I have been corresponding with a lady from Russia for almost a year. Lately I have been seeing indications that are disturbing in the direction that our relationship is moving. It seems like she doesn’t have much time for us. I e-mail her at least three times a week, but she will only reply once a week. I call her every weekend and we talk for at least an hour. I understand that she has a busy life and she has a lot of reasonability at work. Should I decision these issues with her or just relax and let nature take its course? Is this normal in this type of relationship? Thank you…
I really don't think anything is normal in a Mail order bride. Are you subscribing to somewhere or sending money? Something that would incourage her to keep you going? If not then I would say bide your time and relax, human nature is exactly that and just because you have been corresponding for a year doesnt mean she is head over heals for you.It doesnt mean that she isnt, so long as your not paying out the wazzo for your commincation time is on your side.
JW2002
You really should set the date when she will see you. Don't let this question (about losing her attention) bother you at all. As an old saying goes "If you are afraid to lose something, you will lose it". If you are disturbed, then it's bad news already. Just tell her WHEN.