Hi All.
Looking for some advice here if poss.I have just joined fiance.com and so i picked out some girls and it so happens that 3 girls i picked came from same city.This morning i received 3 letters back from these 3 girls in the same city.I am a little worried that the agency may have wrote these letters as it seems a big coincidence that all 3 happen to write back to me on same day,what do you think?
I wouldn't worry too much about it. Agency girls come in after work or school a lot and type their responses and leave. If its your first letter, it's usually a short introduction letter. A lot are very very similar.
I look for something unique and personally written from a girl about me especially in an introduction letter. Mainly because it determines sincerity when they usually write:
"I found you attractive and liked your profile, etc."
That's a standard form-letter is all... when they start talking about your interests right away - sincerity...
Stevey
How long have you been looking for a wife in thew FSU? If you just started then stop being paranoid and jump in. Write as many letters as you want. Then start weeding them out as you see fit.
Have fun.
No it was not Nikolaev it was Gorlovka,as for how long i have been looking ,well i started quite a while ago and found out a lot of girls are not serious, got scammed a few times but thankfully for not a lot of money so basically gave up and looked more deeply into it all,read about scams etc etc and now have decided to give it another go.
This is first time i have used fiance.com so just being cautious as i dont want same happening again.
I wouldn't worry too much about it, maybe one of the staff can look into the coincidence for you if you ask them to.
I try my best not to write girls simultaneously in the same city. We had a topic of why you don't do this in another thread.
1) Small town = maybe only 1 or 2 agencies. Staff discuss these things among each other and try to give their personal advice to women. Big no no. Its like a guy heading to a bar and instead of casually going from one girl to the next, he starts in on a couple of em all at once... Legitimate girls will spot sincerity this way.
Yet, maybe they have a limited time they free up their computer so girls can all write at once. It's not like they have an internet cafe with dozens of computers. These small agencies always have atleast one computer that is used by staff during working hours or if they are real lucky and doing very well, they have two or more computers.