You are now speaking with Olga of Customers support.
Olga: Hello
todd: hi
todd: Can you explain how someone could send me a message yet not have looked at my profile or come up on the "you've been contacted by" section in my communicator
Olga: sometimes lady's translator automatically sends messages to many-many guys, than if you reply the girl will see and decide if she'd like to connect with you or not
todd: thanks for wasting our time with lies
Olga: tank you as well
todd: for what
Olga: for wasting our time with complaints
Olga: bye
todd: i'm going to post this on web forums olga
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I'm sure some of you knew of this practice but I wanted to also show the attitude.
Does anyone know anything else about this site or it's many affiliates?
Actually, I asked a similar question of Fiance.com support earlier today...
Of all the pages I can navigate to, the only way I can initiate a first letter, is from her full profile page. That doesn't apply to replies, but that's a different thing. I noticed that quite a few women had initiated letters to me, some saying "I read your profile and I like what you wrote".... except, Fiance.com has a nifty link called "Ladies visited my page" which shows you exactly who has actually viewed your full profile, and many of them hadn't!
So of course I asked, how can a woman send me a first email without actually seeing my profile? I also asked if the interface the ladies see is different from what we see. And they said "Yes it is."
The answer was interesting. The women have a "Match" interface, which we show up on if we match their filters, AND they can directly initiate correspondence from that page without actually visiting the full profile page.
I'm sure this is in part to accommodate their "affiliate agencies" who do want to trawl prospects for their girls, etc.
That said, for all that seeming hanky panky, I've still got 2 very awesome prospects. One in particular is writing longer letters, and every paragraph has context to the ongoing conversation...
Here's another interesting thing. That one very obviously has a good translator working with her.
I'm finding that the quality of the translator can make ALL the difference. All the more reason to get someone you trust into the pipeline as soon as you can.
One girl was almost getting offended and angry with me. All kinds of impatient, asking me "why you say crazy things like <...insert whacky idea...>" and I'm thinking, hell no, I didn't say that!! And if I try to correct it? Only made it worse!!
Then I realized it was all in the translation.
Sure does add power to the notion of "find someone who has at least a moderate English ability"! Hell, if they're serious, they'll be all over it......
This is all too complicated...interface? Initiate correspondance?
Whatever happened to the sites where you just pay a monthly subscription fee get your profile on and start communicating.
This pay for this and pay for that is bullshit.
If you pay money up front for membership and then are restricted to who and by what means you have of communicating until you pay more money.. then that site is in business to take your money not to establish a connection.
veggamattic,
You say that was 1st. International marriage that you were talking to?
I thought the administrator person was a man.
This 1st. international site is the worst site that I've come across.
But anyone with notice something about the women's profiles that are listed with 1st. Inter. and that is, there the same profiles as on sites like AFA and army of Brides, etc, etc.?..and fiance.com.
There are lots of different customer service people. I have clicked the 24/7 cust service link and spoken to a few woman. I think you are referring to the contact us link. The guy's name is Gregory.
Veggamattic,
I thought the Gregory man, is the site's main security/administrator person.
I spoke to him last year via emails, pointing out the women with 2 or 3 profiles and lots of other scam stuff going on with the site.
He made up lies for the fact that this site is full of scammers.
This site/ sites are a full-on scam letter writing site.
And yet, this 1st. Inter. Marriage network is affiliated with everyone else.
If you were talking to women, where they based in the US?
I had a chat with customer support at natasha club, i pointed out there a profile of a girl who had a false profile and reports of scamming against her. They thanked me and suspended her pending an investigation. Her profile was removed for about 5 days. They posted her profile again and it was identical again to the one that i reported and she is still there. I ask myself even if you are right and feel vindicated by your actions ultimately you will be kicked in the teeth by the corrupt mentality of this agency. Basicly it looks proffesional but it is not, it is no more than a vessel for scams and scam agencies.
tribalogical, this is why you just reply and see if her second reply is ok. if not move on. send report to support. or , just ignore such letters from the beginning.
you can see which girl is with private email, which is with agency.
also, men send multiple letter introductions too. so.. again you have all tools on fiance.com to determine who is sincere who is not. also be careful if somebody gives you private email in first message. They me be just collecting your emails.
yes. sometimes somebodey places profile on a dating site and start giving private email and asking to write there. few days later you will be killed with dating spams. we catch such girls on fiance.com, and remove them. I was talking on general safety in internet dating.