Hey jet I've been there several times and i was confused for a while. You know me by a different
Name that isn't here any more. It was changed because my fiancee rolls thru here from time to time. When i meet the one we had written for about 6 months and she wad asking me and get mom if it was possible to fall in love thru letters. I was going to meet her but only remain for a few days s I had 8 other women scheduled to meet. She was 20 years younger than me and 100 times I asked myself why I was wasting my time with such an impossibly young woman. When I first saw her i said to myself "my good she's beautiful, and so very young. I'm wasting my time here. I'll spend the 2 days then on to the other women".
Holy jeez, she was perfect. Everything about her was perfect. She is the woman i had always dreamed of. Well to make a long story short, i never went anywhere and remained for the 18 days spending each one with her. There wad never any question and even meet her parents a fewdays later. I was kind of tripping on the age thing then she dropped a fact on me that fixed everything. I asked what about the age difference, then she told me that she was married to a man from Odessa first. She was 18 and he was 41! The age thing seemed perfectly NORMAL to her! She also told me her first marriage broke up because her husband was weak and let others, her family, his family friends make decisions that were his to make but he could not.
Tom Shea...did she in fact fall in love via your letters?... and if so,looking back, what's the best way to "push these women's buttons" by means of a letter in your opinion? Any other pearls you can throw will be appreciated.