Why exactly have confidential connections chosen to change their name to ualadys.com. Because they are dishonest company. I have had experience with ualadys.com and can confirm what the other poster here has stated is that somebody in the office writes the letters for the ladies.When you go to meet the ladies at ualadys.com they have no memory of what has been said in your letters that you have previously sent them! How can this be? Because somebody at ualadys.com has written the letters for them.Yes ladies are real, ladies letter is Not.
Also many But not all of the 18 to 24 age ladies profile state they seek a man up to age 50 years or 55 years.Of this is to entice a man to write to ualadys.com and pay the 6 or 7 dollars it cost to send e mail ualadys.com. ualadys.com writes ladies age profile preference in man without knowledge of lady.
Personally i would rather have the option of getting the ladies home address first even if it cost 30 or 40 dollars to get it, rather than pay per letter rip off.
I just picture this happening in the US - being able to buy a very pretty girl's home address and telephone #? lol. Can you say "Hello... I'm a stalker and I want to marry you!" :)
I never met an 18-24 woman who says 50-55 is okay. When its honest its like 22-35. So I agree that its the agency doing that to get the gullible lonely guy's hope built up to help their cash cow machine.
apal
it would be very difficult to stalk a woman in ukraine due to fact that ALL of her replies will be from men in u.s , u.k and western europe. it is only natural that a man would want her home address first as assurance that she exists. A simple flower delivery and letter to her home address would confirm she exists. It is also certainly a lot less expensive than paying ualadys.com very expensive prices
Haw,
You are right on many points. To see life through their eyes is next to impossible. Our experiences
in our cultures prevent us from fully understand girls motives. Girls are all different, even girls who see things on TV would not want all that they see. Some girls would want it all and because western men cater
to their wishes, they feel they are entitiled to all. Other girls are just as happy with simpler things.
"One main reason why I look for a friend there is, that the women are NOT western women, but have a new set of ideas on how to make life for her new family/partner more bearable and joyfull."
Well said Haw.
I think you've made some excellent points. Of course, we can just stick to 'membership' agencies, but I would suggest that they are more popular, so the competition is greater, and their main catchement areas are the main cities, which are overworked anyway.
With membership agencies, I think we can also become careless in expressing our interests and conversing for the sake of it, which may not entirely be fair on the ladies, and the social conditions they have to operate in to respond.
Don't worry too much Apal, she was saddened with the fact she will get no more freebies.
Next day when she finds another, she'll be happy as a lark!!!! :)))
All i want is some woman about 21 to 28 age with a dolly parton type upper figure but not too much intellectual ability above the neck. so ualadys.com now have a south american operation to rip people off there too interesting.
Expect all foreign girls you write to in the FSU countries to be dating local men..they do not put all there eggs ( hopes ) into one basket by corresponding with men on the other side of the Earth because the sad facts are less than 4% of western men will make the personal visit to Russia etc. to meet her and it will never get beyond the letter stage.
She wants to ahve a realtionship and start a family and meet the right man whether it be by local dating or internet dating of foreigners..she has to keep her options fully open and there is nothing wrong with that.
I agree with beemer18 on this one..the FSU girls have a right to pursue happiness by all available means and you will mever be her one and only by just writing letters or telephoning..it needs to go to the personal visit and then the fiance visa before you become her one and only..writing letters means nothing!
Aussie, where did you get that 4% figure from, I thought it was a higher number.
I do want to add, I am not giving up on dating women at home, just don't know what the future holds!
Aussieman, then when are you going to make your trip to the FSU, so at least you can speak with experience? I remember a former member being hammered for being a cherry. I think when you make the trip Aussieman, I might hold credence in your posts.
Beemer18, the actual figures that have been thrown around is 4-5% of men who write women in the FSU actually make the trip. That's why this industry is laden with crooks and thieves. They know most guys won't even show up. Most are the keyboard romeo's looking for virtual love etc.
The guys who actually make the trips, unless they are absolutely anal retentive will do pretty well. Anal retention covers many areas. Like finding the right woman, not using agencys services, controlling your own destiny and not searching for a woman who could pass as your daughter.
Common sense and good atitude will carry you far, at least in Ukraine it will.
I agree that common sense and good attitude is a good start.
I stated that girls "DO DATE LOCAL MEN" for those new to this agency process - who have no clue about what they are getting into. I saw it first hand. I also agree that girls will and should have all options available to them.
By the way... I found out that they have a lot of local dating websites in Russian... and checked it out. Girls who are 18-24 search for men 30 maximum
If you are about 44, you are a target for girls aged 30-40.
www.flirt.com.ua is very big, I am chatting with some nice girls there, and one is living almost next door :))) but it's all in Russian, get in touch with me directly and I can help you to post your profile there if you wish, my e-mail address is not a secret and was posted here before
Just go to Yahoo and do the search for "Lugansk Ukraine" and you will find me easy... or check your private messages on this forum, I just sent you my e-mail address. It was deleted by moderator in the posts as I am a serious competitor for them in my area :) Well... they always can send me invitation to work together...
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