Here are the facts in my town :
1 The men completely outnumber the women about,at least 5 to 1 .
That is a complete lie. According to Census 2000, 281.4 million people were counted in the United States ó 143.4 million of whom were female and 138.1 million male. Women outnumber men in every age group except for toddlers.
2 Go to a lounge and there are 30 men and maybe 6 women .The best looking woman is the bartender.
I can make at least 2 dozen places on the west coast where the ratio is almost always in men's favor. Now, those are usually respectable establishments where not every average Joe who doesn't understand the dress code can get in.
3 Women here are on there 2nd or 3rd marriage with kids everywhere.
Another lie. According to CDC: Over the last three decades, women have been waiting longer to start having children. In 1970 the average age of a first-time mother was about 21. In 2008 the average age was 25.1
4 There are no suitable single attractive women to date. If one breaks free from a relationship they find a new man in just a few days like a car trade in.
Wrong. There are plenty of "suitable" women around. Many men just want to date out of their league so do women and that's why some mismatch happen and many remain single. If you don't believe me, go ahead and create an account on PoF with the area code of a town with a population of at least 1 mill. You will see thousands of attractive single women with no kids looking for a serious relationship. Although the ratio is slightly skewed in women's favor (10 men to about 8 women).
5 Almost all smoke and are overweight.
Wrong again. The smoking rates (24%) among both women and men are much lower than in many European counties including Russia (37%) and Ukraine (32%) according to Gallup. Americans do on average have higher BMI and more of them are classified as obese or overweight. However, more men are overweight than women. So, assuming you're not a hypocrite and overweight yourself complaining about American women being fat, you should feel pretty good about your chances since you're facing fewer lean guys competing with you larger number of lean women.
6 Younger women do not date an older man ,only if he is very wealthy .
How is it any different from Eastern European women or women anywhere else in the world? Ukrainian girls are not going to date old Ukrainian guys who cannot support them. To them average American men are wealthy.
7 If a woman is in her late thirties or forties and never married and professional,she just wants a boyfriend ,nothing permanent.
Should I search the web again for a statistics showing that most women, especially older successful ones, are just as interested in a serious relationship (with a right person) as their male counterparts. These women are obviously not interested in marrying any desperate looser out there and would like to marry the best or at least the most acceptable guy they can find.
8 when a woman gets married here, she cuts her hair short, wears no make up, becomes overweight, and loses her fashion sense if she ever had any. Becomes large and in charge .
Are you trying to imply that men somehow stay more active, keep dressing up well, and stay good looking in general? The women are often on par with their husbands who have no right to complain if they themselves don't know where the closest gym and healthy food store is. It takes two to tango and normally a couple that is following a better lifestyle looks much better. In Cali I notice many older people looking very good even after they turn 50 or even 60. They definitely look better than elderly in 3rd world country.
9 There is always the threat of divorce for no real reason which means you pay for her financial security for a long long time.
You can sign a prenup. What makes you think only American women would have the same inclinations to divorce when living in the U.S.? Also, overwhelming majority of divorces DO NOT happen out of the blue for no reason. There are bigger issues at stake that have not been addressed properly. To blame women for high divorce rate is immature and shortsighted.
10 most american women these days treat the blackman like they are rockstars.
This comes across very shady to say the least. Prior to this I never heard of white guys saying that girls in the U.S. prefer black guys (I am assuming that what you meant by treating as a rockstar). I can find some more data showing exactly the opposite but I think this is more of a personal insecurity than am observation of any kind so there is no point to bother.
J-U,,, Census data and what is found in a bar in a personís hometown can be completely different. I agreed with everything Sunvolt wrote,,, it is the same in my home area as well.
Attractive women are married,,, single women are either very young or older women who have a history or a car load of kids.
If there are available single women out there,,,, they are probably pigging out in a bucket of ice cream,,,, wondering why there arenít any single men!
If its that horrible why not move or go find a girl in another bigger city in the U.S. rather than flying overseas? My town sucks is a crappy reason to travel abroad unless the entire country sucks with regards to women, which, based on the data I presented, is far from the truth. The ratio of single fit women without children to men is favorable overall. Yes, American women weigh more on average, but the men "outweigh" women in every single age group. Those 10 reasons are nothing more than poorly thought out excuses.
Come live in my region for a while. You must live under a rock, with for all your answers based on statistics from your pc. My stats are from being outside living looking learning and seeing whats in front of my own eyes as i said in MY area not YOURS.If your area is so great with single suitable women,what in the f--ck are you doing on an FSU dating web site ?
Sunvolt: Why argue with him. He just doesn't get it. In much of the world men and women are very different. His arguement is that we should be the same. Women traditionally seek a man as a success object and men seek women as a sex object,,, up to the point of each being decent human beings. I do not shave my legs or chest and my lady calls me Brezhnev somtimes. She would never leave the house without being "Dolled-up". She does however expect me to dress well. VIVA LA DIFERRANCE!!!