TomZ: “As I said before rb, a date is not a girlfriend. The fact that you went out on a date with two different girls shows that you have no gf.”
This Dunt could be embarrassing danny?!
If having a date, means not having a girlfriend,,,,,, then can this F-ING MORON understand, that having a girlfriend mean not having a wife???????????????????
Hey Martin,,, do you still have that industrial jack hammer?? I found a new use for it!!
Let's get back to the subject. Loonely brought up the topic of taking a girl out for dinner. I don't think it's necessary to take a girl out to a big elaborate dinner, at least on the first date. I want to get to know her better before investing money in her. The first date for me means a simple cup of coffee or tea and maybe a cake somewhere. It's going to be at the venue of my choosing and not hers so I can control costs.
If a girl demands cab fare just to meet then for me that's a deal breaker because cab fare is usually only the beginning of her requests. You're forgetting something here. I'm a seasoned dater. I've experienced it all. I'm not rich but about middle income so I have to control my costs and be sure I'm not getting used. If I was a billionaire I'd probably be throwing money around and have all the hotties...
Fortunately now my current girlfriend in Ukraine has her own job and money so she makes none of these demands. She's even a bit uncomfortable if I offer to pay for her in the cafe. Gifts? Forget about it - that is unless we exchange them on New Year's or something.
"Martin because he's a washed up semi-retiree who in his 'younger days' dated girls from Ukraine but has since moved on to SE Asia for easier pickins (Filipino teens)"
Only an amateur would believe that other men are/were only visiting one country, Ukraine, for dating, there's more to life than cheap and easy peroxide blonde pickings.
In my previous life I dated in such countries as Belgium, Netherlands, Luxembourg, Ireland, Australia, Russia, Latvia and Uzbekistan and the hottest girls were definitely in Uzbekistan.
And my current girlfriend has more class on her worst day than you'll ever have on your best day