I'm new to all this, so please forgive me if i sound a little crude. How long after you meet with a Russian woman, would they expect to sleep with you? I mean, do they view sex in the same way we do, or is it sex-after-marriage?
I know it's not a major issue, but just a point i'd like clearing up.
It all depends on whether she is a virgin and how hairy she actually is...!!
Serious now...(well kinda)
As with most women from all over the world, their age and sexual life experiences will determine your chances to get into their panties....and just like with most women all over the world, SHE decides when you are granted access to them.
I have only enjoyed sex with FSU women in Calif, Mexico, Hawaii and a few other US states...and if it is the same in Russia or other FSU countries, I tell you it's worth it!!
no strick rule here. All I can say is that they are women. Different in many ways but still women. Use you lifes experience and try not to focus on this point to much or like all women, they will smell your fear LOL
When a woman agrees to go to your place after the date she will expect and understand that you will make a move to get her in bed. Chances are if she agrees to go to your place then she wants you too. Otherwise she will avoid the whole situation and not agree to go to your place. The thing that I love about FSU women is that they are not offended if you make the move too soon. They see you as a man and that is what a man does. No games! I love it!
Deanis, and you tell me only now? Gosh, and I thought they want coffee when you invite them. Dam!
But seeing that this is a bit of an hairy subject in any case, if you don't want coffee what do you ask them then? "You want to come up for some Virgin?" ;-)
In my own case I will simply buy a bottle of wine and ask her if she would like to come up to my apartment to share it. Actually I have a feeling that she will ask me back to her place without any prompting. I agree with Deanis completely. We are all grown ups and she and I both know we are on the fast track. She actually mentioned this to me, kind of refreshing after all the BS I have put up with western women. It has to be this way - see Frank Vans thread about processing K1 visas. She actually offered for me to stay with her rather than rent an apartment.
Just hope that when I do get there, I don't get the peck on the cheek and the old "well its been fun, goodnight" at the front door like here. I think it will fall into place just as it should. Not worried.
It never ceases to amaze me how blue balled, sexually deprived and even repressed so many american men (usually married to or involved with american women) are. Even in California, land of the swingers and so called hedonists.
On my walls, I have a large collection of photos of my kids, memorable moments in Toad history and of course, of Lena and I when we met.
I entertain almost weekly and the vast majority of males people who visit my humble digs to eat my food and drink my wine have this morbidly and desperate need to know what it's like to have sex with a woman from another culture whenever they see our photos all over my house.
My kids or adventure pics are no longer interesting enough for them, lol...
Since I'm the original product of another culture, I try to difuse, divert and mislead them by recounting my sexual scapades with american women traveling through South America at my tender age of 15.
"NO, no, no you rat bastard; tell us what russian women are in bed. Your russian woman in particular..."
These tactless approach brings out one of my favorite Yoda like home made quotes: "...Want to know another man's pleasures the properly sexually cared man does not.."
Everyone asks the same questions in many different ways, but what is constant is the differences between what interests man and women.
ALL men want to know about sex with russian women. It's my first indication that they're not getting any at home, lol.
ALL the women want to know what russian people in general, not just women, think of americans and what they know about our way of life.
There are approximately 150 million women in russia and FSU countries.
I only had sex with one woman IN Russia and I found more than enough compatibility to scratch it off the "things to find out" long laundry list we BOTH had in anticipation to our meeting.
You're dead onto it Toad with your very up-to-date Yodish wizdom;)) Four years ago, I was dating a red hot, blond American woman who happened to be married (met her on a plane on a biz trip to Brazil). Our erotic escapades lasted several months and became known to my boss who asked that I use the occasion to find out a few competitive secrets from her::)) (worked for a direct competitor). Although a very nice guy, he is married to a woman his age whom he met in college and dated with her since the age of 18-19 or so. Go figure how many women he jumped before her, my very best guess is a very few. And for sure none after marriage. Pictures of the two of them from early years indicated she was a handsome woman. However, after a few visits with them, I determined that she had gained quite some weight around the belly, hips, neck, and so on and had particularly developed a big head (physically) and an even bigger attitude. I recall the occasion when we were sitting in the garden working on our lap tops and having a sandwitch which we had to make our own while she did nothing (always stayed at home), and we committed big crime to leave the little plates on the graden table after we finished. She only had to turn to him, goes "Paaauuul", and poor Paul goes "ohhh!! yes honey I'm sorry" and takes the little plates to the sink and whipes the table clean from all the little bread pieces. Well, one Friday like today, he came by my office and said to me: "you lucky bastard, go out enjoy your single life, and I'm going to the boring married life of my big headed wife":::))
Haven't heard from you al ot lately trav - though i know that after a long absence you are writing now and then again. It your writing, and Thunder's and Gladiator's (and I know I am forgetting someone) that interested me enough to hang out at this forum more than two years ago. You tell a good and interesting story. I hope to read more - well, for the next five weeks I am here anyway.
I hear the sex question constantly as well. The only thing I can commnet on is that they seem more open about there bodies. Less inhibition. Example: When in Latvia I suggested to my 20 year old lady (at the time) that we go to a water-park (it was late fall and too cold to swim outdoors). She declined. She had something else she wanted to do. But she also mentioned that she had no bathing suit. (And, by the way - though I spent six days with this lady - she would not let me BUY her a bathing suit or practically anything else, even when I nearly dragged her into a clothing store and insisted.)
Getting back to my original story - I told her that I was surprised that she did not swim. She said that she did - quite often as a matter of fact - but neither her nor her friends ever wore a bathing suit - as difficult (she said) as that was for American's to understand.
She had a GREAT body but that wasn't the issue. No American woman would EVER swim without a suit no matter how hard she worked at keeping in shape. First of all, on most beaches, of course its illegal. Second - unless completely drunk (I do recall a few college parties) they are way too inhibited.
Well I've spent the better part of the day - cleaning up around here - in preparation for making a few changes and having my lady come sand stay with me. I've dedicated a little time looking for one of those "pots of money" that QT says Toad and I both have. I'd be happy to find even a small one. But so far no luck. I hope that Toad hasn't misplaced his as I seem to have.