I am a software engineer from india .I am looking for a Russian woman to marry who will be simple in nature,loyal and respectful.and should have ability to adjustment in Indian culture.
Can anyone tell me the best way to find a real good girl with whom i can spend my whole life.
Unless you live in the Taj Mahal NO Russian woman in her right mind would go and live in India ,not to mention the obvious cultural and religious differences
My immediate thought about this question is that pretty much all FSU women won't be interested in a country where women are treated, in general, as second-rate citizens. I agree with xtc11, unless you own a chain of hotels in Goa, but even then. I'm also wondering about your looking for a "simple in nature, loyal and respectful" Russian woman. Loyal, yes. Respectful - works both ways. Simple in nature... good luck!! :-)
A work colleague married a Kazak after working there for a few years. After that they went to India and Sri Lanka for a few years. She really didn't like it there: the temperature, the real extreme poverty that you don't see in the FSU, the wildlife (like snakes on gold courses and other animals near hotel swimming pools etc) and the overcrowdedness where you feel you cannot get away from it all - all totally alienating to a Orthodox girl from FSU. She and my work colleague now live in Bucharest (Romania) and she quite likes it as it is similar to her home city.
Life in India is so very different from that in FSU Sandipan, that your search is probably limited to a women from FSU (maybe central asian republics) who has already been to India (or Asia) on business or pleasure. I am not saying that such women don't exist, I am just saying that on such marriage sites as these you are unlikely to meet those sort of women. Best of luck
I can't agree with you. First of all "a country where women are treated, in general, as second-rate citizens" is not at all exist in India.All are the misconception about India.India already had woman priminister(Ms Indira Gandhi -the best priminister still now for India)before 25 years and now Mrs Prativa Patil is going to be Presidence of India,
Now tell me how many Presidence and priminister did Russia produce ?
Later Sonia Gandhi(is a Italian woman) is the Head of the governing party...
yea, I am not telling what you told wrong in all prospect...India is a big contry and it consisted of 26 states...There are few state where people are very conservative.....But that doesn't mean whole India are conservative.It is fact that light of knowldge not spreaded equaly through out all states
After all I am staying at Kolkata(Culcutta).It is under the state west Bengal which is totaly governed by left government(communist) by last 27 years.
So there is drastic change in mentality of people.Now a day people are very less concern about religion. they are more concern about work.
For your information a good number people married women from USA,Autrelia,Germany,Finland,Italy and they are not facing any problem here.
if you talk about proverty,then I wiil tell you it is there but not everywhere. I will advise you to see the list of bilionaries of last years.It is rapidly growing.you can't imagine how people living life here lavishly.
Any how thanks a lot to all of you for your replies.
I felt it is difficult from your opinion to find someone for me....but I am always optimistic....
I appreciate your enlightening comments. Yes, maybe we are somewhat guilty or preconceived ideas about India, but chances are these FSU women will be also. If you live in a Westernised, democratic part of the country, and have a comfortable, secure life and lifestyle, take photos as evidence and send them with your introductory letters. Send links to Internet sites that show what a nice place it is. Make sure it relates specifically to you and your immediate surroundings - talking about the president and list of billionaires won't help you, unless you're one of them.
Sandipan: Things must have changed drastically since last I was in India less than 10 years ago. I've been to Calcutta as well as Bombay and New Delhi, and I certainly did not see the opulence and wealth you describe. Quite the opposite. And I was there on business for 2 months - not a 1 week tourist trip.
hy would you want to marry a russain sali kuti rundi? Sandipan,
Russian kutis maila karmasti bhukha rakas. Uh garibi rupae paise, jins, ate nahin karna dhian ate taraf bahaduri da kamm nira. Khush karna parhna eh babat gori kutis, accha? -
Walking away from one's heritage......
I had a very stressful chat with a fellow 'so called' Punjabi (Please see the following link - http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=533003 15) . it was very upsetting. I will share it with you, without disclosing names. I will add that the person did have some good points, and yet, at the same time, some very wrong misconceptions. basically, he is a 'so called Punjabi' who has chosen to abandon his culture and date a kuti (Please see this link -http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=63414 890) with a different mindset and lack of values than what he has. instead of improving his culture, he's enjoying someone who will give him attention when she's playing mind games with him. will add commentary after the following: (In this case, he is Sikh, and she is a protestant who smokes and drinks, which is against Sikh religion and disrespectful to his religion.)
" i think white ppl are much more honest
what do u know sweetie, u dont know what those girls are
i actually dont like that culture
i know there are many good girls, but you are too over board for me to make a point
if u listen to me
the culture is too shallow, they expect so much angel like behavior from guys that its almost impossible to approach a girl, only thing is if girl approaches you, girls dont do it, so its much easier from guys who are from outside to approach girls and these girls are shallow, they hate beard, they just want to have good time, ethics, spirituallity, is shit to them, so they do what they want, and virgin guys are left to walk the dignified way of culture, other thing here is, sikhism and punjabi culture are totally different things and can exist without each other
a muslim can be punjabi, a hindu can be punjabi, culture is notthing, i have my pride in being a sikh
madam, will u kill your infant daughter
it happens in punjab
come on ground, what do u think those ppl want, everybody wants sex, gori say it, desi act something else, do something else, culture does not adds any virtue, yes if its a practicing sikh girl, then its different no they dont kill their kids, gori is not absolute term, there are americans, and there are europeans, and ppl vary"
now, before anyone thinks of me as horrible, or bad, stereotypical or discriminatory, i must say this...that is NOT my intention, and I will add that the person does have SOME good points. YET, he also has ALOT to learn.
First off, he is dating a gori girl. This is basically what the conversation is about. He had trouble in the past with a Punjabi girl, and has now decided to date a gori girl. first off......
For those of you who don't know.....the only thing separating desi and gori are two things - skin colour and mindset. Both are considered Caucasian according to wikipedia.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Race
http://en.wikiped ia.org/wiki/Roma_people
(The term Caucasian race or Caucasian is used to refer to people whose ancestry can be traced back to Europe, North Africa, West Asia, South Asia and parts of Central Asia. It was once considered a useful taxonomical categorization of human racial groups based on a presumed common geographic and/or linguistic origin.)
Also, note this article - in.news.yahoo.com/070912/43/6kn1o.html
This ignorant whore make some really offensive stereotypes about Indians and the similarites between they and Russians. (If link doesnt work, here's the article)
Moscow, Sep 12 (RIA Novosti) Indian men promise to be the ideal spouses for Russian women, affected as they are by a high male death rate owing largely to unhealthy lifestyles. That is the opinion of Maria Arbatova, leading Russian feminist author and prominent television presenter.
'The import of eligible bachelors from India is my big geopolitical idea,' she told RIA Novosti news agency.
India can be of help now that Russia has come to grips with its formidable demographic problem, Arbatova said during the launch of her latest book 'A Taste of India' at the 20th Moscow International Book Fair recently.
'First, both Russians and Indians are Indo-Europeans, and we speak related languages - just look at the many similarities between Sanskrit and modern Russian vocabularies. Second, and even more important, the archetypal Indian man is a fanatic paterfamilias. To raise many children is his cherished dream, and he makes the best possible husband,' remarked Arbatova, who is married to Shumeet of West Bengal in eastern India.
Attracting Indian bachelors to Russia should be a government policy, she argues, or Russia will soon have two crosses to bear - one of its own male deaths and the other of the Chinese birth rate.
'Asian Russia, from the Pacific coast up to the Urals, is full of Chinese men anxious to marry Russian girls. If the Chinese are not promptly balanced out, no matter by whom - Indians, Africans or extraterrestrials, either Asian Russia will become a Chinese province before 2050 or Chinese will become Russia's second official language,' she jokes ironically. 'Just look, Russia has two employment agencies in China, and none in India. Shame!'
Arbatova's book went on sale last spring and was on the bestseller list in summer. Britain's International Biographical Centre of Cambridge has awarded her its 20th Century Outstanding Achievement gold medal.
The author points out many similarities between Russian and Indian life. 'Soc