I am 47 years old and met a 25 year old girl in Prague through an internet bride dating site about 6 months ago. We spent 2 amazing days together mostly just hanging out, some kissing. After I returned to US did Skype frequently. She is a full time student who lives in North and goes home every weekend, very smart. She has some financial difficulties and talked to me about them but didn't ask me for any money. I went to visit her over Christmas and spend 5 days in Prague with her and 8 days at her parents house in the north - had a great time. Parents are about 10 years older than me and we get along great. I spent a lot of money on stuff for her when I was there and it really pushed my to the limit financially. I gave her a bank card from one of my banks and put a little cash in there for her to have some spending money every week direct deposit. She just visited me in the US for a week and we had a great time, talked about marriage etc maybe in a year or two, lot of playing house. Again I spent about $1,000 on all kinds of stuff, cosmetics, hair products, clothes, ridiculous. We tell each other we love each other and can spend all of our time together. Her being 25 she is very hormonal with mood swings, which I am learning to tolerate. She went back to Prague and I'm trying to figure out when I'm going to see her again. This girl is 5'9", blond, 125 lbs, really cute, really smart, and verified virgin and (although we fool around a lot we will not sleep together until marriage). I had to cut off the direct deposit because I have to pay real bills and for some reason I feel guilty or something. I've really got a tiger by the tail and need to find a way to keep my life under control here. Financially, I need some strategies or I'm going right down the poop shoot. If anyone else has been in this type of situation and can give some advice I'd greatly appreciate it.
You are all absolutely right! I've been living in a bubble really completely intoxicated from this girl since I met her, but boy when it hits the pocket hard that doesn't feel very good. The thing is I went on 20 dates in the US over 2 months (with women around my age and not very attractive)and 4 dates on my Europe trip in 2 weeks. Average age of the European women is 29, about 10 years younger than those I dated in the US, and all were very good looking. I am a reasonable attractive guy, but not a 'very good looking' guy although I am in great shape. Women this attractive are way out of my league in the US (seemingly!). All of my friends are telling me the same thing you are telling me, but if it weren't for my emotional disturbances over the whole thing (the lie i keep telling myself that I must be worthy and special if a girl like this is with me) I'm having a great time regardless of the outcome. I may be a fool, but I would do it again in a heartbeat. I have been married twice and would dread a crummy marriage, which I'm sure is one of the bad things that can happen. Thank you very much for responding to my post.
Atlantic-Sounds similar to the scenario I was in back in 2004 with a 24 year old lady I met in Lugansk.I Had a very pleasant time with her,she did not ask me for any money while she was with me for the 12 days we were together.
when I got home, I never heard from her for a two weeks despite me sending numerous texts and e mails to her. Then out of the blue she texted me and asked me for 900 us dollars for some unspecified "emergency".
Anyway to cut a long story short I did not send her the money she requested as I explained to her that I felt quite angry that she had ignored my previous e mails texts to her and she had only made contact with me again to get money from me.
What's a certified virgin? Does she have a document? I've heard of a certified nutcase....but I'm at a loss as to how someone proves their a virgin.
25 year old still studying?...mmm. I always think..for studying read unemployed.
Prague is the capital city of what was basically another totalitarian state much like the rest of em...young women are drawn to the city for meagre pickings from the western tourists...a 5ft 9 stunner asking for money are ten a penny.
Hormonal mood swings?...hit the road sweetie...next.
Actually I think I know. There is this guy who decided he wanted to be a woman. So he got the "operation" - a shame because he has kids. I wonder if he gets mother's day and father's day gifts from them?????
Anyway, it is disgusting. And no-one wants to go near this thing. So I am assuming that the only way to be certified a virgin is to have a sex change operation and every one knows about it. And until some lame loser gets drunk some night in some far off location...