Hi everybody. In this topic I'll tell you briefly about some real ways of meeting real girls. All these ways are based on real experience and practice. Some information about me: my name is Aram, I live in Nikolaev, Ukraine and work as a teacher and interpreter of English language at "Doctor English" company.
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1. Find somebody who is successfully married to a lady from fsu countries. She probably has many relatives and acquaintances that want to get married to a foreigner too. And you have a certain guarantee they're not scammers.
2. Just visit a Ukrainian city, not very large one, rent an apartment in the central part of it (it will be much cheaper and more comfortable than living in a hotel) and meet girls everywhere. Visit public places, clubs, cinemas, cafes, concerts, festivals, universities, just walk along the streets. Try to do the same things locals usually do. Be active and you'll have a lot of friends, you'll meet lots of girls and one of them can become your loving party.
3. There are a lot of local social websites in here. This is "Mamba" internet community. They are free and there are over 12 million females of any ages, interests and types there looking for marriage or fun, meeting interesting people and new friends and many other things. These sites are free and for Russian-speaking people. You can create a profile there and search for women that have the same interests and intentions with you. Using these sites you can find the woman you need. Many local guys use this resource to meet girls and most of them are successful. We use these sites to find a wife or a girlfriend, a lover and even a girl for a night.
4. Go to a marriage agency. They say 1 of 100 people is successful there)))
I’ve just written here what to do, if you are interested I can write how to do it in details.
Hi there,
would you check out a girl for me who lives in your city?
Long story best keep to a private call, sp maybe i can telephone you?
If tou can help i will try to send you my personal e maill address but not sure how i can keep the details private! any ideas?
Thanks.
PS the advice you give is spot on to.
There are so many interesting stories about foreigners coming to Nikolaev, Ukraine. I know many of them because I'm an interpreter and deal with many guys all over the world. Let me tell you a story of successful visit, not a scam. It was my last experience with a foreigner who looked for a Ukrainian wife.
I met him when he came to our English school. Three times he was in Nikolaev before through marriage agencies. And that was his fourth visit. He tolled he needed a very tall and slim girl, beautiful, no children and up to 30 years old. It wasn't easy to find such a girl that met all his requirements. We started our search walking along the streets and meeting girls. Many of them were glad to meet him, some said they didn't want to marry or leave their country, but most of them were friendly and interested in communication with an English speaking foreigner.
We spent 4 days meeting girls and enjoying the life. We visited night clubs, concerts, shops, went sightseeing. He found out that Nikolaev is much bigger and much more interesting than he could ever imagine. And he didn't spend a lot of money for all that stuff. We avoided expensive restaurants, stores and professional scammers. We rented a big flat in the center of the city for him with cable TV, DVD, internet and it was twice cheaper than a room in the hotel.
Unfortunately he didn't find a girl that met all his demands that time. But I can assure you that lots of girls wanted to have serious relationship with him. All of them were pretty, but not all of them were tall enough and/or of model shapes and those who were had children. He said e.g. "Oh, Ana is so beautiful, but she is only 1,75 centimeters tall", or "She is the one, but she has a child".
And he had to come back home. But before I created a profile for him on a local social website. In two month being in his country he communicated to about 100 girls of his demands (with my help, I interpreted online for him). And then he visited Nikolaev again for 10 days, to meet some of them. We met about 20 girl, but at the same time we went on just meeting girls in the street. Finally, he met a girl when we were in one of our Universities. And he said he had liked her the best. She was very friendly, tall, pretty, slim, 21 years old and had no children. Her English was poor and she was really afraid of going to South Africa (that guy's country). We met her granny and asked her to let her granddaughter to visit my friend. We agreed that she would go to South Africa in January (it was October). My friend paid for her two month English classes.
After that his expenses were:
- 200$ for her passport and birthday present (she didn't want to get that money, but he insisted)
- 300$ for visiting Embassy in Kiev and applying for visa
- 200$ for visiting Embassy for the second time to get her visa
- 150$ for the trip to Odessa airport by taxi (he insisted her to get a taxi, she wanted to go there by bus it would be much cheaper)
- And he paid for her tickets (I don't know how much)
He sent money to my account and I controlled it. (In these expenses my interests were included, I was with her during the trips, and helped her)
Now they are together, and I hope they are happy.
I think it's a nice story; it has happy end and no scam
SOOTY it's mamba.ru
Dunromin would you prefer to send money to a girl you know only a week or to a friend that can control it?
beemer18 I wrote above that the site is in russian so you have to know some russian words to register and search if you'd like i can create a profile for you
bowhunter I don't have an agency, I provide services for foreigners such as interpreting, guiding, teaching Russian, accommodation, life and legal support. I don't sell girls' profiles and I don't care about the reasons foreigners are in my city. Oh, and the main business is an English School for locals.
Well I read your post Bonddd and it was impressive on many fronts. One big part was how you kept from telling this guy to completely go to hades is beyond me. Lets see, he wants a woman under the age of 30, no kids, tall, slim, beautiful that wanted to leave her native country just like that. Wow. Was this guy like Tom Cruise or similar looks? Im assuming definately not like Cruise in the fact that he didnt have money because he sure wasnt willing to part with it. And please tell me this guy wasnt a 45+ year old dude.
If he wasnt a great looking guy, wasnt under 40 and didnt have loads of money, I would have shown him the door. But I guess thats why you are successful at what you do and I do something else as an occupation.
But nonetheless, hats off to you for your help and success.
Man I wish it was this cheap and easy to get a Ukrainian to America today
Quote: "Dunromin would you prefer to send money to a girl you know only a week or to a friend that can control it?
beemer18 I wrote above that the site is in russian so you have to know some russian words to register and search if you'd like i can create a profile for you"
Bonddd: Friend? Friends are hard won people. FYI, I've been married to a Russian woman for probably longer than you've been thinking of hocking your services around the net. Most kind of you, but I'll pass, I'm quite capable of creating my own profile on a Russian website if I so choose.
Thanks Bond, I do have my profile on mamba already. I do know some russian is it was fairly easy but first time I visited...boy was I lost!!!
If I get to nikolaev in april, I'll look you up. After a few years at this search, I figured best way to proceed was to become more like a local...friends, language, familiarity.....and concentrate on 2 cities...odessa and chisinau.
ndfb Tom Cruise doesn't have 197 height. You are right that guy is tall, handsome, 38 years old, and I don't know how wealthy he is. But the matter is that each man looking for a woman has to be realistic. Don’t try to find a 21 years old model if you are 45+, there are a lot of beautiful women of 30+ looking for a husband. Most of them have a child or two. (You see in our country it’s abnormal for a woman 30+ to have no children.)
Hello Bonddd
My name's Jason I'm from the Netherlands, I'm coming to Kiev on 26 jan. Can I take a taxi from Kiev airport to Nikolaev. Also I need a flat for a week. How much will it cost? Will you be so kind to book it for me? Do I have to pay in advance?
Jason... look at a map of Ukraine and you will see Odessa is much closer to Nikolaev than Kiev. Fly there and then taxi or bus to Nikolaev. Otherwise you can also fly from Kiev to Odessa then bus to Nikolaev... more reasonable than taking a taxi from Kiev .
Mini Cooper I'm not sure that a flight from Kiev to Odessa and then taking a bus to Nikolaev is more reasonable than a direct trip from Kiev to Nikolaev. People can take a direct train, bus or a taxi to Nikolaev it depends on how much they are ready to pay.