Hi all,what is it with those young ladies,I am 53 years old and I recieve tons of emails from young gorgeous ladies.
Don`t they want a younger man,or do tehy all want a secure life.
Emile from the netherlands
Of course mate they want a man secure with brains mate you wont find that in a man under 30 your into meathead territory there .
Don't knock it except it mine is 26 iam 49 and if i ever had one over 34 id reackon id missed the boat .
Savour it the girls got class maybe cost you a $$ who cares you can't take it with you .
I am new to this site, and I have met a girl 26 and I am 50. It had been a real concern to me. Is it part of their culture and it is OK for them to be with an older gentleman? I have liked this woman so far. I am checking out others, but this one seems to catch my eye.
What i've done if i've received an e-mail from a far younger girl, is say sorry but the age differences is too great,one girl wrote back to say she wanted A man of my age and was quite insistant, however at 19, i thought she was too young as i'm 35, shame as she was Damn fly.
A young girl and much older guy is not common for Russian/Ukrainian culture... it's a myth cultivated by dating websites :)
Well... if you are 50 and you get tons of e-mails from girls 19-25 it means that you 100% are getting prewritten massive spam, the agency don't mind keeping you on the hook... who cares??? you come... meet a girl and she will eventually tell you - sorry, I changed my mind. 95% of all people comming to meet a girl are men after 40. It's always better to be realist and pick up girls not younger than 10-15 years...
Also, you always have more chances if you don't go for girls younger than 25 years old - most of them are not serious and if you are much older they probably will use you as a green card :) and tell you goodbye after they get a citizenship.
It's quite possible to get a serious and young girl if she already has been married and has a kid, these girls already know real values in life and have no time to play games. As for me I think they are perfect to be good wives.
It's true what you said Martin, i'd personally feel a bit of a paedo with A 19 year old, 24 is the youngest i'd go for, not just on a sexual basis, but looking at it realisticaly, if it is to last, probably hard enough with difference in cultures let alone her wanting to go to a club, when i'm ready for a Horlicks :-))
Gentlemen, It has been too long since i have been on this site, but after looking at this thread, I feel this subject needs some attention. Some of you gentlemen are right to be suspicious. These young girls who are chasing the fiftysomething crowd are interested in your $$, secondly the visa you will get them, and then lastly... they look for love. Lets be real boys, girls who frequent these sights are mostly the dregs of FSU society. Sure, some guys have found some real gems, but those days are over. The good girls have been scared off by sex tourists and keyboard romeos, leaving only the scammers, and the psycos. I used to believe in true love and lifelong marrige, but if you play this game too long, you get burned too many times. I am the younger man that would be perfect for some of these girls, but when they learn i am merly a member of middle class america, see ya later!!! These girls already live am average middle class lifestyle. America offers nothing special for them. BUT!!! If they see a guy with the BIG $$, they cleave to him. They would marry an older guy in a second for a chance to live a wealthy pampered lifestyle. Just don't expect fidelity!! Now as i write this, i do not wish to demean anyone who has found true love on sites like this one. It is possible to find true love on this site. It is just not probable. If you got the big bucks and lots of time, then sure give the FSU a try, but this is a rich mans game. Middle class???... go to Asia, but be wary, the scammers are exploding out of that area as of late. (i just got back)
Moderator, i am sorry to slam your site, but i offer only my experience of traveling to a dozen countries and 4 marrige tours.
vivalasvegas speaks some factual truth and I agree with much of the content of his post. The guys that went for FSU ladies immediately or soon after the break up of the Soviet Union had it relatively easy, I set out on the venture in 1998 and it was difficult enough then but now the whole scenario has become by too far commerialised, both by agencies and organised crime (scammers), and I can only say how relieved I am that I am not setting out, or involved, in this venture now.
Oh Viva how I agree! I recently wrote something to that effect myself in another thread. 100% true, every word. The best of luck looking for your needles guys you will need it. The haystacks are waiting.
Internet writing alone doesn't mean a thing. Substance doesn't come into play until you call her. If you can't, stop! Girls don't care if you end up taking the trouble to travel. Most may not even see you once. Natural progression should go from writing to calling to visiting to dating to sex, and if it does not follow this order, there's something wrong.
I've been dating women many years younger than myself here in the States for many years. My experience suggests that a 10 to 15 year spread is about all that a thriving relationship can handle. I suspect that the open-mindedness required of an international relationship might support a few more years, but not many more years. After so many years you are simply "generationally different." No doubt it will be a thrill for the first year, maybe two. After the honeymoon, when the "swelling goes down," the reality of making a life together sets in. I'm simply not dilusional enough to believe that some (then) 50-year old hottie, who is now 25 years further down the road, is going to be happy to be pushing my fat ass around in a wheelchair when I'm 75 !
It was only two years ago when America was commorating the 35th anniversary of Man landing on the moon. One Saturday night I pulled out some old video of the early space program and the lunar landing. It was about two hours tracing that Mercury, Gemini and Apollo projects, culminating with the lunar landing. Interesting to remember the "good ole days" I thought. About half way through the video, Jennifer, my 30 year old girlfriend (born 5 years AFTER man landed on the moon), asked, "Did they have TV cameras on the moon for the landing ?"
Ouch ! Here was this 30 year old woman who obviously never seen the video before. My God ! She'd grown up entirely in a time when one of the greater scientific achievements of my lifetime was "old news." It just made me feel suddenly very, very old.
When I had my lady of 25 in the US with me for three months - a great memory from my youth, the classic Don McClean song "American Pie" came on the radio. She immediately exclaimed "Oh! That's Madonnas's song! But who is that singing it?"
Again this is to do with the fact that men are men and in FSU they have the Viking hangup of not wanting to settle with a woman and why would they? they have their pick of women who do their utmost to appeal to a man's eye etc. and who mostly can't see their own worth if it's not with a decent, loving man. Women in FSU and parts around grow up much sooner than their sisters in the west, and because of the difficulty in finding the right man in a country where men are not particularly inclined to want to marry, and where 20 million women have no chance because of the male-female ratio, they find the age difference is not as important as genuineness. Not so hard to accept if you ask me.