I have been scammed by a lady. And it was because of this I decided to look to the FSU to find a woman. And then I discover they are the same! Well not exactly.
A boy comes home from school and tells his mom, "Mom I heard some new words at school today. I think they may be bad words." "Well son, what are the words?" He tells her, "Pussy and bitch." "OH!" She tells him, "Well son, pussy is our cat Sabrina and bitch is a female dog as our Blacky is." He says, "Okay, I think I understand." The boy goes out to the garage where his father is working. He says, "Dad, I just asked mom about a couple words I learned at school today. I don't think she told me the truth." The father asks, "Well what are the words?" The boy says, "Pussy and bitch." The father frowns and then pulls a playboy magazine from the shelf and opens it up to the centerfold. He draws a circle arount the lady's pubic area. He says, "Son, the area inside the circle is called a pussy." The boy contemplates it for a minute and then asks, "Well what is a bitch then?" The father responds, "Everything outside the circle."
May you all discover everything inside the circle and nothing outside the circle. Unless what you find outside the circle is a real human being who wants nothing more than a good man and who wants to be a good woman and a true friend.
Yes this is the thread, poor ol' 'Land of oz', I think the forum as a whole felt for him and his situation and for any American national to suggest "no worries" ..... well!
Please ... ALL OF YOU ... Take a read through this thread from page 1 onwards and ... LEARN
And even if you aren't a US national, I had it back in the UK back in 2001, we'd split up, she'd gone off to live with a friend and was thinking of working illegally, for fear of being blacklisted myself I reported her and her immediate response, in not so many words, was "If you make life difficult for me I'll report you to the police for rape".
My jaw dropped but quickly recovered for me to call her bluff and reply "Tell me where you are and I'll call the police myself".
Oh yes, they've all read the same book and/or watched the same movie!
You know in life all things will happen. After reading about the extreme paranoia here, I was going to rig my house with video recorded cameras to a scuzzi stack of 2 tetra byte drives so I could literally stores over a year of sound and video as well as record all phone calls to document a scam. Then I merry my wife. An FSU angel. I met her whole family, well off by fsu standards. I told her about the prenuptial that days she gets $2 k for each year we are married, nothing more. That's how whack reading these stories will make you. When she came here I only got the prenup. Here is you call 911 no one has to go to jail and besides that we have 2 kids, one each who are very into family life.
Sorry these things happen but honestly capt women come from all over the world.
Watch for the signs. When you are just hanging out does she cuddle up under your arm? Does she rib your neck with our being asked? When you are sitting down does she sit right up right against you? Or a couple feet away?
There ate too many subtle signals for her to fake them all, and this is hardly the worst sorry I've read. I know a man who lost millions. They were real estate investors and she got him to put all the properties in her name.
Common sense, a great prenup, and observation will save you every time.
I know of a case where a foreign lady married someone in my country and they apparently had some disagreements that resulted in domestic violence. The police were called the husband was arrested. But I do not think that the foreign lady pressed charges. They later reconciled.
Yes, but the cuddling and kissing should come at the right time: On the first few dates a woman who does not touch you or get too close can be cautious and keeping her dignity. A woman who cuddles you all over, on the first date, could be getting one of her hands in your wallet (literally or not literally) will caressing your neck with the other one.
Remember the 4re example, the woman was practically having sex with him on webcam before they even met in person!
Dude, web cam? Who cares? Do these people really get all that serious over a woman they never met? I made 3 trips over and spent a minimum of 18 days each time and the 2 ond 2 times lived with her. Then we had 9 days in Dominican Republic. You would be crazy to do any less. Then on top of that she signed a serious pre nup.
But I do know a guy that speaks of his fiance and had never met her in person yet...
people get real. If you need a woman that bad just go rent one
This might sound funny...( Merikan too ) but can someone PM me, a pre nuptial agreement draft. Anything in particular that if overlooked, might turned dangerous to me, and that should be put in print to avoid major financial/ legal headaches?. She had not objected to this requirement but I need to produce a document and see her reaction. And surely after this milestone, I will need a lawyer before getting merry. Seriously and NOT joking!!!!
Sorry for a thread drift but UK tends to follow USA in most things, McDonalds, obesity etc. and indeed lawyers and I've recently been reminded that such lawyer adverts are all over TV to the effect "no win no fee let us sue them for you".
A recent two cases have been won whereas airlines in the EU can be sued by their passengers in event of a technical delay ... please take in to consideration that commercial airliners are maintained to stringent standards but anything such as a light bulb popping could render the aircraft technical and delay/prevent it from flying.
Also take in to account that a commercial aircraft might operate 6 or more back to back services during a day , let's say it's a 250 seater, that it's first flight of the day is delayed by a few hours due technical and this reacts in to delaying all 6 services that day ... that's 1,500 court cases for one aircraft in one day and should the delays react in to following day's operations then even more court cases.
It was no big deal, the prenup. Before asking her to marry me I sat down with her and we just talked. Mean I was there to ask her father permission and I had told her I needed her to sign one before, but 8 just explained that my last american wife had taken half of my retirement and while I had enough time to save up again I didn't have time to save up two more. It's only in event if she leaves me or makes my life situation unbearable, or cheats. It's not really that crazy an agreement
Kaiser, your prenup has to be for you, not a general one. A general one can be read and misinterpreted. For example I thought of specifically mentioning each item. Property by property, but then they can still get you for improvements on the property or the increase in value. Even if they don't they can screw you through the financial obligation papers you filed when the entered the country. To offset these if she leaves she had choices. I will send her with $2 k per year back home, she can stay here and work and still get that money but if she takes me to court for the $20 k per year there's is a clause where she owes me every dime found in her favor plus legal fees. That is pretty much as iron clad add you can get, but if you have kids, nothing can save you.