Some months ago (not exactly when I started my quest for a Russian woman) I started the thread "Kid in A Candy Store". It was in reference to the phase I (thought I) was going into in Moldova - wher I anticipated the idea of having numerous women to choose from - perhaps one for each night that I was there. While I might have been a little over anticipating - I certainly envisioned more variety than I had.
Ensata correctly points out that many of us go through the "Kid in a Candy Shop" when first starting our quest. He accurately details that phases in his "redux" introduction so I shall not repeat it here.
My point with this thread is the next one. What happens when the proverbial kid has made his selection. Of course, in our example he can only ultimately choose ONE selection. But having done so is he sure that he made the RIGHT decision. And will he regret deciding to fast or will he realize that which intially appealed to him - does not hold his interest as long as he thought it would.
I have no doubt that if I were really a kid in a candy store - I would pick some variety of chocolate (hence the title to this thread). And for my selected bag of chocolate i made my trip to Moldova. (Okay, followers of my story will know that I also intended to taste jujubies and peppermints on my way - but that is another thread).
The point is I stayed with my selection hoping to make something of it. I was hoping it would all work out.
Many of us, especially those who are actual contributors to this forum are in the "big bag of cholcolates" phase. And it may happen to others, as it happened to me, that the chocolate makes you sick.
The wonderufl thing is that like the candy store - WE CAN GO BACK. We can try again. And while I hope each and every one of the rest of you finds his final selection the first time - you may not. That's what this thread is about.
I intend to be at the front door of that candy shop when the old lady opens it tomorrow morning.
Now I like my chocolate with nuts - but I really like my women nutless.
By the time Lucy and I meet in July it will have been 5 long months of waiting! The bag of chocolates will still be full (as she is holding the bag thousands of miles away). But will the chocolate still be fresh?
Five months seems like a long time to invest in a relationship without meeting a person. I think that we will hit it off as well in person as we have thus far. But I really don't know. Should my bag of chocolates turn out to be a bag of turd, well I'll return home, lick my wounds, and go shopping at the candy store again. Maybe I'll choose a Mars bar and search for my true love on the red planet.
Okay - here in the US "fags" means something totally different.
It is unlikely that those of us who have an interest in Russian women - who desire the company of a good friend, with chocolate and wine, would also necessarily desire "fags" to make the event even better.
Perhaps a cigarette or a cigar for those who enjoy such things - but that is another matter entirely.