TomZ wrote: "You see Rick4girl you've probably never encountered pro-daters because you speak the language."
that would be wrong...in a way. I probably have had a couple dates with girls you guys would consider "pro-daters"
both were probably back in 2010-2011 and both were from Elena's models site. I was curious about them as both were persistent about meeting.
neither date went anywhere and Im pretty sure both simply wanted to have a free meal at a nice place. with one, i really knew that moment
that it was a dead end but I was hungry and we were already there. With Taxi for her it was probably in the $100 range.
I have had a couple bad dates with girls that my friend's agency set up. one in Zhitomer which was an "affiliate" who insisted on having a translator even
though I said it wasn't necessary. It was, however, a good oppourtunity to discover that what girls "wrote" in letters and reality were often vastly
different. That was the point I decided to not rely on a long correspondence and after a few exchanges, suggest meetings before giving up on agencies
altogether. Besides, by 2012 I really didnt have time for all the hassles of agencies and found "chance" encounters offered better odds anyway.
Tom, your posts only emphasize the importance of doing your homework both before and during any trip. know who you are meeting, where you are going, etc BEFORE
so there are not any surprises. It took a bit for me to realize the best thing to do when things dont seem right is to walk away. It also takes going
against natural instincts to terminate a meeting and walk away but it beats the hell out of losing money for nothing.
It also underscores the importance of first meetings being at a simple place and that often they wont require alot of time and always be sure that the
potential loss of money in the effort is small
Yes Tom,,, I had to prod her at first to spend my money!! She also haggled like no one before on taxi fees.
No Tom,,, I didnít think it would cement our relationship,,,, just that I was able to provide for her.
Wrong Tom,,, Rick has had plenty of bad dates,,, in fact,,, after reading his recent posts,,, I think he has had just as many as myself. If you compare the amount of time each of us has spent,,,,, he might be less successful.
No Tom,,, I wonít forget about the 30 years!!
Wrong Tom,,, Iíve had more than the 3 days!
Wrong Tom,, Iíve been married before! Thatís why I wonít forget about the 30 years,,,, because they can shove the 3 years up their a$$!
Yes Tom,,, I might grow older with nothing! Nothing is better than the battle of trying to find an honest person online,,,, from anywhere!
What Tom,,,,, didnít you and WS merge into one profile??
LR wrote "Wrong Tom,,, Rick has had plenty of bad dates,,, in fact,,, after reading his recent posts,,,
I think he has had just as many as myself. If you compare the amount of time each of us has spent,,,,, he might be less successful."
Notice Looney that I have mentioned the same experiences more than once. Given that Ive been in Ukraine much longer than you I have had a few bad encounters
over many years. If I meet someone and it doesnt progress more than 10 minutes before parting ways then its not a date. Ive done that a few times.
I havent dated many different girls in the past 3-4 years because Ive been in a couple longer term relationships.
I often question some people's use of the term "success"
Is success becoming married? If so, If it only lasts 5 years does that still
qualify as success or delayed failure?
can success be defined as finding a quality girl and have a relationship that creates
awesome memories and happy times together even if the 2 never marry and if it lasts only a year or 5?
Everyone must qualify this word differently. As the main site is a marriage agency I think
the former is probably the standard measure.
I was with a girl on and off again for 4 years(almost married twice) and eventually became just friends and although I
am older now than then I cannot disqualify that experience as we have fond memories and we both
learned alot from it. I would not trade those experiences.
To stop and "cut your losses" what does that mean? resigning oneself to forever a lonelyranger and
give up love? I think to give up on love is giving up on life!
Everyone has a match. sometimes it takes longer to find them
Rick: ďNotice Looney that I have mentioned the same experiences more than once.Ē
And do you think, that you are the only one that does that????
You keep writing about othersí failures,,, well how many do other guys have??
I havenít had one girl yet, say to my face, that it was over! One did it through an interpreter,,, one just lapsed, and the rest I discontinued.
TomZ: ďLR unfortunately is living in the past. He can't move on.
He's reliving the relationship he had with the Ukrainian girl that was over 4 years ago.Ē
You keep copying Rickís 4 year thing,,, why?
I found the one woman that I wanted,,,, and I still think about her everyday. I have also made 3 trips to Ukraine after meeting her, to meet with others,,, isnít that trying to move on?
ďHe's doling out advice but his information is irrelevant since he's been here so long ago.Ē
Iím doling out advice?? I didnít know that,,, I thought that I just offer up my opinions from time to time.
Irrelevant?? Before I made my first trip of the online era,,, I read a story here about an agency, that was several years old at that time,,,, it was 100% accurate then and is still 100% accurate today! If anything has changed, it is that the scammers are getting bolder because of the crisis in Ukraine.
Tom,,, didnít you read that link I posted a few days ago???
wife has no face hair ... thank goodness .
mabey when you zoom in on your pictures
like the true stalker you are things get distorted ....from where i look she is perfect in every way ...
looney seriously ... marry a bloke