guys, if you want to be successful you need to spend more time here, a LOT more time. I have been here for 4 years and it makes a world of difference. I have met so many great, and real, girls. When people see you every day for a long time, it changes things.
First of all,over the past week or so, rather than an average of a couple of views per day threads have been receiving perhaps 40 views per day, why? ... Your guess is as good as ours.
Also, my personal guess is that forums are past their sell by date, I don't know because I've been out of this FSU dating malarky for perhaps 10 years or longer, but I guess the world has moved on to the likes of farcebook and FSU equivalent social media sites.
Further to that it seems that you are trying to invent the wheel some 30 years after the break-up of the USSR, people have been posting similar for the past 30 years, it must have been some 15 years ago that I was travelling to FSU some 4 times a year sneering at the guys who would only make one trip a year, been there, done that, got the tee shirt.
And your thread header reads "you have to live here" but you don't even say where "here" is but I'll bet a beer that you mean Ukraine and that you're one of these amateurs that may believe FSU stands for 'Former Soviet Ukraine' when there is a mega sub-continent or two or whatever out there stacked up with women when all the mugs focus upon Ukraine simply because they don't need a visa to travel there.
Martin, I noticed the same thing about number of posts. I have no idea why either. Yes, I am in Ukraine. I wonder why you would call someone that has lived here four years an amateur? It's a sharp learning curve here, you know that. So, if I am doing well after four years I must be doing something right.
The nature of my post wasn't about who has the biggest dick but the tone of your last post seemed to echo you questioning why guys weren't biting your hand off to learn more from you.
I was back and forth to/from FSU, in the latter of those years Ukraine, for some 10 years, maybe 4 or 5 times a year, sometimes twice a month, such journeys as taxi's between Odessa and Zaporozhye and vice versa, learning the $20 police scams on the side of the road and at the airports, I was considered a local in the Irish pub in Zaporozhye, been there, done that, got the tee shirt.
So you have lived in your chosen foreign land for 4 years already ... Well I have lived in my chosen foreign land, that just happens to be stacked out with scantily attired available women, for 7.5 years already so perhaps you have some catching up to do!
Most people are successful in a mixed race and cultural marriage, I know a man who married a foreign lady, they moved to her home country and settled there, they now after 15 years of happy marriage they have very successful beach resort , a beach bar and a real estate business, he drives a Mercedes, she drives a Mitsubishi Mirage, they have a Toyota people carrier for guest collection and a small fleet of automatic motorbikes, and employ 20 local people, so they have done very well,
On the other hand, I know another man who also moved to his partners foreign country, with the intention of getting married, but after building their resort, she left him, he was an alcoholic, and left to run the business on his own it went down hill very quickly, he had a few short time relationships with online hookers, but that to didnít work out and they all ended their relationships with him. His drinking got worse and he was banned from a lot of other local bars and resorts, and even spent a short time in prison after being caught stealing from a guest at his failing resort, he then met a really nice girl which shocked everyone and after a very short courtship they got married, but unfortunately for this man, she left him after only a few months, his alcoholism being the reason, now he finds himself destitute and losing everything around him, the resort has fallen into total ruin, the reviews for his place are very bad and itís being closed down, and now after only 7 years heís going back to his home country an utter failure, obviously he had no idea what he was doing, some people unfortunately are like this, but they usually bring it all upon theirselves , which in some cases as with this one, is certainly deserved,