Hello, I am new to this. But I have read most of the forum stuff and have learned a lot. I have a question. I have been writing a certain lady for about a month now. I just wanted to know if anyone here is also writing her, I dont want to step on any toes or anything!! Her id is 19769, name is Nina Tarasenko. THanks guys for your help:-))
Buck
You should ask her.Posting her ID on the forum may get other guys to write her. Remember its free game for every one.Just ask her what you want to know and tell her what you expect as far as being honest with eachother.Good luck
Buck,
I would strongly suggest you cease and desist from posting any particular ladies ID numbers with those questions.
It makes you look insecure and cowardly.
Put yourself in the Nina's shoes when she finds out you have been asking strangers what they think of her and if anyone has been corresponding with her?
and trust me....someone will tell her what you're doing!
She's too short for my taste, but she is a real cutie.
There will be a direct relationship between the amount of people reading this thread and the letters Nina will receive in the next few days, lol.....you're out of this race, buckyboy. and you have nobody to blame but yourself.
Buck, I just had a look at your girl, and then I realised I had seen her before !! She is and has been a "Miss Wow" for a while, so mate, no matter what she tells you, she Must be corresponding with a few men, no woman gets to be on the Miss Wow list until she has recieved a HUGE number or letters from men !!
Buck, I know her as many do I am sure, she sent me a letter and I knew she was not for me. I got her letter and within 1 week shw was in miss wow and had something like 250 letters sent to her, and she is from Azov, another no thanks for me anyway. I do not know the true answer to your question, but if I was a betting man, which I am not, I would say that your not the only one she corresponds with.
Dump her Buck, if you really want our advice, thats the best we can give, and Im pretty certain noone here will argue with that !
Many of us have been around the block, some like me know each and every shop on all 4 sides of the bugger, we do know what we are talking about, and if you stick with us, weill help as much as we can :o)
she asked me a few esoteric questions, I realised her letters were templated and ceased to write, in her defence, she never asked me for anything. Tim, I actually am up to 30 letters with two miss wows, I have to say, they both reply daily, personal letters, send me pictures of their family, one was 24 yesterday and the other is 25, so maybe a little young. while I would agree that a miss wow is likely to be not too insecure, I have to say, these two are nice sincere young girls, maybe it is their looks which attract too many letters. One of them says she gets an initial letter from a guy, actually having a go at her for being so popular. Now I can't say our letters are intimate, but everyday, they write, tell me about their day in detail, remember what I have said I would be doing, wished my daughter appy birthday, so I am dubious of tarring them all with a bad brush. I understand where you are coming from Tim, two of them I have found to be everything you would think they are, the other two are respectful, interesting and delightful
Trad, I cant say for certain I am right about anything mate, and its lovely to hear positive feedback about the Miss Wows.
I can never say they are all the same, but I had a letter from one and it was superficial bullshit, as was her next, and her next and her next !! And that was the last one I even read, havnt heard from her since.
My gut instinct is the same as yours Tim, these two weren't miss wows when I started to write, and that would have probabaly put me off, maybe these two are the exception
I just read through this whole tread, and sure enough I find out that I am also corresponding with the lady in question, and also another one that tradman refers to. Actually I just got a letter from the second one, the one who just turned 24, and it is interesting because one one hand I saw she got my letter today (Wednesday)and responded to it today, and hers was written Monday (she said so in the letter). As Tim says I've gotten quite a few generic letters in the sense that the same words could be (and perhaps were) directed to someone else, it's copy and paste. Nice enough letter, but I wanted to post a thread anyway to see what other people's thoughts are on the percentage of genuine correspondence vs. fluffy one. To me it seems the genuine one is in the minority, perhaps 2 to 1, I don't know if I'm just having bad luck - that is not to say that I haven't been getting some really nice letters as well. I don't know whether there are cultural differences that cause them to act or write a certain way. Any comments would be appreciated.
I hope I'm not violating any etiquette here, and I would not tell any detail about what is being written (with the exception of the above example because it's not personal) but it is somewhat disappointing.
I think it is ok jj, you and I both know the girl in question, you have not posted any of her personal letter here, so I think it is ok to discuss her in the third party
she does like to write, long letters all about her day and what she is up to, pleasant correspondance, but do not think anything will come of it, I have not told her I am in her city next week