Hi All,
After a lot of dilly-dallying, and going through many website, some good and some bad, I upgraded to one month membership and read the pending emails from various ladies that had piled up, on this site. replied to the younger ones, deleted the way too older ladies and voila ! by next day had about 10 replies.
Please advise me: none of them had written back their email ids or phone nos. even though I had requested them to. I normally ask this, as there is is no point in writing a whole bunch of letters to a non-existent woman or worse HAIRY BORIS may be there masquerading as a woman (I had a lot of scammers writing to me in the past and still they write to me, in fact there seems to be no easy way to detect scammers nowadays, ..). So to cut the long story short, I look to talk to the woman on phone to ensure she exists.
I do understand that this is itself no guarantee, becoz agencies may be baiting me with a real woman, who has no idea to get married and move out of ukraine etc, and only setting me up for apartments rental, tours, introductions etc. So I did hope that the ladies were real and I would at least get some phone nos. or emails. I understand some ladies have agency email and do not have their own regular email accounts. they simply get registered at a marriage agency where they take care of their correspondence on their behalf and only talk on phone to the lady (I came across such a agency in Ukrain in lugansk recently that does this for the ladies, run by a one owner woman, and from all appearances is a genuine agency, but again all agencies are not so good or real in their intentions and motivations, so one has to be careful in this).
The only sure way I know is to have the direct one to one contact with the ladies with their direct email and phone nos. to know she is real and waiting for you REALLY at the end of a long trip, and not a fictitious person who says we have to contact the agency to contact her. Can any of you comment on your experience, whether it is same as mine and the ladies do not give or do not have their email ids and phone nos. and ignore our references to furnish the same in the letter correspondence ? does it sound abnormal to you or is it normal ? maybe they need more letter correspondence to give out these details ??
Mike Goldwin (Mike666)
None of the ladies I contacted ever gave out their phone number or address on the first email. I wouldn't wanted them to...they have to first weed you out from the numerous men scammers out there.
Within about a week of emailing then they started to give out this information.
Mikey, if its a pay per letter type site or agency what ever, all you are doing is making certain people richer and supporting a racket, just give ya moneys to the homeless, better cause..
often the letters are censored for the honest few girls and most are who bloody well knows..
try something like "lucky lovers" (no censoring) or any type of middle people, only write to good english speakers,,, scamming is easy when there's communication difficulty's..
those agency sites are actually not taken overly serious over there by sincere girls who speak english and no girls I've met seriously have ever used them, they are well known for just ripping off westerners,, the Russians laugh about them and our stupidity..
try not to use anything with a middle person,, Russians adore those networking sites and very very few need some stupid agency to help them with computers,, that need disappeared many years ago..
by the way an email address means nothing,, why even ask, she could have fifty, one for each of you lot,,, phone numbers, well that's a little different.
Open an account with mamba.ru
Ther are a few scammers there but mostly they are genuine! Use google translate to communicate with them.
Many of the women will just ignore you if they think you are too old for them or they just dont want to waste time with foreign men (the majority)
It will give you a more honest and realistic idea of what FSU women really are looking for!
But there are some ineteresting and genuine ladies to be found there.
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