Rb,, I only planed to meet with several girls on my 1st trip,,, and two weeks before it I told them the truth. Mostly because I knew they would figure it out on their own,,,, so I told them.
For the next two trips, I had a primary girl and a plan b or two. The extra girls I had only wrote to for a short time, 1 to 6 months,, so disclosing every detail wasn’t required.
For the last trip,,, I wasn’t sure if I had a plan A,,,, I knew something was afoot,,,,, but it was only the tip of the iceberg. For weeks I knew something was wrong, but I had to go anyway,, because if I didn’t, it would eat away at me from not knowing. The only backup plan for that trip was to spend some time and money on the ex, and to relax. Instead,, I spent my time in Kiev sick as a dog. The worst head and chest cold I ever had,,, then had two relapses of it here at home. For a while I thought I had TB.
I don’t really approve of what Tom did. I understand why he did it,, but I think the women are smart enough to see through it.
It is a bit less difficult for us in Europe to make a trip per girl and avoid the BS about being there for a short time and not letting them take you to the airport to see you off as you are actiually going to a local flights airport! This is instead of organising a 'tour' of cities with one girl on each.
A return ticket to Kiev will cost me only £300 and a flat for one week about £35-40 per night. Trips to other places can be more expensive like Simferopol for about £600
The girls that I would not feel guilty about going to see on the same trip as others are the ones who do not want a long term exchange of letters. They want to see you first. They need to understand that you are not just going to make a trip for them to tell you "sorry but I do not really like you" on the first date.
Wow I missed this one. No wifeseeker, if a scammer knows she's only got 4 days to extract money from you she will start immediately. It's much better than spending 2 weeks with a scammer who you only find out then. Further 8 didn't lie to these women. I told them i only had 4 days in their town. I never said I wasnt going to see other women. Going half way around the world to meet just one woman would require an extra special kind of stupid if you have not meet her before. I met hundreds of women over there and thousands of women in my life. I was fully intending on meeting all these women until I realized the first one was positively unique and in my whole life I've never met one like her. I was still planning on meeting all the other women them coming back for her, but that would be the most unfair of all. .... go meet all these women, bang a few of them, then leave with no intentions of being serous with them. When you meet the right woman the most honest thing you can do is be straight up honest and tell the others