Hi, I am 23 and from Australia!
So I have just joined this site a couple of days ago, and I have to say that reading this forum has made me very weary and suspicious of the emails I have been receiving from girls. So much so that I am pretty sure I won't stick around after my initial membership is up. I Am just too unsure about weather I am actually talking to a real girl.
So this one girl I am talking to seems sincere, but she also tells me that she cannot give out any of her contact details such as email, without the agency's permission. Is this normal? Is this the way with all the girls on here?
Also it is odd about a lot of the young girls here that have a child or are divorced - both of which I am completely fine with, what I mean is if these profiles are fake then why would they advertise that the girl is divorced or is a single mum?
I am going on a holiday to Romania and Ukraine later on this year and I thought a website like this may have been a way to meet some cool local girls, but yeah I am not so sure now.
russty, nothing is what it seems, sure if you are around this long enough you with connect with plenty of great girls, even fluke some good ones when learning the ropes but its like growing up and learning about dating and people all over again.
its better to ask for her full name then check the social sites for her if you are willing to use them agencys.
agencys i feel are the last resort type of thing for this, they really are a donkey following the carrot sort of thing.,
but if you dont mind loosing cash for a little gain it can be worthy.
yes agencys have rules to hold onto the girls as long as possible, the question is is she in on there game or just stupid enough to get pulled into the rubbish that makes them usable, when theres many other ways to connect with foreigners.
agencys and Ukraine is just a money making scheme for the country, always has been, its there to take most foreigners for a ride, they are their national joke to the outside world.
very few Ukraine's marry foreigners, i know only two in nz,, Russians thats a very different matter.
when i traveled into Ukraine the first time the advise i got from many people at airports or on planes surrounding that country was dont trust them?
i have never had this advice from my travels to any other country so go figure.
dont let me put you off, its a cool travel and some very cool people.
the agencys and the girls in them are what i feel has given them the bad name.
in my mind ukraines are a very homely people that love their country and the way they live, getting a sincere girl to live in another country away from her family isnt that easy.
some of the girls i met there i have no problem saying are life long friends now, they i know would never live outside of ukraine.
just be a little careful around how much effort you put into the agency system.
Yes i guess i am young, but really heaps of girls on this site are my age or younger!
I am talking to some cool girls now, but i really cant help but felling very suspicious about how sincere they are. I just thought this site would make it easy to meet some nice girls from overseas, but now i have such a suspicious mind (mostly from reading this forum) that i cannot trust any girl on here - even if they dont give me any reason to.
I am still definitely going over to Ukraine and Romania probably around September - i don't know why but for the past couple months i have been just obsessed with Ukraine and especially Romania! So i have to go there and experience the place instead of just reading about everyone else doing it!
There is just something about the girls, they make me crazy! Although, i think a lot of it has been hyped up by my active imagination! I met one Romanian girl a couple months ago (actually now i think about it this is where my sudden obsession with the place started), and wow! she was just radical! and i am not talking about looks. She was just great to be around. I think maybe the fact foreign girls are exotic has a lot to do with the attraction - although i have met American girls and girls from Norway and they really did not have the same effect on me as this girl from Romania!
Sorry, russty. This subject came out many times before. People here usually jump at the opportunity to respond. If you cannot separate the agency from the girl, move on. There are plenty of girls. This agency will be after your money big time with inflated services on chats, messages, interpretors, hotel, travel... If the agency is making good money, you can also count on the girl on inticing you for more and getting a percentage. You have skype and free email on Google, Yahoo and so forth. Pay a little bit more for their services, but why pay a lot?
Rusty you are much better off going to the free russian language dating site and using a tranlation program to translate. Huge number of girls most genuinely wanting to date. It will tell you whether they speak English. It costs nothing to communicate. You are 23 and this is these are the best sites to meet great local girls who arent targeting marriage scams but want a good time!
Rusty, for a 23 yo guy the best way is to come to Ukraine and visit a night club. If you are a bit handsome and good fun you'll have no problem with gals.