Especially Young ladies with older man Are dreaming, that Every day is Christmas.
They request Money for Taxis, eating Starters, Main courts and Desserts AT lunch, bying expensive cloths.
And the man has to Pay?
Is that normal in Nikolaev? Has anyone the Same experiences?
What you have there is a pro-dater. She is not interested in any relationship with you. She is interested in earning as much as she can from you while you are in Nikolaev and then it's on to her next victim.
You are well advised to drop her as soon as possible and the agency that introduced you to her.
Is there in NOT earning as much as they can from you while you before going on to their next victim What is disconcerting is there are genuine ladies out there, but they see what the agencies are doing and want a piece of the action.
There Are 2 types of ladies here in Nikolaev.
The Girl which is speaking English well is Coming with a Girl Friend or "Cousin " to the Date.
The Girl which is not speaking English comes with an Interpreter. And I have Seen such a cold Situation.
Whatever we man have to Pay for all.
The Girls want soon to get a Maximum of Profit!
Mostly of them Are not searching Love, they Are searching the Money of is!
"In England and in most of Western Europe, most bride`s family pay for their wedding and bride wedding dress, and the future husband only pay for their honeymoon.
Also it is rude to ask for gifts from Western guys as it is not our customs to give gifts when ask, so never ask for gifts because it is very rude in our culture."
Are professional daters being rude on dates? Someone needs to tell them about dating dos and don'ts.
The agencies are in a position to teach the girls everything they need to know on the cheap,,,, in groups in their spare time. Text books, DVDs, movies or whatever could be bought and shared within the agencies,,, but they donít. If their goal was to marry off as many girls as possible,,, a girl that knows English or other languages would have an advantage. Knowing our ways and traditions would make their girls a better commodity,,,, but thatís not their goal.
PAID for Taxis - because one of the Lady had high Heels on her feets, therefore Long waliking on the Streets was not possibly.
Even I had to Pay for her Taxi when she came to me.
Shopping - suddenly without asking me - I was in an expensive Boutique where she tried Different cloths. She wanted to buy Different cloths AT the Second day. But I allowed only to buy a blouse for 100 Euro.
In Restaurants - Even If My Lady was lonely with me in a Restaurant, she was called by her "Cousin" - she was boring- And some Time later she was in the Restaurant- by Taxi.
I think My Lady was a scammer.
Blouse for 100 Euro in Nikolaev? You may have been victim of the shop scam. That's when shops work with girls and either mark prices up to outrageous rates or nothing is actually purchased. Either way the girl gets her commission. Similar to the restaurant scam.
The taxi scam is where the girl says she has high shoes so she has to take a taxi. Of course this is just a scam. Tell them to wear normal shoes then change into high heels for the date. They can carry any kind of bag for this purpose.
A taxi will not be more than 50 uah from one end of the city to the other in Nikolaev. They inflate the price and the taxi driver is her boyfriend, husband or co conspirator.
Guys think who cares I'm getting laid but in the end you will not get laid with a pro-dater.
"If you're paying $300 a night at Kiev Hyatt what's 10?"
You got there ... And actually, I charged the $500 stay to the company acc/ card. On top of that, it was my Ukranian lady that called BS on the taxi driver but I hold her down before she could make a scene/show and f#%k it up. Before and after that incident, she took care of all the logistics and save me a ton of money.
Another girl that I met called taxi to take me from Downtown Kiev to KBP for 180.
In another occasion, my lady sent a SIM card which I used while on the taxi to her place. Once told her about the cost of the taxia, she had the driver gave me a discount after talking him on the phone.
Bottom line .... Be for real use the big head and you should be taken care as well.
Oddly my ukrainian gf, now wife, took great care of me from the minute we met. She told me "don't talk in taxis". I got the cheapest rates I've ever seen. When I would leave her country I would give her the rest of my hyvrina. Maybe $150 $200 in hyvrina. She would stick it back in my suitcase and I would have to take it out, hide it in her apartment, and tell her once I got home.
If you date a hooker, she will be after your money. If you date a woman it will mean nothing