Just wanted to drop a quick note to tell all I'm happily married for just over 2 years. Its been about that long since I was back here. Was just reading a few threads today and am surprised by all the failures and the negativity. These are the posters that have the time to be here. The successes have a life, thats why you dont see good stories so often I think. I see some of the same names, wow. Good luck to all those searching - peace
Was she Russian? Anyway, go wallow in your sorrows, I'm sure you deserved it. I couldnt care less if u dropped dead loser, because the only reason she would leave after 10 years is because you dont treat her right or you forgot how to act like a man. I guess everyone should listen to you and sit at the computer holding your d***. You , should be ashamed even to admit that. I got a good laugh out of your comment
Crash:
nice to "see" you,and to hear of your success too,you noticed the negatives too huh?..:)),still a few of the old members about but as you so correctly put it,most have lives beyond here and post infrequently.Still it's good to hear from you mate,
all the best,
gladiatorUK.
I recently came across this site and I would like to participate in some of the discussions. I hope gentlemen don’t mind having a lady on this forum. I can say about myself that I am a Ukrainian girl who was online bride and found her happiness with an American man. We are married for five years and I feel very lucky to have a wonderful husband, family, and a job that I like. I would like to share my experience about online dating and be glad to answer on some of the questions. Who knows, may be my answers will help somebody else to find his happiness.
Welcome to the forum Alika,
a female view of online dating is always welcome,unfortunately for a long the time most of the ladies who have posted here have had a very negative view of those things and it would be nice to balance things......enjoy!!
Hello Aika, I would like to welcome you also. As other women have been to this forum. it is always nice to get the
prospective of a lady. I have to warn you, there are some here that cannot take criticism or another view lightly.
Hello Alika, glad you are here.
I been to FSU twice and now just married a Venezuelan lady. I did not have luck in the FSU but did find love in south america.
I still like to read the posts here though and throw in my 2 cents worth of opinion.
beemer:
married life is still good,job keeping me busy and "little Glad" growing up very fast,20 months old and already able to understand russian and english words.......doesn't get much better beemer.......:))
I am so glad to be welcome here. I will try to give a fresh look on some things and be honest in my thoughts. I hope you agree with me that an online dating is a big adventure with its pluses and minuses. I believe that many of us have a very important purpose here to find a true love and be happy. Trust me, not every girl from Ukraine or Russia tries to earn some money thought the dating system, some of them are searching for a right person. Someone can say that my husband is just a typical guy like everybody else. However, for me he is special in his own way. Before I met my husband, I had an interesting and successful life in Ukraine. I got a good education, had strong income and met some great guy. However, I didn’t have any serious relationships. Then I tried to search for my soulmate in a global way, thought the Internet. I always hoped that there is a person somewhere who sees things and dreams about future in a same way that I did. In spite of our age difference in 13 years, language barrier, traditions, and lifestyles, my husband and I are very alike. We are just right for each other and this is the most important thing. Frankly, as many other couples we have our “bad” days. But we love each other and always try to work things out.
I want to give a little of inspiration to someone who needs it. There is a positive thing in everything; people need to learn how to see it.
have married twice from the Ukraine, and both were diaster marriage. I was looking for Love forever. I was single and with no children and not divorced. I am not only an American, but also came originally from Overseas so my culture background is more open to Those Eastern Women than any American. Also, I Ballroom Dance and compete in the International 10 dances, I have MAster Degree, I had great business. I love and open to foreign food, culture, music, art, and tradition. Also I know more than any American about the Green Card since I had to get it myself, except I got it the honest way through my education. Also, I am faithful, sincere, honest. I married my first Ukranian woman with about 5 years difference in age. We had 2 boys. So you think I had a stable family that is going to last. Well, just close to her getting the Green Card, boy she turned my wholelife into a nightmare, disappeared with the Children to a women shilter when I was on a business trip and claimed all sort of abuse that took me 1 month to find where they are, lost 30 pounds in 5 days and literally was about to die. Then she agreed to come back and drop all these false accusation to the surprise of 2 witnesses I had a Physician and a girl so I help her with the Green Card issues she had. She returned for 1 week that the issue to help her even going to an Immigration lawyer with her turned not suitable for her, so she planned another incidence that was so incredible had a Ukranian witness in the house and I was out of the house with the boys at her request, she even phoned me and I told her I am returning home in an hour and will have to leave as a Physician friend of mine coming to pickme up for a oneday trip as we planned and she knows. When I returned home, she and her friend left the house for few minutes and the police came claiming I kidnapped the Children, hit her, threatened to kill her and so many other things. My friend the Physician was home to pick me up and I end up losing the house to her, going to jail and over 1 1/2 year of so much stress fasing more than nightmare of felony chrges, batery charges 2 Protection from Abuse charges, kidnaping charges and so forth. I did not know if I will ever live and see my children. She went to our church and told everyone that I am in jail, called and informed all my business people. Well, my business I built collapsed. All the community I built before I ever met her and got her to be one of this community were against me of course. Well, costed me so much money, stress and time to defend myself and she had all the city lawyers, shelter money, free agressive female lawyers who has been fighting and defending real battered women now hating me and attacking me. Well she got the Green Card, my money and I was shown innocent in the court finally from all the legal cases and was seeing the children 50-50 and the divorce finalized. Wow, incredible really and you only appreciate that when you get hit suddenly with all that and your whole life and reputation turn upside down. I am a person stupidly enough because of my Christian upbringing believe in 100% forgiveness and really forgave her 100% and had no gridges to anyone in her country. Please, note that everyone we knew who were Russian, Ukranian married in the USA without any exception all got divorced as soon as they got the Green Card or some stayed 3 years longer to 2 weeks before their Citizenship swearing seremony. But I was so stupid and naive to say the least. I thought she was an exception and there must be an honest Russian or Ukranian Women out there who really want love and marriage. I wanted to also keep now my traditional Ukranain family with the 2 children I have and stupidly married another Ukranian woman who promissed after knowing all I went through that SHE WILL ABSOLUTELY NEVER BETRAY ME OR DO ANYTHING LIKE THAT EVER TO ME. Well, we had another child and she was traveling to the Ukraine 6 months out of the year for 3 trips. So many stories we heard of her friends traveling back and sleeping around with their Ukranian boyfriends cheating on their husbands and divorcing them. OK, on the last trip back, she did not even had her wedding rings with her, had me buy her another ring, did not even kiss me pr let me sleep in the same bed. I was devastated what is going on. OK in another dark day, she not only did what my first wife did to me, but worse than that that while she always hated my first wife and jelous of her, now all the sudden both are working together and walking through the same court steps together. I was literally amazed after 7 years of 100% peace with my first wife and having the children happy and after I have helped my first wife with her schedule and anything related to the children and my second wife knows how much I love my children, now all planing to ruin my life. Why, becasue my second wife got used to the traveling with our child, that wants to take him from me oversease as well and does not want 50-50 as my other children so that must be shaken. Yes, betray, betray betray. She even come to me and tell me about her new boyfriends and what kind of cars they have shortly within a week of the separation. Amazing really how evil these people are. Now I am like labled as an abuser it happened once and now again even I was proven innocent it does not matter, I am labled like that, I lost my store and had to close it. I don;t get to see my children much now, lost financially. Oh, feeling the betray is just awful after I have done so much and gave them my heart 100% now she is telling me how she would sleep with any man that buys her a meal at a nice restaurant. I met a Russian woman that has been in the USA for 10 years and already got the Green Card and divorced in Atlanta Georgia and she said to me every Russian and Ukranian women in Atlanta Georgia that she knew divorced their husbands as soon as they got their papers. She said everyone of them. I met an honest Ukranian woman in New
Hi green card scam I am new to this and hope I don't have to go through what you have as I went through a similar thing with my british ex wife 2 years ago and she is still giving me problems over access to our child.After a lot of studying female behaviour and attraction I have realised that I was to blame for a lot of why the marriage failed and that I had chosen the wrong wife to begin with.I cannot judge your situation but it seems you must have done something right as you got 3 children from those marriages,however it seems to me you tried too hard to make the marriages work with 2 women who quite clearly were not the marrying type,so I can only advise to move on and next time choose your partner more carefully stick to your own age group and don't go for a miss WOW.Also check out a web site called "www.doubleyourdating.com" as he gives a completely new perspective on women.