emmigrate and will not grant any visa other than a fiance visa. For the fiance visa you must visit her and be able to show the Gov. through pictures, airline boarding passes. hotel reciepts ect. that you have made a visit to see her. If she is asking for money for a visa I would be suspect. Also in my case my lady never used the word "love" until after we had met in person and we had corresponded for 6 mos before I went to Ukraine.
"...I told her that I will gladly pay for the ticket by using the services of a web based airline ticket agency if she can obtain the visa without my assistance..."
"I told her I would gladly waste my money on something not worth doing"
You're right in not paying any attention to the negative comments about FSU women, SPECIALLY when vomited by women, lol
American women do not like the foreign constantly growing competition from europe, asia and south/central america.
hey hey hey....enough dissing american women, damn it!!!
They DO have a pulse...all you need is special instruments with a long probe to dig under their fat rolls to get a reading.
And they display more brain activity than most american men ever do.
That's why most marriage contracts are signed WITHOUT a Prenup agreement. Pity, really...<sigh>
How do you know if she is real?
How do you know if she is really interested in you or your money or country?
How do you know she was scam?
For a start if she is 24 years old and 6 feet tall and you are 40 years old with a small belly showing and you are considerably shorter like a few inches its hard to buy that she is real.
This happenned with me with a 24 year old Kiev girl. Letters were polite but short and she only used my name once at start of letter and it appeared a lot of letters were just form letters..pre-prepared with my name stuck in and a couple of lines added.
Sometimes the letters were repeated like they had been mass mailed at once or things previously said had been repeated.
These are sure warning signs that she may not be genuine.
About the 4th letter from her she talks about a sick aunt with cancer and she has no family and her family is powerless to help financially with the medicine and hospital treatment..never asks you direct for money but tries to play on your sympathy in the hope that you send her some as a token gift of sympathy but there is no sick aunt so she spends it on herself (I DID NOT SEND MONEY FOR THIS!)..another sure sign something is not right about the girl.
I corresponded with her for 8 months, made telephone calls etc and sent her some gifts and in all spent a little over $500 in phone calls, postage and gifts in total and then she suddenly writes to you less and appears to loose interest..$500 for a girl I never meet..sure sign it is not ok
Then found her registered on heaps of marriage sites 8 months into the correspondence..Google search scored 69 hits on her..on 69 sites so she is well spread around and then I confronted her about it and it got offended and ran off and then sent me an email for me not to write to her anymore...SURE SIGN THAT IT WAS NOT REAL AND A SCAM.
THIS IS THE STORY OF A PATIENT AND SMART SCAMMER WHO HAS NOT BEEN CAUGHT.
Just some tips from a learned person who learnt through stupid mistakes and been kinda scammed..this girl I had feeling she would pull the big scam at the personal meeting and rip me off financially big time.
Elena Rays 25 of Kiev 182cm tall and 75kg with profile number gt6354 on Angelika affiliates..you need to be careful with her..suspected scammer but not conclusively proven yet and the girl can be found on Bride.ru #125338 which is 10 month old profile now and quite old. Address sold to at least 9 other men according to Angelika web..anyone in correpsondence with her take care.