Sancho I don't understand why do you think that women from FSU don't have enough brains and will to decide what way of life do they like best??? :) if a girl likes the western way of life, and style of behaviour then she will lead that very life even here where everybody don't follow it, and if a girl likes eastern kind of behavour then she will still keep following it in the west, and she will not think even the single moment about it, and she will not think that she does something wrong..
Sancho...all the happiness is in hands of a person, if a man wants to be happy he will do everything to find his happiness...and nobody can tell him but himself if this girls is a right one or not.
-If he is clever: Yes.
-If not: No, he will make mistake and believe very simple stories about women.
It's called "Un-realistic expectations".
If a man believe ALL western women are the same, he can (perhaps) believe all FSU women are the same...
(it's called 'stereotype')
(of course i'm not talking about men here in Forum).
Sancho- If you read back many pages of this forum, you will find many horrors stories (along with the the good ones) of FSU marriages to foreigners. Everyone knows they're taking a risk. I agree with you about the stereotyping of women. There are good and bad women, whether they are eastern or western.I believe many men here do have unrealistic expectations also. We must try to keep are smarts when choosing a potential mate. Though it can still end in disaster. I know that one or two meetings with a woman is not enough time to really get to know one another but who can afford to fly over there once a week for a year to better understand their relationship? Maybe luck will play an important part for me.
Thanks for the kind words. But it's not because I'm a great communicator. It's because I'm a decent human.
Dale E I agree with you there is always a risk. I'm not going in with
any great euphoric ideas. Women are women. I just happen to believe tradition plays a larger part in these women then their counterparts her. I'm not stereotyping women here in the states. It's just the talent pool here isn't at the same level.
"... It's because I'm a decent human.
..."
-that too.
but imagine you all find good brides and live happily ever after.
Then some moron see it and and decide:
All I need to do is buy russian mail order bride...
Then problems starts and feminist lawyers make 'immigration' put up more 'hurdles'....