Google, Siri or Alexa ranks the most popular, not necessarily the best answer. Also talk to those with experience. In the end, go with your gut feeling. It is you who will live your decision.
Beware of advice from those who will intimidate you with your decision, especially those who think they are in charge, makes up false rules. threaten nonexistent punishments, then turn on you when you defy them. That sounds like it could be a few people, but it could be just one man. Again, it is you who will live your decision.