My hands are soft too Del` :o))
Its one thing about which I am very maticulous.
I never have dirty hands either, and I have been told by more women than I can remember over the last 26 almost 27 years (stopped biting them as a deal with my Gran when I was 14, stopped overnight too :o)) ) that they would die to have nails as strong and in good shape as mine :o)) "play your cards right darlin` and you can have them" I always reply, unless its a munter of course !! In which case its "I suggest you try fibre glass false ones !!" :o)
I have always belived just because a man does what I do for as living, doesnt mean he has to take his work dirt home with him !!!
Your stash is safe........Cowboy is the name of my profession and I dont mean the rodeo variety. Thats a whole different story. I mean the kind that does his job quietly everyday out in the desert on the back of a horse that you'd just have to be a FOOL to ride. ....thats why I thought your post was ammusing.
You wrote "All letter written by girls who are not registered with the agencies are stored in admin's interface. Administrator has to approve each letter manually to get it sent."
1. How can I tell which girls are registered with the agency and which ones are not, from their profiles?
2.For those who are registered, what is the procedure like as far as sending their letters to the men?
3.For those who have their own private email address, how do they recieve and send letters from/to the men? Why can't they send their letters directly to the men's email address, instead of via the fiance.com route? Are they given the men's email address by the agency?
4. And this one is most important. Does "administrator's approval" mean "censorship" in any way(e.g. editing out email address, phone number, etc)? I hope not. I did receive a reply from a girl in which she gave me her private email address.
Sorry if these questions sound dumb to you guys but I am a newbie and am still a little hazy on those.
1. This information is on each girls profile.
Looks like:
Is this girl independent? Yes, with private e-mail( No, with agency e-mail).
2.If the girl is independent she has her web based account, same as men have at www.fiance.com where they receive letters and submit them from letter form on the site.
If a girl is from the agency-all leters for girls of same agency go to one e-mail account. Manager of the agency gets them, prints out, contacts ladies to come to the office and pick up those. Then ladies return back with their responses. The agency types them and submits from their agency account.
3. Any girl with private e-mail can send a letter directly to man. But only in case he did this address to her himself. After that -to use fiance com or write directly-this is completely up to her.
As for agency ladies-they can get a direct address of men as well. But since they do not have access to the computer and e-mail, they still use servcies of their agency and sent letters via fiance.com.
4. We do not edit messages in any way.Girls can give ANY contact information they want in their messages.
We just look through letters from independent ladies to get sure that lady is not asking for money and this is not some type of scam. If only we see that girls is mass mailing, or asking for money-she gets a warning from administrator and if she still doing it-her profile is deleted. By this way we located and deleted a many potencial scammers.
Thank you soo much, Olga, for your sooo quick reply and soooo clear explanation of things! Looks like the agency does censor the girls' letters, but for a different purpose:-) This takes a ton of apprehension off of my mind.