Ok I'll never forget the first time i posted here. I had just returned from ukraine and it all seemed so simple. You write some letters to a few women and them go meet them. What could be easier. Then I learned of women who didn't exist. I learned of serial daters. Then responses to my posts about how simple it was were harsh. Ok I heard stories about how finding a wife in fsu was the equivalent of finding a gold nugget in the street. Now knowing what I do is neither. Some people are laid back and quite honestly can have a great life with perhaps 1 in 10 women they meet. Some are slightly more twisted and maybe 1 in 50 would work. Then there are some who actually can't get along with any one long term. So some people, this is easy. Some people this is hard. Some people, this is impossible. I Thought it was funny when one member told me I didn't know shit having only spent 2 years doing it while he was an expert having spent 10 years searching. The difference is that after 10 years of visiting and even living in Russia, he was still a total failure while I succeeded in just 2 years.
The fact is some guys are dicks and no woman will ever be happy with you. Others are ready and cool and it is simple to find women who will be the best part of your life.
Yes lr, there is surely some luck, but the easy going guy with some level of game is going to have an easy time meeting women over there. From there it just goes to pure numbers. Ex gfs of mine would actually yell at me for not getting myself all worked up over what they saw as disastrous situations. My pov was of I can't change it, why don't I calmly sit here and think of ways to mitigate it? I'm a pretty mellow guy and I think it reflects in how I'm perforce by women. Last year my son was bitten by a dog. Pretty badly. He needed 18 stitches. He came running in screaming. My wife was jumping up and down screaming. I listened to that for about 10 seconds and yelled "shut up". Everybody got quiet and we could calmly consider our next step after the facts ate known.
Others flail about endlessly and end up in the Philippines looking for lady boys.
The point is if you stack the deck in your favor, learn the game properly, you may still strike out, but the odds are in your favor.
Some hours ago Tom Shea made an unprovoked attack against insinuating that I am a wannabee homosexual, well for Tom Shea, previous member name "Giss", here is your lesson of "What goes around comes around:
Here is a pic of a lady that I was, on and off, living with last year:
Here's a pic of a lady that I had a relationship with two months ago:
Here's a pic of a lady I had a relationship with a few weeks ago:
And here comes a pic of Tom Shea's missus, no wonder he found it so easy, tell us Tom ... was it a blind date or were you seriously drunk?
And he insinuates that I am the faggot ... LOL, way too funny :)
It's odd that I said nothing about martin but as soon as I mentioned ladyboys he raised his hand. I only mentioned Philippines because there and Thailand are where they hang out. As for the pictures he pasted I didn't even look at them. He says they are of women he had "relationships" with, one a few weeks ago, one two months ago. Martin, those are dates, not relationships. Martin, a little self identification goes a long way.
That's funny martin, I only mentioned the phillipenes because that's where that lady boy stuff goes on. Oddly you identified with it instantly! I think that is too funny. Btw women you are "in a relationship with" usually hang around for more than a couple weeks. I guess they got to know you by then.
There is a lot of truth and a few nuggets of wisdom in your post. It is not a difficult as some make it out to be. I guess some people just want the chaos in there life so they create it. It really is not that difficult.
"My days of "going for it" on forums such as this are way since passed.
I've long since retired from scrapping on forums, the new kids are on the block, Tommy Boy, Rick, Tom Shea a.k.a. Giss, you're still here RB because you still haven't learned"
I think your problem is RB that you still haven't learned when to hang up your boots, you can't take this forum with you when you die so at what point, before you die, are you going to chill out, as I have done, or walk away from it altogether?"
By the way, moyarishka, I have seen your picture, you are attractive.
Haven't you noticed how few people are posting on this forum since you and TomZ "killed" it?
I've answered to two posts that addressed me directly and needed redressing, you, on the other hand, are sticking you big nose in to anything and everything and you're killing this forum in the process of doing it.
Give it a rest because you're boring me and others whilst you're deterring others from posting.
"THIS IS NOT YOUR FORUM, YOUR PLAYTHING, RAGINGBULL"
Some will recall the super typhoon, the strongest storm to ever make landfall, in Philippines of November 2013.
Well my girlfriend was rescued seriously injured from that devastation, she was her only family member to survive it, she lost both her parents in it, right now I have a choice of exchanging conversation with her or with ragingbullshit.