I thought I would write love,romantic letters to one girl & end in happy ending, but now It is my 2nd year!!!!! I don't even want to mention my scam letters I get from girls!!!
I've been at it for a little over three weeks. A badly wasted week at Anastasia (read and wrote a total of 6 letters and got wise fast), then two weeks on Fiance.com as of tomorrow...
If any of the few women I've "met" and am most interested in (and especially one in particular) were to actually work out...? I think it would be some kind of miraculous hi-speed event. :)
I don't have high expectations or seriously have my hopes up, but I'm feeling encouraged.
I've talked to one on the phone so far. If she's even remotely similar to the impressions I have so far, from the letters, photos and phone calls? I'm done........ all that's really left is to meet her in person. If we click as well face-to-face as we seem to do in every other respect... I'd have no excuse but to date her seriously and exclusively for 6 months and see if it holds up. Neither of us is in a hurry. Just feeling a "mutual spark"... insofar as one can tell from afar...
Talking to her again, and to a second lady, this coming weekend. I don't juggle this stuff well... I might just stick to the one, and hey, if it doesn't work out after meeting her, I'll go see what the rest of the country looks like... :)
So, yes, at this point, I'm thinking it certainly is possible to meet someone absolutely great, and real, and right for a person, without a lot of undue time and effort.
I think it has a lot to do with expectations (setting them correctly at first), being absolutely honest and up front about yourself (and honest WITH yourself), knowing what you want, being selective, and not dallying with those that don't fit the bill... and finally, keep your smaller, second head out of the equation when the really important stuff needs to be considered...
tribalogical- took me two months also, and I had no high hopes or expectations, but I knew the type of person I was interested in getting to know, I did not waste my time with anyone who did not completely fit my desired person, and I absolutely told all about myself and said if anything does not appeal to you, please do not waste our time, except I kept hidden the fact that I make mucho deniero. keep to your guns -- do not go outside of reality or change yourself because of just another pretty face or smokin hot ........... just be real with yourself and the lady, and be honest and be humble, but also don't be a weenie -- much success to you
I met my wife on second trip via free Russian language online dating service. I wasnt even going to the Ukraine looking for a wife, just having a good time and we clicked. We dated for 4 years before getting married. Pretty much how normal people develop relationships.
Only difference is she is 29 years younger than me and is hot looking. Im not!