Some guys do come here for some info and help once in a while,,, but all they find is fighting!
I can’t see how calling some members “Loser’s“, “Failures”, “Gay”, “Cash Cow’s”,,,, after just making a few trips, is going to help the common cause?!
Guys should feel at ease here when telling their story,,, but how can they when a couple of low lifes are going to irritate, mock, annoy, and harass them for their effort??
This isn’t something we should rush into,,,,, and I know that I am going to take my good old sweet time doing it.
lr - perhaps if you had spent more time communicating with the woman you intended to meet you could have avoided this problem. For instance, my simple rule - if she doesn't speak conversational English then that's a deal breaker for me.
No interpreters, no tag-alongs (girlfriends) and I meet only her on the date on my terms and the place of my choosing.
I also would have spent an enormous amount of time with her on Skype video before ever even considering travelling to her country let alone her city. All of these issues could have been worked out beforehand.
Yeah, I do the walk and talk, the walk around the block so I don't have to spend a kopeck on my date if I'm not interested.
You know,,, if I had to choose between going on a penny (kopeck) pinching, condom washing, hostel staying, sex tourism trip with TomZ,,, or an adventure, hunting, seeing the sites, hitting the clubs, helping the kiddies, spending a couple thousand more than I’d like trip with Rick,,,,, I’d probably go with Rick.
I could see Tom counting his money,,,, thinking,,,, if I go without eating dinner all week,,,, I just might be able to afford one more lay,,, if the woman is cheap enough?
How is that,,,, sex on a budget? Cruising the streets looking for bargains,,,, Typhoid Mary,,,, and Snakebite Jane,,, women with the look of jaundice and a slight limp. I don’t think so!
Whatever. I know what I'm doing. I go for 3-6 month stretches so I manage my finances properly. I don't piss my money away like some guys who go 1-2 weeks. They figure "I'm on vacation I might as well splurge" and that's fine for them.
And I have a girlfriend. When you get a gf lonely then maybe you'll have something to say.
By the way I don't currently use hostels as hotel prices are cheap enough now in Ukraine, however, when I did use hostels I ran into many many bride hunters. I met every kind of character imaginable. Oh yeah, and it's not always bad to stay in hostels. I stayed in one hostel in Odessa and from that I met this hot chick from Russia who was staying in the same hostel. I would never have met her if I used a hotel or apartment. So hostels are not always bad.
Saving money is not always bad. Not getting used or taken advantage of because you're a dumb foreigner is not always bad.
Poopy still has a Russian visa?
Crimea has declined so much in the past year. Shortages of water, electricity, chicken and beef. Just to name a few things. Russia cant seem to be able to pay enough to get them to go there for vacation.
Yes lonely, don't you know taking a woman or for an ice cream or coffee might run you $0.28 these days? She will never notice if you make her reuse an old tea bag out of your baggie in your pocket, that way all you have to pay for us hot water. Hell you can get an empty cup, get her to fill it with hot water in the ladies room and reuse your tea bag for free! I think Tom's on to something. They won't think you are cheap, will they?