I have been getting some mail from some ladies on UAladies dot com website. Some are very attractive and some are older ladies in their early 40s.
So I was curious, because it's a pay per letter website and although you have to be careful of those, I was thinking to myself why would they scam a 40-somat woman on you when they could do the 20s and 30s women. coz there is one girl in my inbox who is outrageously sexy. In fact I am willing to show you her (off :)) you can see her here http://www.ualadys.com/photo2.rpx?id=9860
There are a few others too who are real nice, but as I said it is a pay per letter site.
Quote: "I was thinking to myself why would they scam a 40-somat woman on you when they could do the 20s and 30s women."
Might it be that the PPL site has worked out that you have worked out the 20 Y/O things aren't real and are trying another age group to get you writing? Stay with your original thought, PPL is designed to keep you doing just that, writing. Same dog, different leg.
There it is again, the find a bride sights, never trust anysight that makes money selling love page by page, word for word,...it just silly. And translation fees? Makes you think if a women is so intent to come to the English speaking world she would learn before making the jump. English classes there are dirt cheep almost anyone can afford it.
how on target is this your typical russian woman on the scam for loot now aint this the truth to anybody whos lived in the hen house - have a read have a chuckle - but how close to reality is is about as close as one can get am i correct a lovelies money lines
THE BIG EXCUSES Russian WOMEN
NEXT IAM SURE IT BE BEG MONIES FOR TAMPONS OR FOR HAIR CUT ! ANYTHING THEY CAN THINK OFF MATE THEY NEVER RUN SHORT IDEAS
CAT SICK 5000 RUBLES
GRANNY DYING 25.000 I WISH SHE HURRY TO DIE !
MUMU SICK 14.000
BROTHER HE 9 YEARS BUT THEY TAKE IT FOR ARMY??? MY GOD HE WILL DIE $600 USD AT ONCE I NEED IT .
DADDY CAR BLOW UP!!!! ( AND IS ALL YOUR FAULT BECAUSE YOU MAKE HIM DRIVE TO WESTERN UNION SO I CAN STEEL MONIES - NOW CAR
IS DEAD --YOU BASTERD ) 10.000 rubles
I HAVE PERIOD VERY BAD ----------NEED BLOOD TRANSFUSION BECAUSE I LEAK AS TRANSMISSION OF MACHINA !! 4000 rubles
I PREGNANT -----------( I NOT KNOW WHO TOO??? I HAVE MANY VISITOR !!! - BUT YOU HAVE MOST MONIES SO YOU WILL DO = HELLOOO
DADDY ) 25.000 rubles
I WAS ROBBED IN STREET (* JUST 2 MINUTE AFTER I FIND OUT YOU RICH = LUCKY YOU )
10.000 rubles
MY PASSPORT STOLEN ( NOT THAT I EVER GO ANYWHERE ANYWAY ) 7000 rubles
I STARVING ! 10.000 rubles keep mew fed 2 day only surfice to speak !!
MY FRIDGE IT BROKE ! 40.000 rubles ---
COMPUTOR I NOT HAVE ( HOW YOU EXPECT I DO DECIET WITH NOT COMPUTOR ? YOU THINK I SCIENTIST -------I WANT IT 29.000 rubles NOW
COMPUTOR .
IAM SICK DOCTOR WANT 20,000 RUBLES !
SCHOOL FEES FOR CHILD 25.000 RUBLES ( I KNOW IS FREE---- BUT YOU MY LOVE IS IDIOT SO YOU GIVE TO ME ANYWAY )
MY CHILD WANT ROLLERS --OK IS ONLY 4 WEEK OLD - BUT YOU NEVER TO KNOW MAYBE FEET GROW 1 METRES FAST !!!! 17000 rubles
I WILL HELP YOU GET MILITIA TO THIEVES THEY 1 MILLION RUBLES WANT IT !!! 972.000 TO ME FOR FEE TO COLLECT AND 28,000 FOR
MILITIA FUCK THEM SHE SPEAKS ! THEY GREED !!
I WANT RUBLES BUY CIGARETTE ( I DONT SMOKE BUT YOU NEVER TO KNOW IF I START ONE DAY I WANT BE PREPARED ) 300 rubles
I NEED MONIES BUS FARE OR I CANT GET TO WORK TO HOUSE OF PROSTITUTE HOW I CAN MAKE MONIES ''NOT I CAN GET TO HOUSE TO LOSE
PANTS'' ? YOU THINK I MAGIC ? ) 400 rubles
MY DADDY HIM GET AIDS PLAY WITH NEEDLE OF MY BROTHER ADDICT NOW I MUST PAY DOCTOR 22.000 RUBLES
I NEED MONIES GO TO CINEMA ( I DONT LIKE MOVIE )BUT IS GOOD EXCUSE ANYWAY FOR MONIES ) 2000 rubles
MY NEIGHBOUR SCREAM FOR MONIES - HE BLIND DEFT AND DUMB - BUT IF I DONT GIVE IT MONIES HE WONT SHUT UP - DRIVE ME CRAZY
10.000 rubles unless you have it mafia number get it made silence 5000 good huh me good business woman ----------I take it !
ALL THESE THINGS MY LOVE COULD YOU FIND IT YOU HEART TO SEND TO ME TOTAL 1 MILLION 877,000 RUBLES THIS BE ENOUGH UNTIL FRIDAY
!!!! SOLVE ALL PROBLEMS - NOW I GO HOME TO BOYFRIEND PLAY WITH HIS PENIS MAKE HIM SHOOT TO SKY --
ALL THE TIME IAM TO LOVE YOU AND NEVER ANOTHER .!!!!! NOW YOU MAKE SURE MY LOVELY MAN YOU KEEP WORK 200 HOURS A WEEK
NO TIME SLEEP I NEED ANOTHER 2 MILLION RUBLES CORRECT NEXT WEEKS PROBLEMS
I NEVER HAVE LUCKY???? I SUCH POOR OF ALL LIFE )))))))))))))
HA HA KISS YOU ---I SORRY I CANT THINK MY CORRECT NAME WHAT IT TO BE TODAY
YOURS luba / kate / victoria / anastasia / olga / irina / julia / ????---i dont know iam on list somewhere
loves you !
get away from the boilers mate over 40 my god we getting into antique roadshow huh
how you all been keeping whos been getting ripped off lately or shoud i say whom has avoided the sticky fly trap who's found an honest one ? bit like the 1930 australian penny huh
the over 40s mate bit like siberia everybody knows where it is but nobody wants to go there huh
normally they save the ole boilers for real desperate low income weeks ay cant sell a used car pre 1970 nobody wants it
over 40's high milage not low k's losts rust been abused not to tidy bit loose in the gudgeon you know rebore time its done good service probly gathered a few bux on the way
its made a quid out to pasture now but aint it rude i went to site this year just for a lark actually get all the dears 43/63 ahh jeses wept exit stage left ,
short hair ohh my god truck tyre chasers
about as appealing as a fart in a spacesuit huh
then yu get the odd one no teeth ohh god no bite but it would give you a nasty suck ay !
where's the dentures dear yu ask -ohh in a glass beside the bed yu just wonder what plan she has for them what place in your body has she visions to insert them ---scary huh
you could end up grannies fang's encasing yu balls but she wont be attached to em .
lol lol.. they do some evit things .
they probly spring loaded you could end up with a squeaky voice ay
nutted !!
LOL another tosser who bragged about his big bucks and got out smarted by the Russian women. What is it with you guys?? Is your wallet your only personality trait? Hmmmmm???
Remember no big deal mate could drop 100k, a pretty common number with you guys, and it would make no difference. Well if it makes no difference why bitch about it. If I go to the Kentucky Derby and drop 5 grand I don't sit and bitch and say the horses fucked me out of my money!!
Mike00: It's been a while since I was bored enough to wade through your unfathomable ramblings, but as always, it was fun and if the new kids bothered to decode your rot, there is more than a few good points in there.
oh well, at least I know to stay away from the site. Well it might just be worth trying to see if you can get the ladie's phone number once you have bought her email.
Mike that was hilarious mate. also very true.
Only other thing is I havent paid for the site yet i have been a member for over a year, so I would have thought that they would have given up by now, if they werent sincere.
I was in Chernigov from January 18th, 2009 to January 26th, 2009 on a trip by this UAladys agency. The whole experience has been BAD. My original plan was to stay there for two weeks. I have to end up cutting my trip to one week because I cannot stay there any longer!
The whole experience had taught me:
1. Paid correspondences are questionable. Because the agency has the incentive to have the clients keep sending their correspondence, they will fake the letters either on their own discretion or convince the lady to fake the letters. I don¡¯t know who faked the letters they sent me, but sometimes when I mentioned the things in her reply letters, my girl seemed not to remember!
2. We the guys in North America or the Western Countries are not fighting a downhill battle here. The girls here are not in a hurry to marry you! They have plenty of male supplies in their own country. I¡¯ve seen the girls and guys in the clubs in Chernigov. They just want to have another backup! Even the agency is a marriage agency, the girl I correspond to was NOT in a mood to marry!
3. If you do decide to come to meet the lad(ies) despite the letters may be fake, come with a friend who can speak Russian because if you are trapped, you can still safely return to your own country. I was lucky to meet a young driver around my age and knew a little bit of English. He showed me around the city and helped me to leave the country.
You may say I should have corresponded with multiple girls so as to diversify my risk. If I correspond with multiple girls, what I will get is more phony emails sent by I don¡¯t know who. Yes, maybe I will get the chance to meet all of them. But how many of them will act according to what they write in the letters?
Trust the things on this website and do not trust anything on the UAladys website! I was so stupid to believe in the *ought to be genuine* stuff on their website and go there. I can show you the pictures and correspondences with the ladies if you want to know if I really did go there. My email address is liangyq2001@hotmail.com My member ID on their website was 96146.
Quote: "The whole experience had taught me:
1. Paid correspondences are questionable. Because the agency has the incentive to have the clients keep sending their correspondence, they will fake the letters either on their own discretion or convince the lady to fake the letters. I don¡¯t know who faked the letters they sent me, but sometimes when I mentioned the things in her reply letters, my girl seemed not to remember!
2. We the guys in North America or the Western Countries are not fighting a downhill battle here. The girls here are not in a hurry to marry you! They have plenty of male supplies in their own country. I¡¯ve seen the girls and guys in the clubs in Chernigov. They just want to have another backup!"
kraine Marriage Agency Trip Reflection
At the time I am typing this article, I am at Kiev International Airport awaiting for my re-booked flight back to my home country. I paid extra penalty charges to re-book this flight because I need to get out of the city and go back to my home country as quickly as possible.
In this article, I will tell you about my entire UA Dream trip in a city called Chernigov, Ukraine. I will tell you about what happened, and what I thought about it back then and now.
But before I go to the main article, I think it’s necessary to talk a little bit about myself so that people will know where I am coming from and whether my background & experiences apply to you. I am a Canadian citizen. I am 27 years old. Asian descent. I work at a bank in Toronto, Canada. I passed my CFA Level I exam and am currently preparing for my Level II exam. Last January, I gave up my 5-year relationship with my girlfriend who was living in another country because she was not willing to move to Canada and she found new love and was about to marry. I congratulated her because I know our relationship could not last any longer due to such long distance.
7 years ago (2002) I signed up on a website called Confidential Connections while I was browsing for dating websites. Since then I’ve been receiving emails from them. Most of the time I ignored those emails as they are just one of the many dating website emails and I already had a girlfriend two years after I signed up on their website (5 years ago). But I noticed that for a period of time, I did not receive any email from Confidential Connections. Instead, I started to receive email from UALadys, UADream, Arladys, Chiladys, etc.
On June 23rd of 2008 (that was 5 months after I gave up my relationship with my ex girlfriend), I received one email from UAladys which stated it was translated for a lady in Ukraine. Her name is Anastasia R. (ID 5008) Her introduction letter went as follows
“Hi iori! (my web nickname)
How are you?
My name is Anastasia, I'm from Chernigov. I looked at your profile and got interested to learn more about you and start communication.
I hope that you will have a look at my profile and photos - maybe we have something in common and can continue this conversation? I really hope so..
Ancient Greeks believed that before people were different- wiser and harmonious, they even looked differently- like two grown together creatures. Gods decided to punish people and make them weaker- they cut every person in two halves and scattered them all over the world. Since that time every person feels himself incomplete and they look for their second halves to acquire harmony.
I think that Greeks were very wise people and this legend has grounds. Sometimes love comes so suddenly and we cannot explain why we have such strong feelings about the person. The feelings that appear when we meet our ‘second half’ are so strong and exciting that all other emotional experiences seem so insignificant.
Do you agree with this opinion?
I hope you will answer me!
With the best wishes,
Anastasia”
Please note that back then I did not have ANY photo in my profile and my profile was hardly complete. And at that time, I wasn’t aware of the fact that emails may actually be written by the agency but not the actual ladies. What I was thinking was that their country must be very poor that the ladies do not even care if the profile was complete or whether there are photos on the profile. I figured they were desperate to marry a foreigner and leave their country. And I thought I would be fighting a downhill battle with the ladies in this country. Although I have never tried marriage agency services, I decided to give it a try. But I only correspond with one lady because 1st , I do not know if these ladies are for real; 2nd, I do not know what the outcome will be; 3rd, their correspondence service costs about $6/letter on average, I do not want to spend all my money corresponding with multiple ladies and only to find this type of agency isn’t working in the end. (And this is exactly what I find out after the trip. Looking back I am proud of the choice I made.) So I replied this lady,
“Dear Anastasia,
How are you? Please accept my apologies for not replying your email earlier. In fact, I was on vacation in Vancouver for the past two weeks. (I just uploaded two photos from my Vancouver trip here!) This is actually my first time to try such services. I hope it will work. I notice in your profile that you are a Pisces. I don't know if you believe in horoscope, I do. Pisces are the best match for Scorpio. (I am a Scorpio.) I am very loyal to my partner. In the modern society where relationships seem so faint and volatile, I value quality and stability. Mutual respect and understanding are the keys to me in a relationship.
Your Greek legend is very interesting. Although I have not heard about this legend myself, I've always had the belief that people are like jigsaw puzzles--they are meant to complete each other to acquire balance. This is why I believe Pisces matches Scorpios. I like travelling, soft rock music, the mountains and the oceans. What's your daily life like?
Sincerely
Calvin”
After about one or two days, I’ve got her reply,
“Hello Dear Calvin!
Thank you for your letter!
I'm glad that you decided to answer me! I saw your pictures- you look very nice! I think we should continue our communication and correspondence and then we will see where it will lead us...
As for astrology, I'm not a big fan of it, but I read horoscopes sometimes and I think there is something there. Also, I believe that if two people are meant for each other- they will be together anyway.
You asked me about my everyday life- now it's very busy time for me as I have my exams session at the U
ou asked me about my everyday life- now it's very busy time for me as I have my exams session at the University. It will last for 10 days more and after that I will be a free person- I will have my summer vacation!!!
My parents are doctors, I have an elder brother Igor, he has just graduated medical college and now works together with my father.
I enjoy active lifestyle, I like to meet and go out with my friends, spend time close to nature, go to discos.
And what about you? What do you usually do during the day? Do you have a lot of friends? What do you like and don't like in people?
What kind of relationship are you looking for?
I wait for your answer!
Wish you to have a nice day and a good beginning of the week.
Bye,
Anastasia”
Impressed by the innocence and sweetness of the letter, and NOT being aware of whether this letter was written by the agency or the lady, I decided to continue our correspondence. Since then I had been corresponding with her on a weekly basis. Because I was busy during the week, I sent her one to two letters each week. *Her replies* were usually very prompt. (usually within 1 or 2 days) I thought this lady must be serious about this relationship. As time goes by, I FELT my relationship with this lady (according to the letters) was growing stronger and stronger.(you can read my letter correspondences here at www.ualadyscam.com ) Besides weekly correspondences, I sent her flowers, chocolates, toys, clothes(even underwear) through the agency website. She seemed to be very receptive to my gifts and thanked me and complemented me in her replies every time I sent her gifts. (you can read these from my correspondence letters) After corresponding for about half a year, I finally decided to visit her. In the reply letter, her reaction to my decision was,
“I hope you will come to Ukraine soon. Not only because I want to know what you bought me ;-))), but also because I want to meet you in person and learn you better. Come here, please, as soon as possible.” (her reply on Dec. 12th, 2008)
“I want you to know that I am with you though I am far away fom you. By the way, I won’t have a day-off from my studies too. ;-))) :-*” (her reply on Dec. 23rd, 2008)
“It’s nice that I’ll meet you soon in Chernigov. I’m looking forward to this day, my dear.”…” I feel nervous. ;-)) Our meeting is very important and I hope you’ll like me in real life, but at the same time I feel so nervous. ;-))” (her reply on Dec. 29th, 2008)
“I celebrated the New Year with my friends. It was a home party, but we were in the center of the city and we came back home. I felt alone, because you were far away from me and I wished I could celebrate this holiday with you. I hope it will happen the next time.” (her reply on Jan. 3rd, 2009)
“I know that you will probably not have chance to read my letter before you come to Ukraine. I guess you have started your trip already... I feel very very excited.. I want to see you so much!
I couldn't fall asleep last night... I was thinking about you... I cannot wait till I see you tomorrow... I wait for you!
Kisses-kisses-kisses!” (Jan. 17th, 2009)
After reading *her letters*, I felt that she was very very very excited about my coming and she was very passionate about meeting me and showing me around the city. I was also excited to come and meet her finally because I have been corresponding with her for over half a year and I cannot believe I was going to meet the lady finally.
The following part will be my description of the 7 day journey after I arrive in Chernigov (I was originally planning to stay in Chernigov for 14 days, but the experience was so bad that I cut my journey short once I felt the relationship wasn’t going anywhere. Please read on.)
Day 1, Sunday, January 18th, 2009
After 14 hours of flight, I finally arrived in Kiev International Airport. Kiev is a metropolitan city just like many big cities in Canada or the States. The only difference is the language and some building design (as they are still a little bit former Soviet style) At first I was thinking they must be living at a time a little bit post the primitive stage of the homosapiens. But I was wrong, in the small city I visited, they have supermarkets selling Hagen Das, they have clubs that play the latest HipHop from Europe & the States, they have the latest TV programs from the US such as Gilmore girls & Desperate Housewives translated into Ukrainian. Since I am not a big fan of TV episodes, I can only recognize these two. They have cellphones and wireless services as advanced as ours in the US or Canada. They have internet café everywhere. (as opposed to what they used to say on their website that most of the ladies do not have internet access) From that time on I immediate sensed that I wasn’t fighting a downhill battle, it was more like a leveled ground if not an uphill battle.
Around 3:15pm, I finally arrived at the café I am supposed to meet her. As soon as I saw my lady, I immediately gave her a big hug. She was smiling and happy to meet me. But I felt that she wasn’t as thrilled as she described in the letters. My first thought was that, “ok, maybe it’s her first time meet me in person, she’s a little bit nervous. Maybe that’s fine.” Because I chose the Introduction to a Lady Service, which cost me $50.(I didn’t choose their trip package because they were overpriced. The agency charged me $150 for my trip from Kiev airport to Chernigov. On my way back from Chernigov to Kiev airport, I paid approximately $50 to take a taxi! And I am pretty sure that I can live on my own and my lady will take care of me and be my guide after I arrive there.) According to their *rule*, my first meeting with the lady must be accompanied by an interpreter from the marriage agency. The interpreter stayed there for half an hour (as their maximum), took a photo of me and the lady
Interesting story calboy - I read the finishing at you web side ualadyscam.com
I must say you was very naive not taking the signals earlier at day one or two that this was not for real. Still go on buying a ring - champagne and so. I wonder what kind of communication you relay had with her in that 6 months? You never speak about your intentions to marry - about she com to live at your pace - what she do then with her studies - and that type of questions? You also now very little about her family and mother. You never ask about them - what they do and how they are? You took it for granted that when she was at the agency - she was there to marry and leave her country?
I can confirm the same story from another guy I know here. He to goes and visit a woman from UAladys. First trip he come home very happy with meeting his woman. They have been eating dinner with the UA translator and dancing. He had paid to get her a private English teacher and other gifts. One month later he take the next trip and visit her again. He want to invite her to come and visit him. To see how he lives. But suddenly it was this and that and she not wanted to move from her city. Everything for him was just waste of time and his money.
Common - if a agency not let you get any personal information - as UAladys - like a address or a phone number - and your only possibility is to go there and use all their services to get to her - it is not real - just business.
And why take a chance to travel and meet someone you not have any personal references with?
I answer a letter from a woman there my selves a year ago. The one and only letter I used at UA. However I find that same lady on another agency. There I got her address and later we got personal phone contact. But the fun thing was that UAladys still was keeping on sending me letter from this woman. She not send them - she smile about it and feel a little embarrassing or ashamed about it.
The sad thing is that there are people that totally don't care and can let a serious guy fly around all the word to meet someone - just to get some gifts - and then just "so what?".
I agreed that I am an inexperienced man in this field. That's why I decided to share my first-hand experiences with fellas here who had no experiences yet. Now that I have been there and done that, and with your valueable comments, I will be a wiser man next time. But I doubt there will be a next time for online marriage agencies.
Anyways, thanks for your comments.