I have received many 1000's of letters from "woman", 18 - 50+ and this is the first letter where the girl, basically tries encourage me to pay for enough letters to and from her so I could get her email. THEN we can talk about her visiting me. I could not find her on VK.com. I'm including the letter and link to her profile. This is a 1st-international site, which by the way have many other sites with various names and colors but look close to the same. I WAS surprised and disappointed of how many women were SO INTO ME in letters I get, and then I'd contact them on VK.com. Then they ignore me or say something like "you must write me from website". This occurs, maybe 80% of the time.
"I can take flight tickets tomorrow if you tell me that you are serious about making relations… We could correspond while I am getting ready… what do you think? Or are you here just for virtual chatting Dennis? I hope not… I would love to correspond directly… if you read 15 of my letters they will give you my email! So what do you think??? Are you with me???
11 credits to open a letter???? Wow, she must get hardly nobody to write to her. The site says that the credit cost is based on traffic and translation needed to communicate with the lady. It has the same credit cost like NatashaClub.
She also wants a good kisser. I guess that eliminates me. *sigh*
I can hardly believe how many dating agencies use that website template. It looks like any Boris only needs to download the template, register his domain, steal photos from VK and other ating sites, fool a few local girls about the Western Paradise and away he goes raking in the money from naive Western men.
The Worst thing is that feature: Trust Level, which is probably they trust the girls or photos will make them a lot of money
Why would the ladies accept you as a contact in VK? If they wanted to find a man through VK, they would clearly say it in their VK page.
It is clearly obvious that most ladies do not want announce their search for a foreign man to their friends and relatives and run the risk of one or more men embarrassing them in front of everybody.
"It is clearly obvious that most ladies do not want announce their search for a foreign man to their friends and relatives and run the risk of one or more men embarrassing them in front of everybody."
I do recall a case where a lady put her profile in a legitimate dating site. Somehow one of her male coworkers found it and began to ridicule her at work. She immediately had her profile removed for fear of embarrassment at work.
I suppose her male colleague was angered that she was searching for foreign men when plenty of Russian men were available. I do not know his motivations really.
Sadly he may have caused her to miss her match as she had her profile removed from all sites.
I think when you look overseas for a spouse, there is an impression that you are really "desperate" and cannot find someone suitable in your own country. So you are subject to ridicule by your peers.
Personally, I am somewhat introverted, so I do not consider anyone as my "peer". I do not get embarrassed and am aware that I may come across as "desperate". Rhett Butler's last words in "Gone with the Wind" is how I see it.
Yes both men and women are embarrassed to admit that they are looking for a partner abroad and the main reason is, if they fail, they believe that those around them will mock them or tell them "I told you do".
Even in your own country, who admits that they are looking for a partner in a dating site? That makes you look desperate too. And who even admits that they met their partner in a dating site? "errr... we met in evening classes..."
I met my former wife that way and I never admitted it (neither did she)
By the way, one of my former supervisors met someone in NZ online (via a chat room). She went over to Christchurch, NZ and met the guy. They later married and he moved here to the USA. She was previously married and has an adult daughter. I believe he was never married.