Okay I am about as fed up here as I can be.
Out of morbid curiousity I reactivated my account on Fiance.com
I only wanted to see what was so better about this than HRB and Anastasia...
After my first week, I sent a polite request to email@example.com to deactivate my account (cancel it)
After four weeks, I get an auto-debit on my credit card...
I complained again.. In fact it is now up to 8 complains in a row to remove my account here. But nothing has been done.
Now it is coming up to a 2nd auto-renewal. With no ability in the user-interface to deactivate my account. Did you guys notice this?
Oh and profile Katrin Cet (id: 119089) is a fake profile. I chatted in webcam with the real girl who is in Nikolaev, not Lugansk. and of course now that agency is saying it is okay to chat with all the profiles... yeah.. ok
Sorry to hear about you and your girl.
Everybody thinks Iíve been so negative about FSU women and online dating,,,, but itís really just being honest and realistic.
Everything is so great when the money and gifts are flowing,, and itís such a great feeling to see them smile! But the true test, is the test of time. I havenít found a girl yet that even comes close! My ex in Ukraine made contact with me again,,, Iíve decided to give her absolutely no slack,,,, she needs to prove herself from square one. I have already told her about my winter vacation plans,,,, and the Ukraine is not in it.
About this site,,, I think they have a cancel button, but it is well hidden. They billed me for an extra 3 months too,,, but I was able to get it refunded. I canít remember just how I did it,,, I was soooooo pissed at that time, (at the girls and agencies) the computer almost went thru the window!!
I had joined this site, because I thought paying a membership and not per letter, would eliminate ďintro spamĒ and it did some what,,,,, 5 letters a day average compared to 15 to 20 on AOB. But I had a slight flaw in my thinking pertaining to websites and agencies!
The goal is to get you to their city,,,, rent apartments and hire interpreters!! Nothing else!!
Maybe you should read the fine print Apal...AS Rodan pointed out to you, you need to CANCEL your membership. IT WILL AUTOMATICALLY RENEW!!!!! Your crazy if you think you will get someone to help you out or answer your questions!!!!
Look for this part:
To cancel your membership please, click here X Check this box before it renews..
As for your 'girl'.....Most everyone here knew this was going to be the outcome. You have always been one to throw money around, talk or cashe, that is dangerous around girls in FSU. You should go back over the past couple months and read some of the stuff you wrote here about how in 'love' you and your girl were....she was only one who knew where things were headed...just being frank Apal...hope you don't take it as personal.....this is just another experience...good luck in the future
We had a short conversation with Apal1. The girl is real, and we have her passport here. Apal1, please post here that you have no issues with fiance.com. Also, for everybody, to cancel membership you need to click cancel membership link in the my profile section.
Olga,,, the girl is real?? A real what???? I'm sure if you pinch her, she will say ouch!! But is she "real-ly" looking for a husband,,, or just a sugar daddy to buy her things???
How many of your girls are "seriously" looking for a husband???? 1%,,,, 2%??? We should all get every penny that has been spent on these girls. Hundreds of websites,,, thousands of agencies,,,, full of worthless profiles!!!
It's amazing how some people won't take the initiative to do what they should. I never had a single issue with Fiance.com, any questions I had were answered quickly. Do think for a moment some of you assclowns that post on here in a derogatory way you think you will bet a quick response from Fiance.com. Simple resolution would be to contact your credit card company regarding any transactions with fiance.com. They won't let the transaction proceed and deny it. It's not that difficult. Also again, Fiance.com isn't a marriage agency. Learn the ropes before you bitch.
Nasfan6, thanks for your support. I guess Apal is busy and has not read the forum yet. Anyway, dating site i s dating site. One should be careful. People are people:) and if there is any issue with our members, we always investigate and resolve it.
RB why are you wasting your time here?? You haven't learned a thing and it's at least 5 plus years you've been jerking yourself off. You're as hard headed as they come and a two faced idiot to boot. A lot of you guys should take a hike from this forum and let the new guys learn from people who actually have accomplished something. For the new guys I feel for you because you have to cut through so much BS to get to anything with content. I feel very fortunate to come in with the group I did. Most of us found great ladies and the one's I'm still in contact with are still married over 6 years later. For you new guys just search for TimH and that era you will find some really great advice that transcends time. That's where I started and learned from the experience of others. I see the same old clowns making the same stupid decisions and then trying to rationalize them here. It's really simple. There once was posted the Tablets of stone of guidelines to follow. You follow those simple rules you won't get scammed, you'll find an upstanding woman and enjoy your travels in the FSU.
Olga, you guys were great to me I'm just telling the truth.
I didn't say anybody, nasfan6. I said you. You think you know it all. You think everyone should learn from you. If everyone did, everyone would be foul mouthed, insulting, arrogant and think they can predict the future.
146655 IS also a profile on Anastasiadate for many years. More than 10 I think. She never changes and now she is 18 again, while in reality she is maybe 30 and certainly looks nothing like those photos.
Here's you best bet for finding a girl who's decent ;
#1 avoid Russian/Ukraine women altogether unless you go in person, and if you do, go to Kiev and find one in church or a major event, parade, soccer game, whatever.
#2 look at asian women instead. I found that women from Thailand and Vietnam are quite fantastic. Beware of AsianDate.com , I've used this for a while and it is obvious that whoever is behind some photos there will not make a specific post to prove they are real. Ask for a webcam right away, or a proof photo right away, before you waste money. Some girls are legit, but if their profession is 'model' , you're asking for it...old photos that is. 2 different girls both named "Jie" there sent photos that led me to discover their other web photos. One Jie said she is a virgin, yet I found pics of her sucking a guy off. The other Jie, in a light blue flower dress age 28, is actually Yu Da Xiao Jie; a model who was popular in 2014. Another girl, Cuie, age 24, sends very old photos also. It seems perhaps that her modeling agency is using AsianDate to make more money...and the girls probably know about this, which is how they buy new cars and I'm wasting money there instead of spending it on a plane ticket.
So, a life long lesson here since trying to find a girl since 1999 on Anastasia, which is full of fakes 95% (old photos, 99% of them over 4 years old, beware!!) , and many others, do something wise. Get about 5k saved or more. Get a visa to a place where women find the quality of life is shit, so they will be grateful for a guy over 30. (If you're not , you should not be here in the first place. Go find an American girl at a Zoo, a mall, a kingdom hall, standing against a friggin' wall.)
There are poor girls with no internet, yet plenty of beauty, in places like Vietnam, China (esp.south or outskirts), Laos, Thailand. I've found the best lookers usually have reddish hair for some reason. Those are most plentiful between Saigon China, and anywhere in Vietnam. There are also fantastic red hair girls in Japan, if you can find one young enough before she's spoiled and become a porn star. A lack of morals there perhaps; Japan is full of sex freaks and redheads in general are the best lovers imo.
BUT if you MUST have a blonde haired angel, look in Germany and generally Scandinavia. Girls there are plentiful but only date a guy who is in very good shape without obvious genetic problems. They love foreigners because the grass is always greener on the other side.
I can't remember how long ago I got here. Maybe 6 years? I just had gotten back from Kiev and was amazed at how was finding a wife was going to be. I had met a ton of women, had sex with a few, and generally had a kick ass time. After my first post I was called all kinds of names. Attacked from all the grips of single men here who had not found the woman of their dreams. Looking back I was probably a little optimistic. On the other hand, in less than 2 years from that point, I was engaged to a woman I couldn't ever HSBC meet in the usa. In December we will have been married for 3 years. Look, if you are a normal guy, even out of shape, and you go looking for the right reason, you will find your own fsu angel. Common sense, don't send money. Don't go out with women who always want to go to the most expensive restaurants. Here's a great test. Unlock the woman's car door, then walk around to your side. Does she reach over and unlock your door? When you 2 are asleep, does she raccoon over to find you? Does she touch you every time she's in arms reach?
I meet my wife right here and there's dozens of new ones every month. Keep an eye on the "joined this month" heading. After a few months you will be able to spoor most scammed just from their profiles