Yeah, I have some advice, find another forum to post you BS in. Why in the hell would you care one iota about Rickyr, unless he got the woman you wanted Amir? Maybe you should go help Amir pack and he can give you some advice on where to live in Europe?
Ignore the insults Joe. i sympathise with you Joe. it is a pity you can not get constructive comments on this forum from certain people. i myself believe in giving sensible constructive comment.
Do not send Money for any reason.
I was contacted by a Woman (26 year old Fagliya Kortokova) who told me she was coming to the USA to work. Perhaps we could be friends. She contacted me from a Yahoo.com account to Metrodate.com. Later she told me that she had overspent and could not get her ticket, "could I please send her $970.00 so she could purchase her ticket." Gave me all of the Western Union data too. I went to Delta, to prepay her ticket, the agent told me, "she already has a business class ticket paid for by some from Stamford CT. using a MasterCard. Cost of the ticket was more than $4,000.00. Needless to say I did not get her a ticket or send money. I have not heard any word from her since I wrote and told her that I was on to her scheme.
A friend who is an Aeroflot Flight Attendent told me to avoid the young women. She said that they are not all to be trusted. Eye Candy is fine, but a real friend and partner suit me better.
I have traveled on my own to Sevastopol two times, and I have enjoyed my time with the second lady, the first was just out to get what she could and was 8 years younger than my dear friend. My friend sent me SMS messages and so I had to learn to text her back, and I have her home address and e-mail address too.
The first enjoyed my vacation, and I enjoyed my return for Valentines Day with the second one. She was shocked when I entered a flower shop and bought her 11 long stem red roses. She was really pleased.
You answered you problem from a post over a year ago. Why is it so difficult to not send money to a woman you haven't met yet. Remember these girls were living their lives they were used to before you showed up to their doorways. They were getting by just fine for their lifestyle.
The other problem is, if you had such a traumatic experience you said you had. You should have shelved this idea for a time until you had come to terms in your life over the things that transpired. I looked into this about 8 years ago when I first got divorced and I dropped the idea completely. Reason being I wasn't emotionally ready for this, no way no how. I took time for myself until I knew I was ready for this challenge. I didn't want to shortchange myself and make a horrible mistake with a woman. For her sake and mine. It was 5 years later that I started this search.
There are risks involved in this search. Emotional and financial. Both you have control over. Especially the financial. If 100 guys say don't send money and two guys say it's okay and then there are 20 guys bitching how they got ripped off sending money. Who gave the best advice? Kind of like the boy scout theory on safety in numbers.
Then guys come on here and make it a mission in life to destroy some woman, whether she's a scammer or not. If you have a problem deal with it. Though don't expect not to get flammed here because your lack of good judgment. And it's really not doing anyone any good here to hear about some woman who burned a guy. Anyone who is attempting to do this should have researched this first. Hell I knew about scammers before I ever made my first post on this forum. I read and researched and understood the methods they will use. If you don't exchange money, then you can't get scammed end of story.