I have been looking through all of the many FSU type dating sites. Some seem better than others but I would like to know from those with true experience, what is the best site to use? I am sincere in my intentions of meeting my future wife somewhere on these sites I hope. I lived in europe for many years and always thought the european style women were awesome. I have made contact with a few ladies on a few different sites and so far, every singe one of them has been a scam. Can anyone tell me the best site to go to in order to aviod these scam type of ladies. I know I know, they are everywhere, but if you were to recomend a site, which would it be.
elena's models --- you can't go wrong. But there are always a few on every site. If you have your wits about you it shouldn't be a problem to figure them out. If you don't, well then you are in the wrong game. One thing to be sure, it is not a shotgun approach as are many web sites. You establish a report with someone and take it from there. It is very much like match.com in the fact that you meet someone and you are on your own. But in contrast to my experience with match.com, eharmony.com etc. there are very real down to earth women who do not want their cake and eat it too sort of types. I have been through it all. If it was not for EM, I would still be dating many different women and wondering if it was worth my time. --- I am not affiliated with EM in any way. I just think it is the best possible way to meet a sincere lady -- if you are not a slouch.
Use Vkontakte, met so many women on this site. Free to use, and contact so if you do start communicating with someone you are already outside of the agency. I have dated and have met very sincere friends that want to help you. That is what I am doing.
Thanks for the guys that emailed me to be invited to vkontakte.ru, but sorry, I am not able to do it; at least not yet. Apparently, before the login and password, is sent to your cell phone, a confirmation is sent to mine. I no longer have the cell phone number that I had when I started vkontakte. I just changed it and it said it will take up to two weeks.
Danny ----- "more stupid behaviour ..... no reply" --- actually, that was a reply
RB, I was concerned, but you obviously didn't want to acknowledge my reaching out to you.
And again you try to come across as someone who has good advice from ---- how long has it been???? since you last visited your "woman"? ---- a person who has clearly admitted his failures. It seems all you do is continue to send dollares to this woman. When was the last time you actually visited??????
It is obvious that you are stretching your fantasy of being in a relationship with someone... A pen pal is a pen pal. A man who continues to send $$$ to someone who he hasn't been with (maybe once) in a long time is a fool. Regardless of you being a pen pal, because that's all you are, why do you continue to spout about your relationship of just sending money? As far as I can tell you are nothing more than a "dollar pal".
danny - just ignore if you think it is nothing more than to bait you into a response.
RB- my anger problem? when Dr Phil(a total idiot in my book)tells people what he thinks or offers advice, do people think he has an anger problem? No! Because he is a bonafide social psychologist -- an Oprahdite -- people just succumb to his whimsical and oft ill advised offerings of how they should live their lives. I am pretty sure that if Oprah (Oomprah) knighted me no-one would question anything I said. That I know what I am talking about must have no relevance based on the fact that I am not sanctioned by some 'authority giving group' who you must believe to be the all-giving and all-knowing authority on all things being human. I have no ill feeling towards you. But I must defend my position on my observations of your questionable behaviors and actions over the recent past. And my position is that I seriously doubt your experience (your advice) as something worthy of passing on to others. I truly have doubts about your ongoing relationship with someone you have not seen or have spent any credible time with. And although at times you do offer relative tidbits of information, for the most part you seem to be still wanting to receive validation for your existence. I sent you a personal message through a couple avenues weeks ago. When you didn't respond I thought the worst. I reached out and you ignored me. No hard feelings. Glad you are okay and moving forward in life. But please, do not feel the need to attack or try to detract my postings. Sure I can be somewhat dissident at times. But only when I feel it is appropriate based upon the absurd nature of that to which I respond.
I have not received any personal messages from any other avenues from you. You'd better check your avenues or not make things up.
Yes, your anger problem. I am not an expert on anger problems, but yes you have shown it. If you want examples, I can point them out to you. There are many.
Time and time again, I ask that you tell me what advice I am giving that is questionable. You have not come up with one. If you or anyone else do not like my advice, you can say so right there. Don't wait and do it in another thread. I will not know what you will be talking about. I still don't.
Let's start with recent posts. I said Boryspil is walking distance from the airport, I told the price for a single at Boryspil Airport Hotel, I told of Igor who is a taxi driver at Boryspil, I told of a chocolates that I sent and they never received, I told of not being able to invite anyone to vkontakte but I tried, I told of a plane that was delayed for no apparent good reason and it would be good to go back to Boryspil a day early so you would not miss your flight. Which do you doubt? Which is absurd? Find other examples if these are not what you are talking about. We can discuss them. But all I get from you is about my absurd and inconsistent postings. Yes, I can be wierd. I will probably answer you, but isn't that what a forum is for?
You must have read it. I said I will keep the discussion of my gf to a minimum. Since I got back, I have not written about her at all. Yes, the chocolates were for her and her daughter, but I didn't say that. Do you remember my telling you why I call her my gf and not fiance? If she doesn't work out, I will still go and find another. There are millions of them. If what I have now is a fantasy and I don't talk about it, what's it to you?
I can't speak for everyone obviously. I'm 52 fairly well off and built like a power lifter. I have spent thousands on different sites over a few years. My impression of elenas models is the women who you meet are close to the ones you would meet in your local bus station. One wrote me 3 times then demanded to know when I would be there to meet. Which day. I have actually had good luck at Natasha club and met 6 nice Ukraine women in person. They didn't work out but they were cool. I have met some scammers here but I've met some great women too. I say if cash isn't a problem, I'd go with a pay per letter deal, just don't let them suck you in with multiple letters per day from the same woman. If cash is short get a platinum membership here. I get 20 to 30 real letters a day and 5 or 6 from scammers
giss, the local bus station? to each their own... it sounds as though you are just a good time party boy from all your recent posts. and pay per letter deal? I think you may be a plant (not genuine). I am probably wrong, but you come across as someone just looking to have a good time with as many ladies as possible.