All women will tell you age does not matter. It is standard practice. That said, anything is possible. Just remember when you were 19 or 20, you had a strong will but no idea what you were doing the next day, let alone the rest of your life.
Find a woman who you share commonalities with and be willing to compromise on any issue. Language difference can be a lot of fun if you both decide to learn together.
I am living in Nikolaev to spend more time with my one and only. We have known each other for the past year now and care for each other very much. Don't be in a hurry to spend the rest of your life with someone you don't know. Take your time.
The women here are real women. Some are wonderful, some are not. They have families and friends just like most of you. Love from any person is never just given. Honesty is the foundation to everything. Any woman with a heart who will love you forever, will make you earn every ounce of it.
It's sad to note how many men think they can just come here, fall in love, propose and fly away with a new wife. IT DON'T WORK THAT WAY HERE OR ANYWHERE.
For the men who need it, I do some coaching on the side. If you are interested contact me here or at billgreen54@gmail.com
Any man that believes he can travel and immediately fall in love needs to be drug tested!
There is a difference, a very big difference, between a strong attraction, some might call it lust, and love and any guy that comes back off his first trip of perhaps a week declaring that he/they are in love is full of sh1t :)
There have been a few here Martin that have claimed to have found the one on the first trip only to become bitter and backstabbers because it ended just as quickly as it began. It is always the girls fault that this happens.They are mental cases, or have other issues in their lives. Not that the guy may have been forcing himself on her too quickly that it made her nervous and run away.
I have read now the scammers are being a little clever and meeting for a vacation and then after the guy gets back, hammering him for money. That's why I've also said, don't send money to someone you have never met and damn careful with the ones you have met.
There is a difference between love and lust, just some guys confuse it rather easily.
I did make a constructive reply to this thread however just having had it clarified by Oleg the powers that be deleted all my posts of today (yesterday UK time) due to a computer gliche. Perhaps my reply may reappear later but then perhaps not!
nasfan,
I thanked you for your kind words to me on Dr Koops thread but for some reason they weren't printed. It was appreciated.
I totally agree with you that perhaps a lot of women are frightened off by guys appearing to be desperate to get married before it is too late for them. And women need time for their feelings to develop.
On another topic, I occasionally look through the Fiance.com ladies profiles out of interest, and I think that there is an almost untapped opportunity present.
Most everyone, including myself, look for an attractive unattatched woman as young as we feel we can possibly realistically obtain.
There are some absolutely STUNNING, and I mean STUNNING women there looking for a western husband, but who have a child. If one could handle this additional responsibility, (and if it were in our own country, it usually wouldn't be considered as too much of a problem,) then one could get a woman way way younger than themselves, as they advertise for older guys than their single counterparts. Also, giving such a woman this security that they can't find in F.S.U., would probably result in a great amount of love and devotion in return.
I just think that if someone really wanted the 20 year younger beautiful woman, this is a way that she could be found as not so many guys would even consider her. Also, they are unlikely to be scammers or timewasters.
Talking of 'Miss Wow' I just tool a look and as soon as I saw one pic I recognised a historic blacklisted lady.
The 'Feds' don't like us to post profile numbers here but in MIss Wow she is top row 2nd from left, I'm confident a little investigation, yes use Google if that's what it takes, will reveal the truth.
You must have a terrific memory and virtually live on all antiscam sites
to be able to recognize all historic blacklisted ladies -).
And just what does Google comes up with when we search by the name of that lady?
Just one link which is dead.
Yes, I do have a good memory and No, I do not live on antiscam sites. And when did I indicate, never mind say, that I can recognise all historic blacklisted ladies?
It's that first picture that I recognised, who's to say that the picture belongs with the name, scammers do steal identities, and indeed that first picture is very different to the other pictures in her profile thus was taken in a different era.
Whether or not the "Feds" like it or not. This is not the place to advertise scammers. Creates too much disruption and chances of some guys writing the same girl in the same forum is pretty remote. Let alone one's memory to be totally accurate. It reminds me of something Vincent Bugliosi once said, an eye witness isn't always the most reliable witness to have.
Kirk....if we are talking about girl from Nik......I have met her.....she is not a scammer as much as she likes to be 'taken' care of. She is nice, funny, likes to joke around but don't go into shops with her. Great body, likes to wear clothes that make everyone check her out. When we went bowling, had much trouble concentrating on game!!:)
She has new pics now. Don't go into shops with her.
Never said she was a scammer.
But I'm guessing...and this is just a hunch mind....that her "soulamte" if she ever found him, would have to have a transatlantic yacht with its own boutigue.
Kirk.....I was refering to Martin's post, if it was same girl that he thought was a scammer.
Rest of post I think we were talking about same girl.
Think a yacht is too small, at least 60 footer. ALL about her!!. Her letters were short and not very informative despite her knowledge of english language!!
beemer,
It was the pic I recognised fom a blacklist somewhere, I wish I could remember where, it could be a stolen identity however this lady does sound like a stage II scammer ..... the expensive shooping trips!