My girl, forever the little entrepreneur, and one of her friends who teach at university in Kharkiv asked me what level of
success she would have in a business dedicated to doing background checks on agency girls to see if they are legit or scammers.
A typical check would be to verify their residence, phone number, social networks and if they have husband/boyfriend. There would of course
be a nominal fee for this, say 50-100USD. This would be available in a handful of cities to start and expand if successful.
Obviously you would only want this service for the girls you have serious interest in as it would be expensive to do multiple checks on
people you simply writing to and not serious yet.
Rick,,, it sounds good in theory, but there is still an issue of trust. I thought about hiring a PI for my ex,,, but I didn’t want to send any,,,, “mafia” type individuals to do it. No,,, your girl friend isn’t mafia,, but that’s the image I had of it.
The big need is somebody in their city to do it,,,, to personally check who she meets, and whom she goes home with. A guy can only do so much from a computer,,, and it could takes years to learn what you need to know.
A girl in Kherson was on over 47 websites,,, wrote the sweetest long letters. We knew so much about each other,,,,,, until we met. She was a stranger,,, I had a better time talking with the interpreter. Well,,, I have since found our interp/translator on a scammer watch list,,,, she scammed a guy for English lessons!! The girl herself has had a boyfriend for years!! How do I know,,,, he told me!! I found the girl on Vk,, and sent a friend invite! He intercepted it,,, wrote a bunch of things that didn’t translate well. If he hadn’t wrote to me,,, I never would have found their pictures. To top it all off,,, they aren’t even friends themselves,,, not on Vk. He had followed her for a while,,, but is no longer. Why,, because I was able to learn too much. She doesn’t have a single western friend,,,, and her photo is still being used today by several dating websites in their advertising??!!
It takes hours upon hours to dig this stuff up,, and if you are really serious about someone, and don’t believe everything you hear,, it is a necessity.
moyarishka,,, I’ll try that link some time in the future. The reason why I won’t try it now,,, is that they do have tracking apps on Vk,,, and I am that cautious!!
The amount of info we can find online is very limited. I’ve done a search for one girl about a thousand times,,,,, and each time I find something different. Sites she has been on for years,,,, but only found it days ago??
I use; google, yahoo, ask, bing, yandex, and rambler!!!
Also,,, a girl who is a pro,,, will know exactly what to allow on her website. She won’t put damning info or photos on her Vk or fb profile,,, unless she wants you to find it!!
And,,,, agencies have been known to start fake Vk profiles for their girls, to make them look real!! Boots on the ground,,, (people) in the hometown is the only way to find out the very personal information,,,, the type of stuff your friends would be telling you about your girlfriend,, if everyone lived in the same town.
Way back in 2003 when I met my first fiance, a Moldovan woman whom I actually met in Odessa - I decided to do what many people do when they meet someone new even in a western city - I Googled her name. She considered herself to be fully Russian but her father had a surname that was very specifically Moldovan.
When I Googled her I found a Romanaian newspaper article that said to be on the lookout for a woman with exactly her name, exactly her age (in years - no birthdate of course) and the grainy very poor black and white facial photo looked very much like her. The article said that she was wanted by the police in Bucharest.
She had mentioned previously that her friend had been in Bucharest not long earlier, but she never said anything about herself.
I called her and asked her point blank if it was her, of course she denied it.
I had a visit to see her coming up and I was already falling very hard for this woman, so I needed to know the truth, I thought.
I found an online listing for a private detective service in Moldova and began communicating with them being very careful not to give any specific detais, as I was very wary. The man told me he was either a part-time or semi-retired police detective in Chisinau (where she lived), and that he did this for extra money and he told me that if it was her who was wanted by police they would bring her to justice!
INSTANTLY I knew it was NOT a good idea to tell this man her real name of the name of the newspaper. Life could be madde very difficult for her, guilty or innocent. And the police are so corrupt in Moldova I could have to pay considerable bribe money to keep her out of trouble, again guilty or innocent.
Epilogue: It wasn't her. It was just somebody of the same age and same name. That happens a LOT over there. In fact my second fiance has such a common RUSSIAN name that when I looked her up on vkontact I founds some 5,000 girls with the same name. When I narrowed it to her city and age, I still found some 12 girls with the same name, city and age.
I should mention, the girl in the newspaper article was wanted for drug smuggling.
A I got to know my Moldovan girl I realized she was the LAST girl who would have ever had any dealing with drugs. And though her name is not nearly as common as my second fiance's name - if I Google it - I can find 12 people in the world with her name, including two university professors.
moyarishka's post refers to an ad by a dating agency wanting girls to write letters and chat with men. they offer 70% commission and
girls can work from home. even has a phone number.
The point Moyarishka's post makes is the girl on the profile may be very real and will correspond and chat with you but
only because you are paying. This is a very popular way now to make income.
My girl's idea is that those doing the research would be in the girl's city and able to verify address, who she lives with, if she is married, where she
works, etc. No one can tell you a girl's mindset or if she is serious. For a price, Im sure its possible to befriend the girl and talk to her to get more specifics. Its just a thought. She brought it up to me and asked my opinion and to pass it along for further opinion.
There are 78 with my ex’s name,,, but several profiles are hers’.
I had one girl with over 450 . If you can choose her city, it makes the search much faster,,, but not all of the cities are listed and choosing “other cities” doesn’t seem to work. On Vk.