hallo everybody ,from what i heard/read about most of the marriage agencies in ukraine - the most of them charging money per dates - but the women that date you from the agencies purpose is only to get the money per date with you and no mire then that,so i wanted to ask if somebody heard by a friend/knows any recommended marriage agency on the web or in ukraine ( thats not on the web ) and can reccomend . as i was born in ukraine - i speak russian and i am ready to go to ukraine if it would be needed.
I don't necessarily think these agencies share their fees with women. A lot of guys think that because the guy goes on the date, the woman doesn't like him and doesn't want to see him again. He reasons that she must be getting paid and that's the only reason she met him but I can assure you this is not the case.
If you speak Russian this will give you an advantage over your counterparts in the sense that if she doesn't speak English she may require an interpreter. This will open a whole world of ladies to you.
It still comes down to finances though. A lady is not going to be with some poor guy who can only afford to take her to McDonalds on a date. She's going to want to see that he can afford to support a family.
wifeskr - believe me agencies are greedy as it is. They are not going to share their profits with their girls. Their girls are told their compensation might be meeting a great guy, and taxi fare, and a nice restaurant, and and and.
Why do people bypass this place? www.fiance.com
I understand that the other Tom met his wife here.
There are no such things as agencies being good or bad, it all depends on your choice in a women.
Reality check and being realistic improve one's chances. Since OP knows Russian, just go visit, pick a location, make some connections and GO.
"beemer/ragingbull - from what i heard/read on the internet- there are a lot of scam agencies - this is what i meant."
What are you talking about....the marriage/introduction websites or the local marriage agencies?
It all comes down to choosing the 'right' girl.....with your realistic expectations!! ( can also use 'real' too)
Just ask people who have dealt with locals on ground in an area you choose. My areas are Odessa, Chisinau, Kharkov. This forum is not best place to get this type of info. Look at other RW forums.
agencies are what the web sites use to supply them with fresh content. For an agency it is a business to make money so they will make as much as they can from each man who arrives. Almost all agencies will have a catalog of the prospective females you can view. just pick a city and go, Check the local listings or advertisement for an agency. or you can use a site like Elanas models to have direct contact with potential candidates.
I came across an agency site that lists just 25 women profiles in Odessa. I wonder if the agency is very picky or the majority of women in that city are avoiding it. The agency does say that they check each lady before listing them.
If you speak russian, go to any agency. You won't need a translator. It should be easy as pie for you. Translators are the biggest problem. They are expensive and get in the way. Just go. Sumy, kharkiv, poltava, these are all good places, poltava especially. I met my wife in donetsk but I wouldn't go there now.
I always thought small towns would be best, but I met my wife in a city of 3 million people . I meant the city of poltava. Not where i meet mine but I was completely impressed. A beautiful town quote remenscent of st. Petersburg. I'd love to go back there may to look around more. Loads of beautiful single women
Dear guys, searching wife in Ukraine. Be careful. I m living in the central part of UA. Searching a job. Found one about translating for marriage agency. On telephone they explained me that my salary will depend on how much money, presents and gold is sent to a woman I "represent" via chatting etc. with foreigners men.They said there are real women behind this kind of mediating, but I m not sure they are willing more than $$.
I believe that the only way to recognize that racket is NOT TO SEND MONEY to your new friend.
I Always liked smaller towns. Oddly 8 meet my wife in donetsk. The agencies are all the same. They want you to spend hours on their dollar a minute chat, hire their translators. .. but you don't have to do any of that. Here you can write the woman directly and set everything up yourself. I never chatted once on a dating agency website. Save it for skype. If she asks why you won't do it on the agency website, tell her how do you know she's for real if she won't meet you on Skype? Anyway I literally spoke to thousands of women in letters. I can spot a real one from a fake one in about 2 sentences.
If you speak russian I wouldn't waste my time at all. I'd just go and hang out over there. I'd say st Pete in the summer time for 3 weeks and you will be well on your way if you have any game at all.
Gold? Back around 2000, I bought some gold when prices are "reasonable". At current prices, I guess you must be of the mindset of "buying someone's affections", if you are going to be that lavish for what is essentially a date.