Hmmmmmm??? I come to you Russka and I pull your hair each hair by hair. You leave mi Gustavo alone, you listen to me, he's MINE, you hear me dear? oi-oi-oi-oi I come with big kitchen stick to your country!!!! Mi Gustavo was like a rocket and now he's upset and can't get it going!!! oi-oi-oi you took the bullets from his gun. Entonces Russka if you write here again, you understand? I come there and I will hurt you, and think of me like a male toad, big and built like a building.
I have fired a few subtle missiles into this forum over the last 6 months trying to get some men to see reality and common sense logic.
The chances of a relationship having compatibility, substance and long lasting – are almost nil too none – when the age gap is over 15 years. I personally think 10 years is enough.
If you read Toads letter to Lena (the one she posted back onto here) you will see the answer and confirmation of my scepticism.
I have been involved in this FSU dating scene for 30 months and I also fell into the trap of chasing the young and beautiful to begin with. My 1st Lena was 15 years younger than me and after my second trip to her, I came to my senses and owned up to myself – that I was after the wrong qualities and wanted a trophy and not a wife and partner for life.
I have now found my perfect partner for life – I think I have been very lucky in finding my Lena No:2 – but I have put an enormous amount of time (wont even try and calculate the $$) into this search.
Anyway – I am not posting this to have a crack at Toad – I just want some of the posters and readers on this “very good” forum to learn something from this.
I also salute Toad for having the Guts to make this Post – he could have gone away and said nothing – I just hope his fronting up doesn’t end up being an open forum relationship break-up – “shit fight”
Mr. Toad, please email me to begin discussion for a new show that we have here at Telenovela Enterprises. We have a script perfect fit for you. Title "The Toad Diaries" or if your prefer "La Tenelovela de Toad" con Toad. $$$100+ per episode, reach your financial goals immediately, don't miss opportunity to give pleasure to thousand latinos in los estados unidos. Email now!
A quick explanation.
When Toad is refering to a Cali woman he is not refering to a woman from Cali, Colombia. He is abbreviating the word California. So whoever that idiot is why don't you stop exposing your lack of understanding of this whole situation.
I understand Lena's position and I find absolutely nothing wrong with the letter that Toad wrote. It is honest and respectful.
I could but I am not going to say another word about this situation except to tell you WT that you do not understand this totally and it is not what you think. Please believe me. This situation was unavoidable and if I had reached that same point of filing papers with Marina I might have found myself in the same boat. His reasoning I agree with completely.
I dont even know you toad, but that made me kinda sad, I'm sorry to hear about that man, I wish you all the best. I'm starting to get scared, is this search for an intelligent classy FSU woman going to tear us all apart?
I was just wondering, cause there is this dynamite girl I've been talking to mate, and she keeps pointing out that she's pretty and what not, and that guys end up liking her for only that reason, but I learned about the time I hit puberty, that could be something masked, but then I haven't spoken with many russian women.
Senor Toad, this is a real opportunity, I promise I make you a big star in all Latin America and South Los Angeles. I promise I will make your own personal web site with VIP forum. You can invite all your friends with personal email. Do not miss opportunity of a life time. Email today. Tomorrow this opportunity not available. Kindest regards, Pepito.
Alfonso "Pepe" Gonzalez
President, Telenovela Enterprises
Now I know I will never regret making the decision I made.
But I still disagree with the Big Rodent about the age difference thingie.
Despite her young age, I found more appealing and compatible traits in Lena than in any other FSU woman I ever corresponded with.
So I will never again preach against or become suspicious of any age difference.
I think it's more important to have the ability to recognize a young woman's willingness to learn from an older man's experience and to follow his lead instead of digging her heels at anything he proposes.
I own up to my unwillingness to compromise my fundamental beliefs about marriage and how to go about building a hopefully successful one.
Anyone, including Lena may feel free to demonize me for it all they want, but unless I hear reasonable arguments to change my mind I will always go with what I believe is the right thing to do.
Good luck to all and I really really really hope Lena's pain passes soon. She is a good woman.
The member said: "Lena, Toad has made you famous here, he has painted a rather enviable picture of you on this forum, and all know who Lena from Siberia is."
Translation: Lena you should be grateful and on your knees to this latino bozo for making you a robe in this forum in order to advance his sick ego among a bunch of faceless identities. This is how "high" he was thinking about you. He described you as an experience, this great adventurer, and explorer of the east. Having read this person's diatribes for several months, I understand the way he treated you and realize your pain. Notice though something useful in the future: how many "members" identified with the bozo and justified his behavior. They exposed themselves and they showed you what you can expect from many others as well. The bozo is not alone, there are tons like him.
P.S. Perhaps mommy didn't breast feed baby toad, so he has the need to dominate other women.
Hey Plateus, I have herd of Yaroslavl there is arourd
2 Million People in the Area. It's in the North central
area of Russia. It is suppose to be very nice there from what I hear.
If your connecting with A lady from there or anywhere Just be yourself
you will do great.