If women from the FSU were as interested in finding a foreign husband, like the websites and agencies say they are,,, FSU women would become an absolute nuisance and pest on Vk and fb. But the opposite is true. If you ever discover a woman from a website on Vk or fb,,,, 95% of the time they will have their security settings so high,,, that you can not even send them a message.
No I do not favor OWW. Yes, I agree that best decisions take time. There is a song lyric that "time is on my side, yet it is". Well, several sudden deaths have occurred with people in my office building, so apparently, it was not on their side.
"I understand what you say about success but, are you able to see things from the ladies' point of view? "
Of course I see things from ladies point of view. Can you adapt reality to what we all probably see as the "ultimate goal"?
I understand what you are saying, really I do. I dont think there are many people, male or female, that dont have that dream of love, marriage, happiness, family, etc.
The reality is that life just doesnt always go according to plan. Im here with 6 beautiful young ladies this minute. All of them share the common and normal dream of being married and having a family. 3 of them are hard core into their own dreams of university and career and none of the 6 are content to wait for a man. reality says that at the end of the day that half of these girls, 6 years years from now, will very likely also not see marriage as a required marker of success.
say one of these girls meets a good guy tonight and goes on to have a relationship with him for the next 5 years but eventually they go separate ways. was this success or failure?
what if one girl ends up with a child of 10 years age but has good job and life and is once again in the "dating scene" at 28-30 years of age? Is her life somehow a failure by your definition?
Dont presume to know a lady's point of view because they are just as different as a man's
The REALITY here in Ukraine is that a girl does NOT always want to come to your country to be happy
Finding a western man and moving to America is no longer a tool that US men who cant find a girl in America can use here to get a girl.
The lifestyle between the 2 isnt that broad anymore
I know what you are saying but you need to be realistic: There are very few eligible women from countries like Poland, Hungary, Italy, etc. who are looking for an older guy in the UK and who want to come to live here and you know that almost all the Western men looking in the FSU and the Far East for a wife are looking for a younger and pretty girl. I have kapt my eyes open for this kind of ladies in places like Romania, Lithuania, Hungary, etc. in the dating sites and there are almost none. There are a few Romanians but they are generally scammers or too demanding.
The other aspect is that you do not just go where it appears to be easy to find a wife, or you would go to Africa and risk picking up a woman with Aids or Ebola.
There has to be a reason for looking for a wife in a particular part of the world. Mine are family and cultural reasons and that is why I am looking in Ukraine and not Greece.
There are a lot of men who are looking for a Russian or FSU lady just because they start dribbling when they see the photos of the glamorous girls in the dating sites, when they could not even place Ukraine on the map.
Look at the big cock ups of men who go and find a Thai wife from a rural area in Thailand. These men are so limited in their edcuation and knowledge of the world cultures that they could not even identify with a woman from another region in their own country, let slone one of those women.
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Aren't you speculating too much about the future of the girls you know? You have no way of knowing, have you?
I can say hand on heart that I have never spoke to an FSU girl in a dating site who has told me that the Western man she was looking for should go and live in her country with her.
I think the ones who say that they do not want to live Ukraine are the ones that do not bother to join an international dating site but they may still be interested in a foreigner. By coincidence, I just spoke to a girl today who told me that she had a Tunisian boyfriend in Kiev for 4 years, they were about to get married, then he packed his bags and went back to his country. She was broken hearted.