Your words lead me to believe that I am screwed. I am not 50 yet, but I just married a girl in her 20s. So, when she gets to be 30, I will be at the door of 50. According to your logic, I have no chance.
What am I supposed to do? Should I kick her to the curb now before it hurts more in a few years when I am old and wrinkled and she is a stunning 30-year young Russian beauty?
How sure are you that a girl in her early 30s will not want to be with a 50-year old, grandpa like me?
Thank you for the Merry Christmas and the same to all.
FSULover I will not answer for Nobodyknows but I will say this. I heard one thing from her post and it was not the words she used. What I heard was the hurt, the anger, and the emotions she felt for her friend half way around the world and it brought a tear to my eyes.
If she wishes to qualify that into a literal answer so be it but her message was very clear to me and I think you will not find a finer lady in Russia.
The account section clearly says 64 X 64. It doesn't accept anything else. What does a hot chick do? Ask if her avatar can be the exception? My suspicion is she is friends with one of the administrators or even be an administrator herself.
i may be a friend of someone on here but not administrator's for sure)))
just had a pic, tried to load it and here you go))
did not think of its size. actually im sure it was not because of its size - it may be of worse quality than yours but just longer. so it looks bigger
thats a trick
nobody knows is a nice lady. She is not a fake nor is she associated with management of fiance.com.
Her photo properties say it is 64 pixels X 196 pixels. Try sizing one of your own to that size and see if it will load. Maybe it is a fluke in the software and it works even though the written rules say it does not.
What nobody knows has said on here is an attempt to give you information you ask for, no more and no less.
sorry OZ, you didn't get what I was saying... it had to do with 'why does anyone care if her pic is bigger than mine or anyones?' what does it matter, why would a grown man be upset - or have the appearance of it - because some lady's avatar photo is larger than his? That was my point.
An example of a stupid remark that makes no sense by someone.
I was not upset. I simply wanted to know. It is said that there is only one stupid question and that is the question that isn't asked. Ralph, I have read that your lady has a kid. Kids are full of questions. Being in a new land, your lady will have many questions. I hope you don't go ballistic when you get overwhelmed by questions.
Ralph, I do appreciate your telling me specifically this time why my post is stupid. This was the first time you did that instead of attacking me without me knowing why. Sorry, I don't agree. Mr. Oz and nobodyknows did not recognize it as such. At least, I don't think so. I appreciate their answer and now, I know.
There was a long period of time when I had no avatar. I spent a lot of time, tried many pictures, sized them up, even to much smaller than 64 X 64, and could not upload them. Then, I saw nobodyknows with a bigger avatar than what is supposed to be accepted. I finally realized that somehow, for some reason, the system was not accepting pictures from my laptop. I am nearsighted. 64 X 64 is much too small for my eyesight.
I thought what Ralph was speaking about, that nobodyknows was trying to show people how stupid they are, is marrying someone who is much younger. This, I believe is a much more important point than the avatar. Sorry. I thought the avatar question would be answered in one, two sentences or even a paragraph. This thread is much too important to be lost discussing avatar.
I also told my observation on the affidavit of support; that I don't think it is being enforced. I also hope others will tell their experiences on this.
Ragingbull i don't believe Ralph's post was aimed at you how you are referring,, it took me a bit but the penny dropped with Ralph's humour, the "ruse comment and such:)
i didn't actually see your question as a part of it..
hey its kind of typical of how Russians get confused with our humour often, taking something of nothing seriously out of text, what trouble that's got me into:)
as in Nobodyknows comments, i think its a very delicate game when partnering older and younger people together, its not impossible but it dose make the motives of the girl doing such even more questionable, and of cause a lot more understanding is needed from each other..
whats that saying" cannot teach an old dogs new tricks, some older man can be just to set in their ways for such, or just gets old to quick for her.
that is the reason I'm searching Russia, our girls here just get old to quick, its just dam irritating to see body's physically useless so early in their lives, "allergic to even a walk"..
i bet Nobodyknows thinks Ralph's a right bastard:)) or did:)
Oz I'm really sorry about your predicament, i hope it can be sorted out quickly..
its terrible how we cannot deal with such rationally and with speed,, what rational person wouldn't. this type of thing has just got out of control, the fight always seems to be with a system that has very little logic, dealing with the ex partner is really easy stuff compared.
i wonder what her idea or plan really was, when she took her first steps into the system and if it snowballed out of control on her, or maybe didn't snowball the right way,, i guess she only really knows..
anyway i hope it hasn't put you off Nobodyknows' world..
and i wish you many many great fishing days,,, is walking the plank still legal?
What I have to say may be of absolutely no solice, but maybe if there is a scammer in the world reading this it may be food for thought (besides the fact that if they actually gave same energy to finding a good husband & good life would sure surpass the few hundred bucks they scam here & there)
Anyway, despite personal beliefs, faith, any of that...there is ONE principle every culture in history has held to from painful experience. Call it; live by sword - die by sword, sow what you reap, what goes around comes around, Karma...those are only the 1s I can write in my language. It is the law of RECIPROCITY. The same equivalent of Einstein's relativity - for every action there is an equal & opposite reaction.
For every harm we inflict on a person; lie, cheat, steal; you can eventually expect the return in your own life tenfold.
I don't have to fully understand something in order to witness it so is the story of virtually all of mans history. You want to go around screwing people for a short material gain? Let me know who you are so I can move myself far from you before your house caves in around your head.
Like I said, it's not much solace. I doubt in the end that Land of Oz really wants to see harm come to this lady. But it's all about the choices we make.
I have been scammed by a lady. And it was because of this I decided to look to the FSU to find a woman. And then I discover they are the same! Well not exactly.
A boy comes home from school and tells his mom, "Mom I heard some new words at school today. I think they may be bad words." "Well son, what are the words?" He tells her, "Pussy and bitch." "OH!" She tells him, "Well son, pussy is our cat Sabrina and bitch is a female dog as our Blacky is." He says, "Okay, I think I understand." The boy goes out to the garage where his father is working. He says, "Dad, I just asked mom about a couple words I learned at school today. I don't think she told me the truth." The father asks, "Well what are the words?" The boy says, "Pussy and bitch." The father frowns and then pulls a playboy magazine from the shelf and opens it up to the centerfold. He draws a circle arount the lady's pubic area. He says, "Son, the area inside the circle is called a pussy." The boy contemplates it for a minute and then asks, "Well what is a bitch then?" The father responds, "Everything outside the circle."
May you all discover everything inside the circle and nothing outside the circle. Unless what you find outside the circle is a real human being who wants nothing more than a good man and who wants to be a good woman and a true friend.