Is infidility culturally normal routine for Ukranian girls or is it just this girl (Natalia) below?
I have met Natalia several times before. She doesn't want money - on the contrary - nor sex (at least with me).
I was supposed to pick her up in Nikolaev and drive to crimea for a long weekend on friday. Her "boyfriend" (I had got the impression they were no longer together!) moved to Donetsk a few months ago. Since I live in Bucharest, we are both equal distance to her (9 hours drive).
On Thrusday she cancelled our weekend on some sob story that her boyfriend was coming down. A few hours after she sends this email below (sent yesterday) she texts me she still wants to meet me asap!
Her actions and words seem to suggest that it is culturally acceptable for her to be fooling around with several men at once and that I must accept that fact!
Is it culturally normal in Ukraine for women to be fooling around with men's hearts or is it just that she has some screws missing in her head?
Thanks for the feedback, Brian
Hello Brian!!!!
I cancelled our meeting not by purpose… I really wanted to meet with
you.. as I have noticed there is always something what prevents us from
it.. I didn’t figure out what it could be…
yes, we feel each other and there is a bond between us .. it’s true..
and I realize it with all my heart…
As for boyfriend.. actually we didn’t break our relationship, he just
came to another city… we made relationship almost at the same time: you
with Dana and I am with him… but I never told you that we broke,,, it
was clear between us… and still it is.. I don’t know and I am not sure
whether I can have something with him.. we are together but at the same
time we are not.. may be this fact blocks me from building relationship
with you??? I don’t know!!! I want to feel myself free and do what I
want and never feel myself ashamed before myself… because in such case I
can’t relax..
I can’t clarify my position now… because I can’t think..I am going to
use someone’s help..
Brian, I understand that I keep you, I put your life on hold, I spoil
your mood.. I have no decision..
Please.. don’t be mad at me… I don’t know what is going on….. not
everything is ok with my nerves..
Thank you for sending your positive energy to me… I haven’t got it yet,,
but I wait for it…
Read between the lines......I will be with you but only if my boyfriend can not be with me. Have you ever heard the term 'ol faithful', that is the person that is always there in case all else fails. As long as you know this and it is okay with you then everything is just peachy.
Does this sound familiar???????
Hi dear XXXXXX. I’m really sorry for failure of our meeting. But I had a big XXXXXXXXX
in my life. I didn’t wanna see XXXXXXXX. Please don't be mad. Hope
next time we will meet. I really want it!!!
bem, that relation with her BF is already broken.... the short time pass and they even eill forget their names.... they just live the final period.... when is going like that relation is dieing.... If Brian REALLY wants THAT lady, he could GET het.... but he is or weak or lazy or just not sicere to himself.
I don't know who is weaker or lazier or less sincere, Natalia or Brian. Of course for you tie goes to girl and blame it on Brian. Neither one knows what they want. I still think that the boyfriend is not completely over yet!!!
Monada,
You make it sound so simple but you are not a man( I am glad :)), I went to see a girl whereas she told me she had no boyfriend anymore, problem is she always wanted to take her Mum some food home, no big deal. Until a friend of mine found out she does not live with Mum, only her boyfriend. I was just the stand in until it was time to go home. The boyfriend knew of dates and knew she was only using me as a 'friend' that would end once I had left.
What normal man cares about boyfriends?! Comprede Monada
If I man I don't care about anything, just do what I wanna do. But in any case, no crap by my side.
If smthing goes wrong - turn and go.
If I am interested in girl very much (say in love) - there are others methonds of influence and brains clearning :))
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yea.... we are civilized.... but still... MAN is MAN.
Yes, I am!!! But many many years removed from Spain( ancestors) Now USA...............
Eyes and head???? I was trying to get to know girl and had trust she was sincere but things don't always go as planned. As soon as i found out it was over, in fact , I left during last dinner...I have no idea who paid for it,
certainly not me!!! Proud of Me???? :))))))))))))
If I knew she was shit, I would never have been interested....do you see the problem of sincere western men,
do we have to be cautious of every little thing girl does??? Do we think everything she says is lie????
Hey Bem , Maxi wrote: "It’s not an easy expedition – bloody difficult and full of ups and downs – but the end result for those of us who have found our true love/partner/sole-mate – makes all that, well worth it".
"Semi-private conversation?":))) May be you like me so much?? :))
Maxi, my husband has enough stamina.... otherwise he could be dead at the very beggining :)) I don't wanna be a widow!!! Noooooo!!!! :))
Monada,
Just back from work.....do you miss me????????????????
Maxirat is completely right!!!In US its'terribly' not 'bloody', As long as my belief that I will find my partner in Ukraine then I can RIDE the ups and downs and through it all, when you find that person it will be WELL worth it.
Well didn't YOU like the semi-private conversations?????? I know I don't have to answer...you know already!!!!!
YEEEAAAAA, BEM18, I MISS YOU SOOO MUCH, LOOOK I AWOKE JUST TO READ YOUR POST AND POST OF JET .... hey, I won't ne able to live today without of pair of your compliments :)))
What is 18, hope not your age. May I ask here how old are you?
Sure, I have no problems. I am 50 this year. But stopped counting at 39.
Because of my interests, I tend live life to its fullest!!!
Its my birth day...not my age........ or year I was born!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Do I leave private comments on your 'opera'???????????
Hey, you sound much more younger. I believe that the "age" doesn't exist any more.
I'm not going to be old. In experience and strength - yea.... but in body - Nooooooo
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You may leave comments or do whatever you want. I'm not your boss to give instructions.
sorry guys. It was stupid I put this post. I was drunk (cause I so f..ed off with her) - she has been a real head banging case for me but its over now.