In a previous post, a womens forum was mentioned. I went to see the forum, and after considerable time with the Prompt translator, and going through some posts, I can definatly see remarkable similarities between them. The women are concerned, and there is the one idiot (Vlad) that insists that all women who search the internet are whores and going to end up in "their own brothel". Kind of reminds me of that immature idiot who posted awhile ago saying that he goes to russia just fo rsex. Anyway, in this forum, we hear of precious few good stories, but a lot of concern over scammers. The ladies are concerned too, but it seems they are more concerned with leaving their motherland. This added something that I had not thought about too much, that the lady I select to be my wife (I hope she selects me too! ha!) will be leaving her homeland, her motherland, where she was born, and raised. She will be tavelling to a foregn country, with a completly different governmental (key word: Mental) structure, and completly different culture and language. They are concerned withthe men's lack of respect. I will say this: The lady that thinks enough of me to come to the USA, leave her homeland, will have all the respect I can offer. They are also afraid of coming to be taken advantage of, they are literally scared shitless that they will be coming to a man who will only allow them to be a housewife, maid, and sex slave (I think we had a post a long time ago from a woman complaing her husband does not let her drive the car, or go out on her own). While we bitch and moan about losing some money to a scammer, these ladies are worried about losing their whole life, their pride, and their self-respect. For all the men reading this, please, PLEASE treat your ladies right, and understand what they gave up for you, love them and appreciate them. Do not abuse them or use them for your own personal gain. My heart goes out to these women.
Chip, I agree with you 100% on their concerns (it was interesting translating some of the posts). Knowing that they are scared to leave, alot of questions arise such as, where are they willing to leave to? It would be helpful if there was a part of the lady's profile that specified what countries she would be willing to move to. That way if a lady only wants to move to Germany, guys from the UK or US know ahead of time.
I have found the majority of those who are willing to move don't care where to. I have had 1 say she only wanted to move to Europe. I tend to think if a woman had a specific country in mind, then her motives would be leaning more toward getting a guy just to immigrate to that country.
Yeah, i don't think that we need to know that piece in advance. Surely if you are worth it, then the woman would move to where ever you wanted to. I have actually had one say, that she was happy to move anywhere in the world with me, even if i doubt her sincerity, the remark is quite possibly true.
yes, that is definatly a good sign. Or, she may be saying that knowing you live in a desireable country, and knowing you wouldn't want to move anywhere else. I say to test that theroy by saying a relative of yours left you property in the artic circle, and you are going to move there.
Various translators possible, but Prompt's (http://www.translate.ru/text.asp?lang=en) seems to be least ineffective.
So, Chippie, that was a sort-of surprise for you eh, that these women worry about leaving lot, stock & barrel? That tells me a lot about yourself. There appear to be plenty guys who worry going over for a stupid visit, wondering if it will be 'safe', if they can communicate, and where to book the cheapest accom, or what form is best etc. But these wimps expect a woman to come over to a near-total stranger, accept him with all his possible whims, and settle without any problems in a totally different part of the world likely not even speaking the language properly.
Let me guess - you believe in fairytales do you, and if not you expect Father Chrismas to drop something sexy in your sock?
No, it didnt surprise me in the least bit, I completly understood. I think that it is amazing that they have the willpower, and the fortitude to do it, I was very impressed