Bill
Well spotted!! I also questioned her about that. She said something about they threatened her with expulsion if she tried to give her email out. Stupid of course it is a canned email they send out using a filter. Ice Queen very appropriate believe me. The woman has zero sense of humor.
She says to me "I hope I will not disapoint you"
I said "do you chew tobacco"
Oh boy that went round in a circle !!!!'
After 5 years in America and 4 visits before that you would thnk that she would know something about American life, had no idea what I was talking about. Finished by saying "Do I look like a man?"
What an idiot ! (me or her?) {er, both of us :}}
Adventures in dating and practical poverty management.
Have you decided that poverty is the correct choice for you. It has many advantages. You will never have to worry about losing anything ever again and soon you will not have to worry about anyhting again because you will be dead. Yes, it is true. A steady diet of macaroni cheese, even if it is home made will kill you.
So if you are woreid about all ths e extra dirty filthy dollar bills that you have lying around just getting in the way we have the perfect solution.
A RUSSIAN BRIDE
Yes folks a Russian bride is just the thing to bring on sustained poverty. A new way of life is just around the corner. She will be right there as your finances are drained away in countless plane tickets and visa charges. She will help you spend that last dollar on just the right present for her. Lastly to make sure that your income stays in that happy zero state she will arrange for plenty of money to be sent back to mommy in Moscow or Chelyabinsk or Ekaterinburg or anuy other Russian city of your choice.
Yes folks poverty a new way of life. It awaits you in Russia. Let us allow a Russian woman bring this gift to you. You owe it to yourself :))))
Izi
This is why I like Russian women as well as they have beautiful skin and like sex and well put their all into a relationship.
Below is what I wrote to a mate just after my return to Kiev yesterday morning.
Don’t get hung up on the Pretty Face bit. My lady is 38 and look 33 with make up on and looks 38 without -- OK
BUT she is beautiful, more on the inside than the outside. She is sitting beside me now knitting a jersey for my 48th 0n Friday. She has been knitting this for 4 weeks now.
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Anyway Lena is back to her love of cooking and is making Apricot jam now, we have only got off a 13 hour overnight train ride and she has washed the floors – vacuumed the house – unpacked the suitcase – walked 1.5ks to the supermarket and back, carrying all – washed all the fruit & veggie’s and de-piped the apricots and then washed herself. Shit I must go and tell her she forgot to do the cloths washing (which is done by hand in the bath tub) No – she got that under control too – the cloths are already soaking in the bath !!!!
Sorry Maxi looks count in a very big way. Points are deducted for that I am afraid.
One of the main points in getting involved with this in the first place is because it is possible to find a beautiful woman who would not look twice at you in America.
Jam makers are readily available in the States. I want the full monty mate. Not a compromise. This is serious stuff. Bringing a woman back here is a full time occupation and I want my moneys worth. I want somebody I can look at and say "wow I am so lucky". That is how I felt with Marina and I will not accept less.
Christ - she just tells me, someone had mixed salt with the sugar and she has ruined the whole batch of jam. It has not bother her, she only angry the cost of the fruit wasted.
look why get involved in all this?
Because you think she has a positive outlook on life?
She loves to build the 'cosy' home?
She picks mushrooms?
No be honest the reason is because she is gorgeous AND the other things are there too. In America there are all kinds of problems. They are not female anymore they want to be female men. They want to renounce their feminity. They distort the ancient order of things. And that does not mean that I am a dominating tyrant. far from it as my ex wife would tell you. I am totally benign. However at this point in my life I know what I want.
I do not want someone who has to rely on makeup to make me go goo goo. No I want the real thing. In America that is pretty much impossible. Over there it IS possible. I do not criticize anybody else here it is just my own view.
I want looks, the ability to keep house (not be a slave I will do my share), sexual competence goes without saying, she must be willing to work and a little love would be nice too. Most of all I want her to be ready to BE loved.
All I am advocating is a little truth that is all. I like 'em beautiful. Sending flowers to have a picture taken candidly is an excellent way to double check. This studio pictures are VERY deceptive. Everybody looks good with careful makeup, great clothes and a pro photographer with a talent for lighting.
I want someone that makes me want to go to work late. It is totally possible I have already had 2 like that. I keep searching for the RIGHT one. She is out there.
I criticise nobody here we are all different. However I know what I want and will not compromise. I already did that once and that was enough. It is too time consuming and expensive to make too many mistakes.
Izi
You might have the wrong impression of my Fiancée’s description. She is beautiful and back home in little old NZ, all my mates and most men in my local town will be thinking what you want your mates to think about your future lady. She wont cause traffic jams - but she will get plenty of looks.
BUT - more importantly - her and I are TOTALY COMPATIABLE - OK !!!!!!
This is the golden recipe to success and long lasting in any relationship. She loves me to bits, hence all the jam making - knitting - cooking of wonderful dishes etc etc.
She is so devoted to this union and our future together. My family can see this in our photo's together, that I have sent home.
I know and have had MANY opportunities in this last 6 weeks here in Ukraine to have pulled some real Pretty faced dolls.
But Izi - I am old enough and wise enough to know 100% - it would be a waste of time - yea great romp in the sack for a few months maybe (mind you I have NO complaints with what I have now)
I know it would not last - but then I know I am not a person that would last with someone 25 years my junior.
I am saying to you and others here – try and keep a sensible balance. You can get both – Looks & Good Wife !!!!!!!
Maxi you talked me into it. It is Ukraine for me and it will be Kherson. Pity the flight is so damn expensive because this needs to be done several times.
Thanks for the website on the other thread. Orbitz doesn't seem to be a great way to do this although they have the cheapest flight to Odessa. About $1600 at the moment. Add in $900 for the tour and at least another $1000 for 'stuff' and this little jaunt is adding up.
Not to mention the cockup in New York this weekend and a wasted $200 on a Russian visa.
I am going to need a second mortgage!!
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I will find a way I always do. I can't wait to get started.
do you guys know anything about ASAP tickets ( IATAN ) ? I have had my eye on them for a while,and was just looking at roundtrip Odessa tickets for under a 1000 dollars ( 675 I think )
God Spirit!! I need to check this out.
Do you get a seat on this flight? Or is it the sling thing? Just suspended from the ceiling on a hook?
I can't believe that price. I could actually make my way to Chicago and then punt to Odessa.
You can't rely on these engines like Orbitz or One Travel. You have to dig around I have found.