I was interested to subscribe to rbrides.com sites.
I defined a profile 2 days ago and, as you (I think), listed a lot of gorgeous girl and message about trust, sincerity, happiness
Since yesterday, I received 5 messages that I couldn't read for instance (I wait to have a secure payment by temporary and fixed price blue card).
By reading all this chat, I only learn bad experience (scammer, lie . And all we can fear on this type of site)
My question is simple: Is there anybody whish have a good and real experience with Russian or Ukrainian girl on this type of site ? (rbrides or other) and how did you do ?
Is it interesting to try experience or only loosing a lot of time in the real life ??
I have been a paid subscriber to rbrides 12 months ago, and was in contact with 4 women on there from russia and ukraine ALL of them asked for money at some stage in the communication weather it was to come and visit me or me to visit them- money was their target.
All the ladies were very beautiful, and sent photos to me of themselves in various states of half dress. i sussed out the womens motives in the end.
Rbrides though to their credit did remove the scammers profiles after i reported what had happened.
common factor on all rbrides ladies-Many of these type of ladies on rbrides have very little detail in their profile. Just Mass posted by the chief scammer behind it. He or she waits for gullible fockers like me to reply.
That was then. i wised up since then. But there is always a new breed of gullible men out there that could become enticed and snared by rbrides.
so my friendly advice is AVOID RBRIDES LIKE THE PLAGUE.
Is there anybody wish have a good and real experience with Russian or Ukrainian girl on this type of site ?
Rico...that is everybody's wish. Just have to maneuver through all the minefields. Common sense and reading
forums like this will help. It takes a lot of drive to withstand the negatives in search but if you are one of
the lucky few to find right girl...it will be worth it!!
I live in Sydney and have tried most of the sites which are mentioned including rBrides. First thing I must say is that when dealing with these dating sites once must be on one's guard at all times. You must use your common sense. If something looks like too good to be true it must likely is. Be realist when you are pairing yourself up with potential partners. Also be clear about what you are looking for. I mean you should have a clear idea of age, personality, looks and what you can provide in return for a mutually satisfying relationship. I've dated Russian women here in Sydney and visited and lived in Russia.
I can tell you there is a lot of misunderstanding out there about Russian women. Did you know Russian women are the most abused women in the world, 14,000 women die at the hand of their husbands or boyfriends. "The number of women dying every year at the hands of their husbands and partners in the Russian Federation is roughly equal to the number of all soldiers who died in the 10-year war of the Soviet Union in Afghanistan,"
Do you know that most of the dating scams committed on the Internet are by men and some are not even based in Russia. There was a case not long of a US couple who scammed men out of $900k USD!!!
Russian women are old fashioned in their views and seek love and understanding from their partners. They have been hardened by their environment and treatment by men. Still they remain warm and caring creatures blessed with great beauty and tenderness. I am saying this having had the honor to date two wonderful Russian women. I am engaged to be married to my sweetheart in the near future. So I know that it is possible to meet the women of your dreams in Russia. Most Russian women are highly intelligent and independent so if you're one for dominating or full of jealousy then Russian women or any women is not for you. You have to be kind, understanding, loving, caring and willing to work things out together. If you exhibit these qualities you will not only attract Russian women you will be able to keep her for a lifetime.
I met my wife to be on a great site out of Australia. This site was set up by a Russian Bride who married an Australian and whilst in Australia decided to dispel the myth of Russian women and set the record straight. She first wrote a great book and followed this up by setting up a dating website to help foreign men meet Russian women under a strictly controlled regime. Each Russian women who registers with elenasmodels MUST go through a rigorous screening process. She MUST submit her papers in person to local offices throughout Russia before her profile is allowed to be entered onto the site. These profiles are monitored and any hint of a scam results on deletion of the profile.
I used this site to find the love of my life. But then I know exactly what I was looking for. I met Tanya in Feb, went to Russia in April and then met Tanya again in Thailand in Aug. We intend to marry as soon as possible. Not because we have to but because ours is a perfect match.
All the best in your search. I have studied Russian culture and particularly Russian women for a number of years and am very happy to share my findings if it will help anyone with finding their soulmates.
Thank you every body for your quick answers.
I think that I have been scammed before by Inna and Yuliya. After 4 or 5 free emails, they say me that they have not enough money to pay translation. The society NewEra ask me to pay for translation: the cost of one translated letter was $5. Not so expensive? And they send me the address of Yuliya. I never write by post, and decided to stop correspondence. I'm looking rbrides, because I wanted to find a Russian girl whish speak English or French.
Ivor_BoredFukka : I have a look on google : 'rbrides.com scam', without reading all, the number of page about rbrides scammer is explicit...
Actually, I have 6 messages on rbrides.
xtc11 : I have a look on the 6 profiles from whish I received messages. I see all type of profiles: 50% present all details and 50% have very little detail (as you mention). I'm surprise about the quality of the photo, they seem to be taken by a real photographer, but this is true for all the Russian photo that I've seen on internet sites.
beemer18 : "You takes a lot of drive to withstand the negatives in search". Do you think to have finally find a good way after "maneuver through all the minefields" to trust your correspondent ?
apal : As you know I can not read message for instance. What is true is that in my account, I have : viewed you (0) hotlisted you (0) showed interest (0). I thought it was because these indications were not record until I paid ?
Every body : Did you definitely give up this type of sites or try another one ?
I know that meeting girls by this method can work, not necessarily by using the sites we are discussing. I have a good good friend who has been married to a Russian girl 15 years his junior for 7 years now, they have just had a child together and are sickeningly happy together, and I've told him that. Unfortunately the site he used is no longer existing. In this area (South UK) there is a Russian speaking wives network, where all the wives, both Ukraine and Russian get together once a month for a chin wag and to help and support new arrivals, so through him (my friend) I know of numerous successful relationships through internet sites. I think that the system over the years has become abused by the scammers and gold diggers as they can see a quick buck out a vulnerable westerner 'looking for lurve. Equally some western men see it as a way to bed a hot easterner. Another situation of the minority spoiling it for the majority, well it may be the other way round now, because out of the girls I am writing to I am thinking that 1 or 2 out of 7 is real.
maybe you work for elenasmodels. i did not try your affiliate link.
Also from past experience if you try the search facility on elenamodels we discover there is too much competition from the very many many men on there . All sorts of posturing posing vain men bragging on their profiles about their so called life achievments and qualifications, and their action man wanker photos of themselves.
It might impress some fsu women though, especially the gold diggers.
yes Paul that was what i got 1 or 2 out of 6, one didn't appear one i didn't meet but the interesting part was the one that was playing a good game, she met me gave me good interest, she made sure i didn't spend to much money, very pleasant.
i thought cool i like you, must admit i liked her before meeting, come over for visit to my world.
the reality was pay per letter for another 7 mouths trying to get her to visit, always some excuse, she made me pay alright.
got me good.
all about the letter flower letters flowers, agency.
never did she ask for money, always on the defensive if i mention money, she was extra careful how things were said involving money and always said "i didn't ask."
did things at snail pace.
it was her way or their way of gaining another letter.
and i met her, trouble was i was looking at her for scams not the letters.
Sorry to hear stories like yours, it is why I shy away from pay per letters, it is too easy to
get sucked in (I did not use word scammming). Finding a girl in a FSU country is difficult and
when emotions are involved, wrong decisions are made. Seems girls are more into getting taken care of
as opposed to getting money. Life is ever changing..what worked yesterday does not work today.
Decisions need to be made on the fly and quickly, hoping for something to work out is dead and gone.
Things need to work out more quickly now, if after a couple months, things don't proceed timely, fold up
tent and move on. I keep enough girls in correspondence that I can drop girls I feel are not going in the
direction I am going.
There are girls who want to be a 'sponsored girl'. Meaning if you are attractive enough and rich enough, they will allow you to pay for their rent and expenses -- as long as you don't know they are dating local boys...
There is still the one that got away who I met in person who is on this site. I may join just to write her.... maybe...
What idiot would be dumb enough to be 'allowed to pay for girls' 'expenses'.....as I said before in many
threads, guys before us and guys currently are the reasons for scamming to perpetuate. These girls are like kids,
always testing the limits, seeing what they can get away with and guys are the parent allowing 'girls/kids' to run amuck!!!!!! Fact is, when last in Odessa, a met girl 'shopper', I knew this already, spent the day with me, after lunch we went bowling, to a museum and then walking around. Sure enough, we went by a clothing store, she wanted to look around.....she saw a belt and tried it on, liked it and carried around store with her. Asked me if I liked it, I said yes, it is cute but I'm not buying it. Eventually I did, not because she convinced me but I chose to buy it at end of our tour of store. Bad idea, next store she wanted to look at clothes and try them on. They did look great on her but I knew this was never going to stop unless I stopped it before the train left the station. After much pleading, she gave up hope, for I was not going to 'take care of her'. She got over it...and I got over her. Funny, I had a great line for her....when she was trying to convince me to buy an oufit for her, she had me go into dressing room to see outfit on her...not fully clothed(:))she asked how she looked in oufit, I said great but if I do get you outfit, what exactly am I going to get????? I am pretty good at bartering!!!! She made a good decision and felt outfit was not right for her. That was last time WE went shopping. Body wise...she was a '10', still on this site and probably got over a thousand letters from guys that are willing to 'take care of her'. WAKE UP!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yup. I heard this one. I haven't seen it. You should have taken her to the lingerie department. I would have bought an outfit or two if she went through the trouble of fitting into a thong and support bra. ;)
When I was in Colombia, I did buy a small kitchen stove for a girlfriend's family (my translator's advice). Hey it worked absolutely too well though... This girl was completely obsessed with me the entire time I was there even after we never shopped again. It was the nicest thing anyone ever did for her.
Bowling and museum, did that in Odessa too... in same day with gold-digger girl. It was the last time I ever wanted to see that girl who I wrote and wasted so much time pining over...
Some of these girls do have outstanding figures, and some don't...
Hi men, i think if you really looking for real woman on that site, you should choise real woman, not woman in lingerie, model or an superbeauty (not only because it is fotoshop, silicon, make up or something else).. Be real, if you are sure you deserve such woman and not other (sorry but you have to be real about yourself, your appearance, status, intellect, lifestile...). than try...But i think than you shouldnt search for woman this way... Or men about 50 and more years looking for contact with 20-years old girl. Look for usual, clearly real women,than you donīt need to write here about your bad experiance with scammers; do not be leazy (bacause i have enough experiance on that sites too, good and not so good) - men often are very primitive, borring, leazy, canīt offer a conversation, can not do a first step, making waiting for answeres, disappear and after a long time come back... waiting for women`s initiative, some of you men also making half dressed/ naked fotos, i never trust such people, it means you are not serious, many of you give no info about yourself in profile too, and some of you are looking to intensive - writing to 100 women at the same time... Not letters but regular even stupid words: hi, how are you today? and than forget details of concrete person :((( Meeting - you know you are looking for a woman from Russia, it is not easy to get ther or out...
And ofcource it is just crazy to see a man who is counting cents to pay only his bill in cafe or restaurant. Or living together and discuss about who is paing for eating, and who for heating...
That is what i can say as a russian woman.
And there are a lot a lot a lot of crazy mental sick people... and this is so sorry.
And some of men have own very strange roules, and they even think it is normal, and they expect to appreciate this... What i am looking in men: first intellect in his eyes, to look=to be adecvate. I see it from first site, not even necessary to get in contact with...
I can recommend you try Bridesandlovers.com every site has scammers, it should be the least of your worries , the most important issue is, are real ladies signing up to the site?? to to use sites that are really found in Yandex with russian search words such as "Иностранные знакомства" its Russian for "foreign aquaintance" or try others using Google translate.
Keep away from all the sites with beautiful women, all under 35 years of age and no normal women to be seen, they are fake sites and fake profiles, you will be wasting your cash)))
I have a fake sites for you, AmateurMatch.com. It took me a while to figure it out but they hire women called "online Cupids" to stimulate activity on the site, and state that these OCs are not going to date you. It says so in the small print. Hard to believe but ALL of the women are OCs. The scam works by you sign up for free and are bombarded by beautiful girls wanting you. As soon as you pay, the number of girls drops off, but the ones you write to suddenly start writing back in a weird way like they never respond to a direct question, and if you arrange a date, they don't show up. I complained and the guy running the site said I was stupid not to have read the small print. Charming and a waste of time and money.
Olga, many men just don't understand. I recall offering my (now wife) money for just a train ride and she refused. What does that say about a woman? Even though I was not informed about the "business" I thought it would be a nice gesture. And still she refused to accept anything. Even after we had established a good relationship (although we never met in parson) she did not want anything from me other than we meet.
MEN: Get a clue. Do not SEND money to a woman you do not know.
And be wary of a woman who does not deny your offer of support. A real Russian woman would be insulted of the fact that you think she needs you. A real Russian woman only wants a man who is a man.
Hmmmmmmmmm, Think we reached critical mass. Neways... getting tired of all the "hot" looking girls on some sites, ie AOB, lots of whom are clearly trying too hard. I think I'm more attracted to the librarian type.........