It is funny to read your posts about ben2006. You talk about how cheapskate he is with money. It seems you are at other end of spectrum, throwing your cash around buying your way through. No wonder I meet girls that want to go shopping all the time. I think first question from me is, 'Do you know Apal?', if yes next girl......
Apal, you do with your money you want but don't talk about anyone's spending habits without taking a long look at yours. You speak of having all these women from FSU or Colombia and breaking little hearts of girls, well the hearts you are breaking is the thought of girls not having some new perfume or latest outfit.
If I am interested in sex...I don't have to travel 6000 miles, there is plenty of that at home.
Sex wasn't why I went - it was to find the right sincere girl for me. I just have the thought of having an international bride. I never had a feeling I would marry an American girl my whole life -- go figure.
Yeah, you wouldn't want to be in my wake... trust me on that one. :) Unless your a 28 yr old, single male-model and millionaire speaking fluent Russian -- then I'd probably be humbled real quick-like. You would then be the ideal prince most of these girls imagine having who doesn't exist.
I don't know how in the world I could stay in Kiev, Moscow or SPB for a week on $4k. Even when my company paid for the hotel for a 12-day trip to Europe, I still had to shell out $3k for taxi's, food and bar tabs for my clients.
Although I was rather impressed that I only spent $10-11k for my two month excursion in Cali. So go figure that one. I had the same 2-br setup but this time with marble floors and jacuzzi for my rented apartment. I wasn't gouged like I was in Odessa because I hired a real-estate attorney to do the legwork for that place. I also dated about 16 girls while I was there. Not all got to see the apartment btw. Because less than 3 of them got a 2nd date .
Guess some of you really do your homework and find the cheapest places to stay and eat at. Yeah I guess I could calm it down, but I stayed 10 days in Odessa and not 7. So on the cheap-o-meter scale (for a 7-day stay) I'd only spent approx $5.6k @ $800/day including air fare. lol.
Next time I head to UKR - I expect to stay 1-2 months. Like I said, it is near impossible odds for me to get to know someone in 7-days enough to want to marry them, regardless of how long I was writing them.
Apal,
Finding the right sincere girl should not involve spending enough bucks to be on cheap-o-meter scale.
Who are you trying to impress with marble floors and jacuzzi????? Not the sincere girls....maybe golddiggers!!!!!
I don't stay in cheap apts and it is mainly to sleep in for most time is spent out somewhere. I don't have to spend $100 on each meal like you or buying rounds in a bar. The best time I have with a girl is time spent alone talking or walking in a park. Apparently for you that is being a cheapskate because I should have a taxi following us in case we may need a ride. Best things in life are free. You tend to want to buy those things. Tell you what, I got the girl for you. She is in Nikolaev but its okay, you can pay for her taxi to meet you in Odessa, she loves expensive meals and after meals she tends to want to go shopping. Those big beautiful blue eyes and that 5'8" 108 lb frame just waiting for you. And if you like you can go into dressing room and see her change into some of the most expensive outfits around...all for you, we got to make sure that you are not a cheapskate and make it to that $10,000 figure. Well to be honest, I think she will hit that total in 1 day, I think you will need more cash!!!!!!
I do see why you tend to spend so much now, I am an understanding guy!!! :)))
1-2 months stay huh... lets see appox $8000 per week, sorry lets knock off $1500 for airfare, $6500 per week times 4 is $26,000 and for 2 months $52,0000. I guess when you make in high 6 figures that is chump change.
Who wants a gold-digger? I don't know any of my rich aquaintances who has any respect for them here in the US. Don't plan on spending $8k per week when I stay for 2 months.
PS> That Eliza girl from Nikolaev isn't my type. I steer cleer of girls wearing heavy mascara anyways. lol.
Anyways - I think we pretty much all agree that FSU women are not easier to get than one from the US. It's probably the most difficult way to find a wife. lol!
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The marble floors were just a plus -- the place fit into my price range and I did not view any photos beforehand. It had a gym, wet spa and jacuzzi and it was only several hundred dollars more per month than the small efficiency version. I chose 2-bedrooms, kitchen, living room and completely furnished with a maid and front-desk security.
Now its just getting pathetic in here. Stop whining that someone else has the ability to spend more money.
Geezus -- not everyone likes or even wants to go the cheap route, some of us just have more style and part of the experience is living. It was for me, not the girl. Like I said, not many saw my apartment except for me.
Listen, not everyone likes rude flakes who keep ranting and raving that its evil to spend more than $25-50 a day -- like some of you do. lol. It's hilarious -- so keep it up! The #2 complaint I hear from girls? How really cheap some of you guys are. Now I know its true! lol.
Now I know its more than true why you guys call girls a scammer. Honestly, not one girl asked me to take them shopping for anything in either the FSU or Latin America. Yes. I did see this happen, but only when a girl really did not like the guy -- nor care if he dropped her. When asked, it's usually "Well I did not like him and do not find him attractive, so if he did not take me, there was no sense in being with him." Red Flag = run.
No wonder Monada has to put some of you in your place. You act like little juvenile boys. You can hold on to false beliefs and think every male should be like you -- but it just isn't going to happen. So stop trying to superglue wings on the pig. It ain't gonna fly. :)
Yes, but she is so much fun. In person not as much make-up. I do have to say,
she does turn many heads as she walks by, men and women, she loves attention.
Well I was thinking of trying Nikolaev... don't know.
At least she isn't a part-time "working girl" like all the above-average-sexy-girls I met in Cali Colombia. Maybe if I get towards the end of my trip - I'll hook up with her and report back. How much fun... is fun? Any details?
It depends how much fun you are interested in buying????
I was bored on second day of another shopping spree, who knows what would have happened if I just opened
up wallet and let the stallion of the corral. It was funny because her friend told me that she likes to be
treated nice and in the end she will show her affection. I asked the friend, how many years will that take???
You will have to take her to Odessa though, not many 'good' shops in Nikolaev!!!!!!!!! tell her I said HI!
lol. Yep == it goes with what I was thinking about most of the young ones. They join a marriage agency to get the free gifts. It's easier than being a prostitute for them. And an agency encourages girls to do this, as long as they don't ask for anything in the letters they have to translate.
I will probably just hire a freelance translator and go out on my own. You see the same thing with the agency girls in Latin America. They get spoiled as soon as they encounter the first guy with money and a bigger ego. Then they find out they don't have to get married and can continue the cycle until the next guy.
I don't see this with the average girls or just normal cute girls -- just the model types and girls that get lots of attention from their looks.
You know, I am pretty good at figuring girls from letters whether they are shoppers or not. Only
has happened twice to me, my first and this hottie from Nik, I knew what she was like but my last trip
was first that I had no idea which city I was going to visit when I landed in Kiev. Bought my ticket to Odessa
and lined up apt within half an hour and a few girls.
There was a thread recently from Deano, where he used a 'different approach', maybe you should check that out!!
If one thing doesn't work, nice to have some other ideas.
An 18 year old Italian girl tells her Mom that she has missed
her period for 2 months. Very worried, the mother goes to
the drugstore and buys a pregnancy kit.
The test result shows that the girl is pregnant.
Shouting, cursing, crying, the mother says,
"who was the pig that did this to you? I want to know!"
The girl picks up the phone and makes a call.
Half an hour later, a Ferrari stops in front of their house.
A mature and distinguished man with gray hair and
impeccably dressed in an Armani suit steps out of the of the
Ferrari and enters the house.
He sits in the living room with the father, mother, and the girl
and tells them: "Good morning, your daughter has informed me
of the problem. I can't marry her because of my personal family
situation but I'll take charge. I will pay all costs and provide for
your daughter for the rest of her life.
Additionally, if a girl is born, I will bequeath a Ferrari, a beach
house, 2 retail stores, a townhouse, a beach front villa, and a
$2,000,000 bank account.
If a boy is born, my legacy will be a couple of factories and a
$4,000,000 bank account. If twins, they will receive a factory and
$2,000,000 each.
However, if there is a miscarriage, what do you suggest I do?"
At this point, the father, who had remained silent, places a hand
firmly on the man's shoulder and tells him,
You guys are scaring the daylights out of me. I have been communicating with a woman in Kharkov and I have also talked to her and her daughter on the phone using a translator.
So I've got a ticket booked for the end of September and I intended to spend a week there.
She told me she wants to do something for me and book my apartment when I get there through the agency, one she called EI. Anyone knows anything about this agency? I have been trying to find it on the internet but no luck so far. My initial thought is to book the apartment myself here in Canada via the internet.
Hey! ..some of you guys may be pretty well off but I am just a normal guy with a modest income. So this trip takes a considerable amount of money out of my budget .
So when I read all this, it is scaring the living daylights out of me. Stay out of the big cities ... over half are scammers. Well, this lady is in a big city so I'm starting off really well.
Well, I am not a scammer and just have a dream of meeting someone nice to share my life with. But reading all this, I am going into a hornets nest and I may be better served to cash in my ticket.
Being on this site is surely an eye opener.