There has been an awful lot going on between my lady & I since I 1st posted my ?s. She has deleted her profile from AoB & we are communicating strictly by phone & email now.
"Hello, dear Bill! I have maken a decision with the help of my brother. He has found a woman who will help us to correspond. We will use your e-mail and my brother's at work. Of course we won't be able to correspond and to change letters every day but we will keep in touch. My brother told me that today and i decided to finish my staying here in this site before thew New Year comes. I want to come into the New Year with you and don't want to stay any longer here. I have found you here and would like to corrsepond with you only. I don't want to delay as the main agency may start having days off already so i want them to delete my profile tomorrow and now i want to read all your letters i didn't answer and to answer them. There is such a tradition in Ukraine if you don't want to get back don't leave anything behind you. I don't want to get back, i have found you and need nobody else."
There have several other messages back & forth as we set it all up. Turns out the agency she was with was a new start up, a lady she liked & only has 7 girls to start. She trusted the lady & she has been good to her so there was some loyalty there. Plus she did have some letters from a couple other men. That was the 'stepping back' I sensed for a period. The girl just stinks at lying. So instead she was vague & indecisive suddenly & then finally came clean. We've back to 'exclusive' now for about 3 weeks now out of 4 months of corresponding. None of it bothered me once I knew all the truth. This is a LIFE decision. We both have letters coming in constantly & it's distracting as hell. If you're not prepared to stick it out....go home. If you are the right one for her, time & persistence won out for me. Like I said, you haven't seen the messages since that 1. Let's just say I'm convinced we're rock solid.
I knew in November that commitments were going to keep me from getting to Nikolaev until February. I stalled for a bit while things were edgy so to match my invoices/income, my flight MIGHT be as late as March 4th. That's life. I'm a working man & have to go w/ what I can. I sold my Lear jet last year so now flights around the world take a little more planning.:) I've been up front about the timing with her from the begining. At 1st it seemed time to get to know each other. Now I'm chomping at the bit & March seems way to far away. She is excited also. (The 'no flights & airport is little' remark below came from me asking about an airport I can see in Nikolaev from Google Earth. But no direct flights)
"Life has done the most for us, giving the luck to meet and i will wait for you to come to me. Bill, Odessa is very close to Nikolaev, 1-2 hours by car, so there are no flights and the airport is little. so you can take a bus or taxi and in the biggest 2 hours will be in Nikolaev."
If I didn't say I was ecstatic happy I'd be lying. But I'm still holding that small caution %. You dig at this, focused for so long then you finally hear the deep from the gut, sincere words you've been waiting for & it's almost a shock. Now my brain is ticking away all that comes after this. What's to come will likely make "This" seem easy in comparrison. I flat shocked her & gambled the whole game by going right at her about the AoB reputation, one guys blog saying in Nikolaev newspapers there have ads for girls to make 50/50 $ on correspondence etc... Just went right to it. You don't expect a; "Yes, your letters have made me a lot of $$!". Possibly more like F%$#@ You! Or hedging around on a vague answer. You have to judge the response.
Guys, I really think I have my Mrs. Right! We'll see!