I'm very new to the foreign dating scene. I lived in Asia before and dated in Asia, but never Eastern Europe and I don't know which sites are good and which are bad. If you should become a paying member or if it's a scam. I also don't know if I should pay any attention to the letters from girls "with agency e-mail" or if they aren't real. I'm 33. OK looking, slightly over weight (20lbs0) and in medical school. What's realistic age range for me to look at? (and if they're not in that range I should expect them to be scammers.) I'm worried about someone either not being real if I ever go visit, and someone planning to divorce me after a couple years of marriage. I've seen that you should talk to quite a few people, but how do you know when you've got someone real? I'm looking for a traditional, willing to stay home and raise a bunch of kids type of wife.
My best advice: get talking to several girls over the next months, while you read in the Internet about looking for an FSU bride, you will get the hang of the game gradually. Just do not use agencies where you pay even for watching a video of a girl and never send any money to any girl for any reason. The scammers and even some genuine girls will give you all kinds fo reasons why they need money. Think about it this way: What would she do about her money problem if she did noy know me at all?
Age difference: do not use any criteria they give you for now. At this stage it is like telling you what colour the girls' hair should be. You are looking for what is inside after you see the photos of their beautiful outside.
SS - the first thing to do is work on yourself. You mention that you're 20lbs overweight, yet you probably want a 20 something smoking hot slim girl. Well, put yourself in her position. Have a look in the mirror. Would you want to be with that?
You write that you're still in medical school. So you are not in an established career and finances are probably not in order. I would suggest that you wait a few years until you're well established.
"I'm looking for a traditional, willing to stay home " Have you got the finances to support such a household? Many guys have this aspiration but don't have the finances to back it up.
So what I'd suggest is work on yourself and look locally, for now.
s one is the best one. I met my wife here. I Have explained how I did it several times here. Read my posts. Because it worked for me doesn't mean it will work for you, but most posters here are unsuccessful at finding a wife
Just do not make the mistake that many men make thinking that FSU women will fall at their feet just because they are from the West. Girls do expect some reasonable appearance and standing in their man even when they know that a guy who looks like Tom Cruise, and has his kind of money, will not bother to struggle to find an FSU girl. There are things that you can do something about and things that you need to convince the girl to overlook or find one who is OK with that, eg: you are a baldie, you do not have a porsche, you are 30 years older than her, etc. Things that you can do something about: be a hard worker, go to the gym, eat healthy food, do not drink in excess, do not smoke at all.
They may be former 'Soviet' ladies but a lot are no very conscious of health, the environment, cruelty to animals, abusive husbands, etc. and they will only bother to marry a bald oldie only if they can see that he is better than a local guy on these things.
no more then 15 years age
English speaking a must
small city in Russia (not Ukraine )
have something .... car , apartment , job ... atleast something
elenamodels.com or something similar
don't give gifts or money .... atleast until you meet face to face .
chat only on Skype
chat for no longer then 3 months before meeting .
send heaps of pictures showing exactly who you are and how you look
don't suck up to them like a desperate guy ...make them do the work .
Once in a while this Dunt tries to make a legit post in hopes of convincing others that he trying to help! He is not trying to help! And how do I know this you ask?? From experience for one,,, and because he has said so!!
He will also try to get personal info from people that pm him,,,,,, don’t do it!!
I have come across a lot of profiles of divorced women with children, ladies who are still in school, ladies with very little knowledge of English, some in small cities and in large cities. I have also seen profiles that are more closer in age to myself and a few who studied the similar subject matter as myself. I really have one single requirement, but I would need to be like a "guardian angel" in order to find out if it was met or not.