I believe that I have found a wonderful Ukrainian woman. Her name is Inna Savina. I visited her in July of 2005. I was treated royally by her and her mother and father. I have been very satisfied with the results I get from the agency where I met her ( see the site through http://www.computerbrides.com )I have never been treated so well in my life and I have been all over the world. I sent her nothing before I got to know her. She never asked for a single dime. She never played on my sympathy with sad stories of need to try to get me to send money. Now, that I have been there and feel that I know her (you never know anyone completely) I am helping her a little every month while we wait for the visa paperwork to be approved. Of course, doubts sometimes creep in, but that will all pass once she is on the plane and coming to me. I believe that we are both being realist about things and see them the way they are. I have begun to put our story and some of my poetry to her on my sites www.innasavina.com and www.inna-savina.com. Good luck to you in your search. Think positive, be realistic, and use your head. Your heart can come in later.
There was at least one honest agent...:-) Guess who? Sorry guys for not being able neither to put the work of my agency back on the rails nor to share at this forum for a while. Simply my business is developing in far more stressless(mostly for my wife:-) and far more profitable directions. Actually what makes me still have my hand on the dating industry's pulse is the strnge attraction I got to this sphere during these more than 2 years. Damn! At least I have aquired stories that may become plots for not one ladies' novels! Shine and misery, a strange mixture. I bet that 30$ a month is anyway worthy the experience you guys get here.
I still don't have a
universal way for you to find a good bride with less mistakes and losses. Sorry, newcomers, you will be hertbroken and deprived of several thousand dollars before you find success if you in general find one. Don't treat a Russian woman in the context of her ethnic background. Don't focus only on Russian or Ukrainian women, I am sure that you chosen one can live across the street from you. But what if she lives in Tomsk, Mariupol, Minsk or finally Lugansk? But really try to take the woman as a person of the world, it doesn't mean too much if she is French or Udmurt, really good women can be found in any nation. In American as well!!! If it wouldn't be so, your mother won't be the best woman ever for you. And don't begin that nonesense that everything has changed since that old good times!
Don't hope to save on your Russian woman. In this case you won't be dissapointed if your hope doesn't fulfill but will be pleasantly surprised if your Russian beauty will be not too demanding. Although my approach has alwys been that a shining diamond needs a luxurious background. My wife will have everything although very few of our women can dream of at least half that I am giving her. This is again for you, stingy gentlemen, don't ever think that if an average salary in Ukraine is 200$ than your girl MUST be happy with the 100$ you give her. That's a matter of self-respect.
Don't lie. Never lie. At all don't lie. To her agency, to her, to yourself. 90% of you do, unfortunately. This is normal, most of you guys have been in the constant unsuccess situation for I guess not less than 5 years. This may be just one-sided situation(no good with women around) or many sided(plus no business or career success, family problems, sexual life below average). In such situations people begin to lie wishing to seem better than they are. I guarantee you that if you lie to her showing off, or lie to yourself developing a story that you've been just underestimated just by the local women and women in Russia will see what a superman you are despite your croocked legs, long nose, bold head, bad teeth, pounchy figure, no communication skills and constant lack of money - you are big mistaken. As Cast once was meditating - don't claim to possess a 9 while you are 5 yourself. May be your American passport gives you a couple of extra points but while you are in Russia only and not for a long time. It is hard to jump over your own head.
And finally be patient and flexible, learn to wait and forgive because you yourself will have to be forgiven many times.
Ok, as soon as I write the first book, I will let you all know. And only dare not to buy it!:-)
Oh, in answer to the question, Any Honest Agents Left-I can not speak for every client he has served, but Felicedate (aka Alex) has been more than fair and honest with me-even to the extent of advising me not to send him money for another visa.
I find it amusing that someone with "drag" in their nick would bring up shemales?? What is it with Shemales with your and Martin??? thats 2 insect whores on the forum now
I had an experience recently, which angered me. I found a lady though fiance.com and after very encouraging communications for awhile, I was put in touch with her Agency, A Bride To Be in Yoshkar Ola. They wanted me to pay $49 a month for communications through their site. I stated unless my lady was going to take her profile off line it did make any sense to me to narrow my access to just her if she wasn't to that point. My lady, whom I thought we had really connected, wrote back and stopped our communications due to our differences. Obviously, she must have been working on a commission or she was a fake from the agency.