I am using these websites but now I am getting similiar responses from girls. I am also looking at forums about these websites and its making me feel uncomfortable. Should I invest more money in these 2 websites for searching for love in Ukraine & Russia or is there another better one?
My last experience with a lady on Anastasia website was horrible. Since the lady introduces herself in the first letter, normally I got interested, but after 7 or 8 letters of exchanging (each letter costs $8) she tells me there is no chemistry between us!!! What the hell why did she contact me in the first place to begin with. Now I am wondering was this a REAL lady or a someone from the agency/agent writing me? How has everyone else's experiences on these websites? I am curious if I should continue bothered with these websites? Thanks. Shaz
On A-web, 99% of the time it's someone from the agency writing you. I know girls who have this job. I know how much they get paid per letter.
I also know girls from Odessa on A-web, and I can say that almost none of them are not looking for a 50 year old foreign husband. Just the other night, I saw one girl who supposedly wrote to me. She was at a night club, hanging all over her 25 year old local boyfriend. I'm sure that if I went up to her and said that I was the guy she wrote to she would have no idea who I was, and her boyfriend would probably have punched me.
VNVnation - i'm surprised you were able to pick the girl out from a crowd or that the photos A-web was using were real (guess that's one thing they were honest about).
by the way, how much do the girls get paid by letter? that kind of explains why the letters are five lines, written hastily, and make absolutely no sense.
is elena's models much better since you can get their contact information?
I know nothing of Elena's but I have had good success on Anastasia, I meant in actually meeeting the girls, which is what you can hope for. There are many variables involved here, what guy and girl can bring to the table( ex. personality, interests), chemistry, how mature girl is and finding the sincere girls on the sites, since many are flooded with insincere ones.
Sorry, VNV...I must have found the couple girls in that 1%....actually, of the, lets see, of the 11 women I have met in Odessa only 11 of them wrote their own letters unless the agency has carefully interviewed the girls, let them know what was written AND girls have memorized many of the facts from letters. Yes, some of those 11 were maybe just 'daters' or'shoppers' but mostly when I was just starting out.
Well, I know two girls who work for A-web affiliates and they both told me that they write the letters, and they do pass on some information to the girl. If the girl has any interest, the girl might say a few things on the phone and then the letter writer includes those things in the next letter.
If a man comes to visit, yes, the girl is told everything about the guy, so it seems like she actually wrote the letters. A-web in Russia has some rule about this.
Did you have any success with the girls from A-web? I mean, do you have a serious relationship with any of them? Or did you just meet and take them and their translators to Yokogama or Voyage?
VNV....I don't dispute that girls are telling you the truth. I have heard many stories also.
I just don't think it is 99% this happens.
As far as briefing a girl before with info from letters before guy comes to visit, it is rather easy to figure out girl 'forgets' some things. It is easier to remember something that comes from your brain than something that someone tells you, to me it is obvious. I have yet to find girl that I think didn't write letters. One good way of testing is to ask a question about a fact that was not on letters, if she answers you will know.
I have not had a serious relationship with a girl from anastasia. I have met quite a few but most did not work out either me or girl did not want to proceed. Most times I met girl with their translator( if girl's english was poor)in a cafe. If I was hungry and girl seems sincere maybe I would ask if they wanted to get some dinner. I think I have heard of Yokogama, many japanese restaurants are going up. There was a nice one on Rishelyevskaya near Troitskaya.
Its always a risk with sites that go via translators and agencies that the communication is not genuine. You can mitigate it by doing stuff like asking for their postal address and then writing to them to exchange cell numbers and direct email. Also ask for non-professional photos, probe a bit about family, education, work etc. Hint at wanting to meet up after 2 or 3 letters. The genuine ones will also ask you pointed questions about past relationships and your attitude to family, whereas the fakes usually stick to trotting out platitudes about relationships and love and asking you generic questions like what you do on a typical day.
Ill give you examples from my own conversations that illustrate this
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I am sure that nest-building role in life is woman's one. I think that woman must give a lot of love and happiness to everyone in the house. She is a person who guarantees the cozy and psychologically comfortable atmosphere in the place of living. What do you think about "love-from-the first-sight" ? It seems to me it must be like sign from the Heaven.
I wish you to have a good holiday and hope to read how will you spend Thanksgiving Day? Could you cook the turkey? Do you enjoy cooking by your own?
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That one has all the characteristics of an agency fake: throw away pop-philosophy and inconsequential questions.
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I read information about you. And I still have some questions. Do you keep in contact with a child of your ex-wife? Do I get it right that your marriage was the only serious relationship of yours in your life? Why would you like to meet a woman from Russia? You live alone with your dog... Does your dog have enough place to run? ;-)
I think we will be able to talk over the phone soon indeed. Why not in the end?
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That one I believe to be from a genuine lady, one I am currently arranging to meet so I guess time will tell ...
In generally better off on direct contact sites like elena's models and club10 but there is a lot more competition for the most attractive ladies on these sites.